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Friends?
There's this guy who I was really tight with over the summer. We almost went out a couple of times. I liked him on an off.. like a day thing. After the summer we just stopped talking. And then when we tried to talk he'd start an arguement and now he like hates me. So awhile ago I was veiwing his Myspace and I put some bitchy comment about one of his pictures. He sent me a comment back and asked me what that was about and why I'm so mean to him. I'm confused! I thought he hated me and now he's acting like nothing ever went wrong.
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Maybe he doesnt realize he was giving the impression he hates you
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Well.. I'm sure he just didn't expect to get a rise out of you. You probably caught him off guard with the picture comment you left him.
If you want to be friends with him again, then try talking him out with him, he commented you back.. that means he either wants to honestly know why you left him that comment, or he's just looking for more arguments.
If he's acting like everythings alright again, then maybe he wants to try to work it out too.. but then again I dont know all the details so I wouldn't know for sure.
On the other hand, if you want nothing to do with this kid, don't let him see how angry it makes you. He's just trying to start arguments to get a rise out of you. You leaving nasty comments on his pictures may help you get all your anger out, but all its going to do is make him want to get more revenge, and it will just make him want to provoke you even more. But it seems like he was hurt by the comment you left him, and if I'm right about this then maybe you should try talking to him, and if he doesnt accept you trying to talk it out with him, then maybe he's not worth it.
good luck
`jessie
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Maybe you were mistaken having an argument dosen't always mean the person automatically hates you. anyway send him a message saying you heard he hated you and you were mad cause you didnt know why he'd be mad at you for, then apologize for the misunderstaning tell him your confused with his recent behavior and ask if anything is wrong i'm sure he'll respond back nicley.
syireen
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talk to him about it. if you want to be his friend juss leave him a msg about it. if not, then juss leave him go. he kind've seems like a jerk though, but there's nothing wrong with being friends. to solve that problem, the only thing you can do is talk to him ya know?? juss ask him what the deal is.
-hope that helped!♥
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