Question Posted Wednesday December 22 2004, 12:55 pm
one of my best friends and i have recently started to drift appart...she is so smart and beautiful and im afraid shes going down the wrong path. all of a sudden she goes out with guys and smokes weed i think shes doing it becuase shes not real experianced with guys and shes doing this to make up for it..shes also turning into a real bitch she never calls me back and she forgot about a trip to the mountans we were taking with another friend, how do i talk to her and try to make her understand how i feel
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Eyesinoceanwaves answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 6:38 pm: I'm glad you asked me this question because my ex best friend, yeah that may sound weird, but she started doing this stuff also. she started dating really bad guys and having sex with them and drinking and smoking and i told her how i felt about it. She said that she didnt care what i thought because it was her body and she was going to do what she wanted. she also said that she did this because i was dating a really hot guy and that i was getting attention from him and i wasnt givin her attention. So i said you know i love you as a friend and i want everything to go back to how it used to be, but if you keep acting like this and treating me terribly, then i guess we cant be friends anymore. So she ended up saying fine i dont wanna be friends. Now after a year she regrets all of it and wants our friendship back. i havent given it back to her. i dont think she deserves it after the way she had been treating me. i wish you the best of luck and hope your friendship turns out better than mine. the best thing for you to do is talk to her and tell her how you feel about it. i hope i helped you out. [ Eyesinoceanwaves's advice column | Ask Eyesinoceanwaves A Question ]
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