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should i be friends with her or not?


Question Posted Thursday September 7 2006, 5:11 pm

okay. well.. my BESTBESTBBBEEESSST friend was over, kt, who is practically like my sister and we were talking on aim and she is like, tell **** shes annoying, so i did and then **** was like your the ugliest girl i ever met ,go kill urself and alot more (**** said that to kt) and me and **** were like REALLY good friends before all this,, so it sucks bc ofcours i take kt's side. buttt **** also lied to ppl saying that we told her to kill herself (which we didnt) and then people were mad at us for no reason whatsoever but this was all sunday and monday- and weds was ****'s Bbbirthday and i made her a card and tonihgt im getting her a present, she was really happy when i gave her the card and she told my friend that it made her day. even tho i made her a card, DOESNT mean that me nn her are friends again but i couldnt just not bc we were rlee close do u think i shouldnt give her a gift thoo?? i mean...the last 2 years shes gottnnn ne something nn i hadnt got her anything... and also,, should i be friends with her again? or should i wait until kt forgives her bcc i just doo not knooowww. hhhelllpp!!!

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x_woah_me answered Thursday September 7 2006, 6:00 pm:
This is going to be a stupid question.. but deal. If kt jumped off a bridge would you ? Most likey not. You`re your own person. If you want to forgive **** then go for it, its not up to kt. She doesn`t control you. Do you honestly have a real reason to be mad at **** ? If you do, is it worth losing a friend ? You shouldnt be mad at someone because your other friend is. If you being friends with **** would make kt mad, then let kt be mad. You shouldnt have to pick between friends, and its wrong to do so. Even though kt is a very good friend of yours, you shouldnt pick her side. You shoulnt pick anyside.. ever. It shows favoritism (spelling) & thats not nice.. If you honestly have a reason to be mad at **** then thats okay..
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**** is your friend right ? She has helped you threw alot, of different things i`m sure. I think you should get her something, even if it`s small. It`s the thought that counts.. right ? I would get**** something small, but yet thoughtful. It was nice of you to get her the card.
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This will be totally my own thoughts right here... but, I think kt brought you into the fight. She should have told **** herself. Sure you were doing a friend thing, but do you have a problem with **** or do you just have one because kt has one ? You are you own person, dont let other make dissions for you.. If you want to forgive **** then go for it & same with the gift, its totally up to you..
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