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The name is Alina Rae. I am a female. I am an adult according to the law. I blow out the birthday candles on the 26th of November. I am head over heels in luuuurrrrve with that guy Jesus. He saved my life. I'm a liberal. I believe in To Write Love On Her Arms. I enjoy a cup of black coffee and a good conversation. I love music and books. I am a bit socially akward, though you wouldn't know it. I want to be a nurse. I currently work at Quay Street Brewery and have been there for 2 years. I hate dogs. I enjoy Ice Caps. I enjoy driving. I love having the windows down. I sleep a ton. I don't know what happiness is, but I am learning.

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15 / F
I just got a bible as a present, it's an NIV version. It's purple and green and soo cute, and I'm feeling...inspired. I really want to start sitting down and studying, reading, whatever you want to call it.
My family has a strong Christian background, but we don't go to church or anything like that.
It's such a big book! So...where do I start?
In the back, there are some lists of versus about Jesus' healings and things like that.
I just don't know where to begin. Some versus in the New Testament are in red. Should I start with those?
Do I even read the whole Bible word for word, in order?! Gahhh! I'm so overwhelmed. Please, help!

I am so excited for you. The Bible is by far the greatest book ever, ever written!

I would recommend starting with the new testament if you have never read the Bible before. It is the easiest and most relevant to present-day life.

Furthermore, a devotional would be really helpful. Try and look for one that is directed towards teens because they will help connect things to your life andd in your lingo. You can find them at Barnes and Noble or Borders or if you have a Family Christian Book Store around.

Don't get too stressed out about the size, most importantly ENJOY IT! It is an awesome way to draw closer to God and to experience him in all of his glory. You do not have to read it in any sort of order. Like I said, I think the new testament is easiest to start. Or the Pslams or Proverbs which are in the Old Testament.

If you need any more help don't be afraid to email me. Good Luck! =)

Alina

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Hello everyone :D

Alrighty so I'm 17 years old, turning 18 in September. I've been raised with a mother who is cooky in the head, but has a strong religious side, although her other side might be extremely contradicting. But, on the other hand, I have been raised along a father as well, who is open minded, easy going, and just a tad bit religious, nothing big though. My dad's side is Catholic, my mom's side is Evangelist(i think). I, on the other hand, went to a Christian church, not sure what kind though, since there are many under Christianity. To be honest, yes, I believe in God, but I'm not devoted to church, nor am I very religious, I'm more like my father. Umm, recently, my boyfriend who is 18 years old has had his first communion, and confirmation. He talked to me, and it seriously got me thinking when he asked me the question, "Are you baptised, and if you aren't, would you like to be?". I found out I am NOT baptized, but I'm not sure about the second question. Can someone please shed some light?
-What is the purpose of being baptized?
-What if you aren't baptized and never get baptized?
-What religions require baptism and which don't?
- Pros and cons?

Any info would be greatly appreciated!!

:}

Here is what I know about being baptized:

1- If you are going to do at the age of 17 (since many people do it has infants) you should want to do it. You are old enough to make that decision for yourself and God wants you to want to do it.

2- Baptism is the symbolism of you washing your sins away and becoming a new creation in Christ, joining the family of God, if you will. I do not believe that you are condemned if you aren't baptized however I think that if you are willing to be a Christian it is an important step to take.

3- I think that if you want to be a Christian and are willing to devote your life to God, baptism is a good step. But again, you really must want to do it.

Could you talk to your boyfriend about hsi spiritual life? Or someone else in your life about the aspects of the Christian faith to learn more about it?

I hope that helps

Alina

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hey, im a christian, and im 16, i've been looking for some cute teenage quotes, for example:

God is Love and Love is Real.
Above al else guard you heard -Proverbs something
this is my command love one another -bible.

you know what i'm getting at?
help me out?

If you would like I could email you some biblical quotes... my email is alina_rae@hotmail.com send me an email if you would like some. I have read most of the bible and know a lot of good ones. Although, I highly recommend that you read it the bible yourself....it is AWESOME!

Here is a quote you might like:

When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me".
Erma Bombeck

Hope that helps!

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What kind of drug is smoked using a soda can? What type of side effects does it cause and symptoms to look for and for how long does the effect last? Signs to look for if you think someone is doing this?

Chances are you would smoke weed using a soda can. The side-effects would include dry mouth, hunger (the munchies), and bloodshot eyes. You would feel a little disoriented but nothing major. A lot of people people believe it is okay to even drive while high (although I will not recomment that!!!!) The effects will last an hour to a couple of hours depending on how high they get. Hope that helps.

Alina

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I was just recentely put on birth control pills for the first time. For regulating my period. My doc put me on Alesse (sp?) After reading reviews about it and interent site comments.. it seems like one of the most hated bc pills. All I read was horror stories over and over again about it making your skin so much worse. I've never had a problem with breakouts before, so I'm hoping this won't affect me. It's deff freaking me out!! Have any of you tried it? How'd it work for you girls?


And.. kinda awkward question but once I finish my 1st pack of bc pills I have to go in for a pap smear. All the girls in my family said it was just uncomfortable not painful. But they're all older, and I'm a virgin so I'm REALLY scared of how that will be :-( How was it if you had it done before??


THANKS!!

I have a had a frew friends on that praticular birth control and they had no problems with it. And although we all react differently to different medications, you probably don't have anything to really worry about. The most important thing is to keep your doctor informed of any odd side-effects that you are having. There are lots of birth control options out there, it might take awhile to find the right one for you.

I just had my very first pap smear last week. I am a virgin too and I was on the brink of a panic attack before I went because I was so nervous. But I promise you that it will take you longer to read this advice than the pap smear will actually last. Hopefully you get a good dr who will talk you through the whole thing because that really helped me out. It will be akward but it shouldn't hurt! If it is hurting make sure you let your dr. know. You feel silly because obviously someone is seeing all of that but don't worry about it...it is their job, they see it all the time.

Good luck!
Alina

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ok i've had this friend for a long time i guess you can say. i met her in 2nd grade & we were friends for awhile & in ms & now hs. i'm a sophmore right now, & so is she, & awhile ago we were talking about how my school has a lot of drama & gossip. she told me if i heard people talking about her, to tell her. well, i did. a few of my friends told me that she had oral sex. okayy maybe not a big deal, but this is a friend i've known since elem & played power rangers with when we were like 8!! plus she's really quiet & shy. it's juss weird to me. i'm almost positive they're not lying. i def don't think i should tell her this but i want to. it was with some guy, not really her bf but sort've & i don't think of her the same at all. we're not best friends er anything but she was still my friend. soo basically should i say something er not?? i heard it from a few people so it's not a big secret i guess.

thanks!!

Regardless if she is your best friend or just a "regular" friend, she has the right to know what people are saying about her. Wouldn't you want to know? Even if it isn't true, she can try and stop the rumor, but she has to know about it first.

I would tell her.

Good Luck.
Alina

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My parents are what you would call...overprotective. Yes, thats a good way to some it up. Lets put it this way, i am in higschool, and i am still not allowed to have more than one friend over at a time, i have never had a party, i have never went TPing, nothing. Thsi is the first year i have been allowed to go to my school's football games and i had to beg to go to homecoming.

My mom hates my best friend, she thinks shes a "bad influence" and refuses to let me go to her house and my house is totally lame. Whenever seh invites me over, my mom gets soo mad at me and we get into a fight. I have asked my parents mroe than once to try and trust me but they say they cant. WHat can i do to make my parents ease up a little?

*note* i can be trusted, i have been an all "A" honor student my whole life while juggling 3 seasons of varsity sports....i am MORE than responsible*

This is the same exact thing that I go through too. Have you tried asking your parents exactly why they can't trust you? If you are truly responsible there should be no good reason. I have made deals with my parents such as if I am home by 11, then I can go out later next time. And I always make sure that I am on time.

Is there anything about your friend that makes your mom think she is a bad influence? I don't want to sound preachy...because it could just be your mom. But you need to look at it at all angles.

I would try and have a conversation with your parents, and as difficult as it will be, bite your tongue. The less you argue the more points you have as to why you should be given more trust.

Good Luck.
Alina

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