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My name is Meghan. I am a junior and I like to hear people's problems and try to help them. I'm going to college to be a pyschologist so i'm thinking this will be good practice. You can ask anything.
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Ive got a problem ive had since i was about 9 years old. My mom has always had me do chores around the house and it was never a problem until i turned 9. What happened when i turned 9 was i was able to get erections. When ever i pick up a bottle of cleaning solutions or a feather duster, i get enormous erections that will not go away for a couple hours. I am really embarrased about this problem and i like helping my mother clean but i dont enjoy having erections for a couple of hours. How do i tell my mom about this problem?
you are either messing with me or you do really have this problem. you are wierd!
im at a new school and i dont kno anybody what can i do to make new friends im 15
Talk to as many people as possible. get to know everyone. hope that helped you out.
one of my best friends and i have recently started to drift appart...she is so smart and beautiful and im afraid shes going down the wrong path. all of a sudden she goes out with guys and smokes weed i think shes doing it becuase shes not real experianced with guys and shes doing this to make up for it..shes also turning into a real bitch she never calls me back and she forgot about a trip to the mountans we were taking with another friend, how do i talk to her and try to make her understand how i feel
I'm glad you asked me this question because my ex best friend, yeah that may sound weird, but she started doing this stuff also. she started dating really bad guys and having sex with them and drinking and smoking and i told her how i felt about it. She said that she didnt care what i thought because it was her body and she was going to do what she wanted. she also said that she did this because i was dating a really hot guy and that i was getting attention from him and i wasnt givin her attention. So i said you know i love you as a friend and i want everything to go back to how it used to be, but if you keep acting like this and treating me terribly, then i guess we cant be friends anymore. So she ended up saying fine i dont wanna be friends. Now after a year she regrets all of it and wants our friendship back. i havent given it back to her. i dont think she deserves it after the way she had been treating me. i wish you the best of luck and hope your friendship turns out better than mine. the best thing for you to do is talk to her and tell her how you feel about it. i hope i helped you out.
about two years ago i met a guy and we became really really good friends then about nine months later we started dating, at first it was really wierd for me becuase we had been so close but i knew that i liked him as more than a friend so we continued dating...we dated for about six months and got pretty close but people talked a lot of shit about us and kept telling me he was cheating on me with his ex. i talked to her and she told me that they hardly even talked anymore but she admited that she still liked him. another month later we got in a stupid argument really over nothing and it ended. for about 2 months we still talked a lot and were pretty close but all of a sudden we stopped talking. i still think about him all the time and i wish we could at least just talk again, ive heard that he thinks that i dont wanna talk to him becuase he thinks that i dont care about him anymore, his best friend told me that he still kinda likes me even though he has a little fling with a new girl, should i try to start talking to him again, or just let it be?
I think that if you really like him still then you should talk to him, even just as friends. If you think that he is pretty close to this new girl, i think you should just let it go and be friends with him. Hope i helped. Good luck.
Ive been with my girlfriend for about 7 months
and weve talked about sex my worry is my penis
is not real big im a bit worried about it
does size matter that much?
I think if you're gf loves you enough to have sex with you, then she won't be worried about how big or small you are. Especially if she is as virgin. Size would matter on that part because the bigger you are, the more it would hurt her unless she's been fingered a lot. Don't worry about it. Good luck!
how do you get a girl to go away that's obsessed with you, her name is mmeghan, and she says i turn her on. haha, j.k, im pretty sure you know who this is, so, you wanna talk to that *someone* for me? hehe, i can't get the nerve to ever do anything like that, lol. ttyl...
ya know...it took me a hwile to figure out who this was............Leah Marie Germershausen......your ass better talk to him or i will talk to him for you, and you don't want me to do that....oh *someone* leah wants to fuck you in bed.....please do somethign with her so she'll stop hounding me with this.....love you leah!!!
what is a good way to get a guy? i like this guy so much but im afraid to do anything. an advice?
Well, talk to him first. And then if he shows you any signs of liking you back, then you should tell him how you feel. But talking to him is a good place to start. Hope i helped and good luck!
okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to
Well, i myself am doing exactly what you are. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 yrs and we have done nothing but kiss. I'm glad to hear that you are waiting this long and i'm glad you want to be extra safe. i have been on birth control for over 2yrs now and i started mine because i had irregular periods. You can call planned parenthood and they will give you birth control without your parents knowing. But if you have irregular periods, they straighten them out by going on the pill. Good Luck and if you have any more questions you can just ask.
well heres the deal, my parents have been divorced since a was like 3 (im 13 now). ive always lived with my mom and my dad lives over 300 miles away. i can only see my dad every-other weekend and i really don't like that. i miss my dad a lot when im not over there and im thinking about maybe moving over to his house. but i don't want to hurt my mom's feelings or leave all my friends here (but i don't think that making new friends will be a problem). ive also been having lots of problems with my mom lately...
what do you think i should do?
i'll rate high
Wow, i am in the same situation as we speak. My mom and dad are going through a divorce right now and at the moment i haven't seen my dad for 2yrs. This has been the hardest thing for me. I also have a boyfriend where my dad lives and we have been together for almost 2 yrs. That again is another problem. I have myself thought of moving in with my dad just because i'm tired of all the crap being said and done around here. I think you should talk to your mom about this. I have and right now i'm going through custody. This is a very hard experience. For me that is. But i know exactly what you are going through. I hope i helped you out. You should really talk to her about it and your dad. If you have any questions you can talk to me about it. I know exactly what you are going through and it's terrible. Good Luck!
Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for a really long time, and we are in love with each other. He is 16 and I am 15. He has fingered me and I have given him a hand job. I know that we are going to have sex and looses our virginities to each other, but not yet though. For part of his Christmas present, I was going to give him head, but I've never done it before. He has no idea yet, and I want it to be a surprise. The thing is, he's gotten head before from an ex-girlfriend, but I've never given anyone head. I know what it is and everything, but how do you give it! My question is this: How do you give really good head?
well honestly, i have never given head yet. So i wouldn't know what to tell you on that one. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 yrs and havent done anything cause we want to take everything slow. Um, i guess maybe you should ask him about it or one of your friends who has, if there are any. I think he would be the best person to ask this cause he woudl know how he'd like it. I do realize it's a surprise but maybe you could casually ask him without him knowing you are going to be doing it.
Ok this is a random question but i got my period friday morning and it wasnt heavy at all throguh friday and saturday and sunday. Its monday and when i took out my tampon there was close to nothing on it. is it normal to only have your period for like 4 days? ( its not my first )
Well, i only get my period for 3 days so yeah it's normal. It's not normal to have your period for more than a week. Don't worry there's nothing wrong. Hope that helped.
Whenever I eat something in front of my boyfriend, I get all embaressed. I guess its because Im afraid I'll get food on my lips or face or something like that, so I only take a bite when he's looking away. Its so weird - I dont even notice Im doing it until he says something to me. I feel stupid eating when he's staring right at me tho. Does anyone have any suggrestions for what I can do to fix this ? Thanks a million.
t first i felt that way when my ex and i were together, but honestly, they don't care how you eat, as long as you dont scarf things down as soon as you get them. But just act natural, dont worry what he thinks, he wont think you are gross or anything. He's a guy, nothing really grosses them out. But i was a little skeptible to eat in front of my ex and i said that to him and he said that it was ok, that it's cute to see a girl eat. I guess because we are so picky about everything. I hope that helped.
i am growing hair in very wierd places and i dont know what to should i shave it all off or what please help me
well josh...you should know why you have that problem by now...u r a senior...and its up to you to shave it off or not...lol
meghan i love you and want sex VERY VERY bad and i want to kiss you all ova and ova and again i want to suck on your yummies and i want you to lick my rock hard wee wee and ryan said he want to have a threesome with you and he told me you have a afro .............
hahahahahaha.....yeah ok josh....i love you too.....
well, ive been homeschooled for all of highschool life and it sucks. but something has changed. this year my mom let me go to public school for the first time for my senior year. and ive never seen so many girls in my life and as i just walk down the hall-way i have a constant hard-on.during lunch i just go in my car and beat-off so much. what do i do? also while i was homoeschooled i had a major crush on my teacher. even though i see her every day she wont make a move on me or even respond to the moves i make on her. what should i doo?
Ok first of all drop the teacher thing cause it's not going to work. And what is up with the whole beat off thing? You should go buy porn if you're that desperate. Good luck.
Recently I have been experimenting with oral sex on myself. Im not sure if thats gross or not but my girlfriend loves to give head, but i ejaculate too fast for her to enjoy it. Im only doing this myself to build up tolerance. It's actually for my girlfriend so its not wrong, right?
how the hell are you giving urself oral? Whatever u are doing you should share with ur guy friends cause i'm sure they'd want to kno.
ok.. let's say there's this dude that's going out with one of ur bestfriends. it took him 2 months to grow the balls to kiss her. just kiss. a peck on the lips. yes. well. SHE wants him to move a little faster, y'kno?? otherwise it seems like they're NEVER gonna have sex. even when they're married!! *rolls eyes* neways. HOW do you talk him into moving a lil faster??? like.. ahem, tongue action. seriously. usually it's the girl that wants to take it slow.. so wuts wrong with the dude?but yeah. do you kno some way to get a guy to not be so shy??? thanks.
I don't know...just let nature take it's course...you can't just rush someone into doing something just cause you want them too. You could try talkin to him. But usually pushin ppl into something ususally makes it worse. They feel obligated to do what you want from then on. I think you should just let this friend of yours go at his own pace. Hope i helped you.
I am a guy. This question deals with masturbation. When a girl is "rubbing the deodorant" or jerking you off are you supposed to tell her when your about to climax or are you just supposed to let it go all over her hands?!???
Well, it would be nice to tell her that. So that way she isn't unprepared. It depends on how you feel abotu it. Maybe you should ask her. Hope that helped. Good luck.
Ok, let me first start off by saying that this is wierd. I know who you are because i see you updating this at school. What were you do if i told you i had a crush on you...what would be your advice.
Well, i think you should come up to me and tell me that you like me. I'm pretty open about stuff like that so....I you think you should definately tell me. Hope that helped you.
what would you do if your friends or peers are making you feel depressed and all you want to do is find another group of friends but they all act the same what can i do to get noticed and have fun during shool instead of being depressed about it?
Get involved in clubs or activities. Talk to the peopel you are firends with and tell them that they make you depressed.I really don't know what more to say. Sorry. Hope it helped though.