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do i love my bestfriend?
I love this guy hes my bestfriend and i dont know what to do ive already dated him on and off about 20 times. Im afraid to give him a kiss one because it would be his first kiss and two because weve been bestfriends for 6 years...he keeps asking me to kiss him.. i mean i have kissed a lot of guys but something about kissing my bestfriend feels so weird i want to but i dont ..im so confused..please help!
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Personally I think you should. There's a reason he's saying this. I think it's because he wants his first kiss to be with you. Just kiss him and make him happy, because it's not like your hurting yourself wasting your first kiss on him. If you've kissed alot of guys it really shouldn't affect you.
Hope I helped..
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well dont do anything you dont want to do! Because you dont want to regret it! Obviously you just dont want to screw up yous guys' friendship SO i think id tell him that and if hes your bestfriend i think hell understand
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umm can you read your topic and read your first sentence. lol. anyway ya i think you should just go for it. wut can it hurt really.
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you need to see if you still have feeling for this guy.. which probably means you guyz really liked each other beacse you went out so much.. you have to make up ur mind.. i think you should go ahead n kiiss him if you still THINk or NO dat you like him..
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What exactly do you mean by saying that you've dated him on and off about 20 times?
If you've had numerous attempts to change your relationship from friendship to something more and it's never worked out, or even got off the ground properly there's probably a good reason for that. Perhaps you are both interested in each other as more than friends, but you are stalling because you are afraid of what might happen.
Some of the best romantic relationships start as ordinary friendships, but there are obvious dangers that it won't work out and you not being able to make it through the experience as good friends, or friends at all.
A degree of uncertainty is natural at the start of any romantic relationship especially one which has high risks for a friendship, but if you are so unsure that you are stalling about kissing him and have already rejected him more than once (you've dated on again off again) and, in your own words, it feels "so weird" then maybe it isn't so right after all? You say you love this guy and he certainly seems interested in you, and yet it's not going anywhere at the moment.
I think if you have romantic feelings for a close friend, you need to be absolutely honest with yourself - is it worth the risk? You need to make a decesion and then trust in your own judgement.
If the answer is no, you value your friendship too much and you aren't convinced it would work out, then don't go ahead and be firm with your friend. If however you do decide it's worth the risk, trust your judgement and go for it. It's hard not to keep second-guessing yourself and wondering if this is really the right thing when the odds are high, as they are when you begin dating a friend, but if you've decided to go for it you need to relax and enjoy that decesion.
All the best.
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