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Well I'm an honest, down to earth girl who like's to have fun! currently I'm attending college and hope to graduate as a nurse in four years. I love helping people with any issue, giving advice to people who really need it makes me feel good and nice inside. I guess i would say that i can more relate to love/relationship, education, and family issues since I've gone through allot. so if you have any problem or just a quick question dont hesitate I'm here to help!
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my boyfriend james raped me a month ago and I think I may be pregnant and my mom will kick me out even if I was raped she's the type of person who thinks I could have done something about it I told my mom he raped me and she asked me how I could be so stupid to let something like that happen what should I do,Iam only 17 and my boyfriend is 19.
Well let me first say that if you are pregnant you have to ask your self if an abortion is an option. even though im against abortions i cant imagine how any pregnant girl must feel to be in that situation, especially since it wasnt your fault. ok also you need to break up with this guy that is unless your havent already. decide what is more important to you ,your possible future baby or living at home. Im pretty sure your mom wont kick you out, because parents always say that but in the end when it comes to you actually leaving they wont want you to remeber your her daughter that she raised from birth and nothing, not even you getting pregnant should change her love for you.
other then that fate will decide the rest but always remeber that God dosent give you more then you can bare or handle, your stronger then you think.
I am looking to find a part-time paying work of any kind that I can do from home. With going to school full time and taking care of my son, I want to bring in a little extra income. Any ideas or suggestions?
Thanks!!
If your thinking of a stay at home intrenet job then sorry to say their all scams trust me, im saying this from experience i've been scammed into those intrenet survey job offers, home based business, and lots of others in the past. so i'd say the best type of home based job is babysitting peoples kids.
I have freckles all over my face and am thirteen years old. three questions-
- are freckles considered pretty in today's society?
-what are some good techniques (ie: masks, serums, ect)
-good makeup to cover them up?
thanx!
My advices
- Yes, freckles are considerd pretty if anything it makes you unique in a sense ,since majority of people dont have freckles.
- Some good techniques would be to find one of those prodcts they have today that lighten freckles to make them less visable, sometimes making them completly unnoticible.
- Other then a good foundation suited for your specefic skin tone i would suggest what i said above. you can just google it and you'll find lot's of products for that.
I have really bad dandruff on the back of my head and there are like yellow spots on my scalp there
is there any way i can take care of this????
thanksss
There are medicated shampoo's for your problem ask your doctor for a specific type or there's always Head & Shoulders
Hey, I'm a size 32A and I'm 17 years old. Do you think there is any chance at all of them getting any bigger?
no your about 18 i think i wont grow anymore unless you get pregnant
My ex-best friend Hana and I used to be really close, but ever since she went down to visit her cousin (who is pretty slutty herself) she's been acting like the only thing that matters in the world is how good she looks. It was really starting to piss me off, so I told her. She blew it off like it was nothing, which made me angrier. So, now she's started hanging out with two other girls that are known as sluts at our school, and they've really been annoying me. She pretty much dropped me for them, which made me sad. Now since she's found out that her only friends are the other two sluts, she's been trying to be friends with me again. I don't know if I should accept her friendship or not because it really made me angry how she dropped me like that. She hasn't even said sorry... Now since she's been hanging out with those two girls, I haven't talked to her at all. It really makes me sad that we're not friends anymore because we used to be able to tell eachother anything. I've made new friends, but in a way I miss my old one. If you have any advice for me then that would be awesome! Thanks
call her! i know it might be hard considering what she did she should be the one calling you but since its bothering you why dont you be the bigger person and call her or talk to her in school and tell her why things have been the way they are ask for her apology and tell her you miss her,most likly she'll say the same and hopefully things will go back to the way they were
syireen
ok i HAVE a "friend. we were best friends until around december. once in a while we call eachother without my mom finding or dad finding out. ok now we still "miss eachother" but i think she's a little unreliable. ex. she'll say i'll call you back in 5min. but the next thing you know she calls you in like 5hours or never even calls you back. should i still be her friend? cuz it seems like she doesn't even care about me though? so what should i do?
Your over reacting, me and my friends do that all the time it dosent mean we dont care, some times things happen that delay friends from calling each other, or sometimes friends say that cause they get tired of talking. i think you may be too attached to this friend of yours if your debating weather to remain friends or not with her just cause of this reason. also why do your parents not know about you guys calling each other it seems quite odd considering shes just your friends not like a secret boyfriend or whatever.
hey im 13 female and i have a pimple or zit under my bottom lip so it looks like i have a lip ring but i dont want it to iss there any tips about getting ride of it and preventing more? i was my face atleast twice a day.
**sleepiesheep**
I heard toothpaste does the trick! or oxy can get rid of it to.
I've had my period for about 2 years now, and my vagina has never smelled this bad! I know I piss and have my period down there but, I don't understand. I don't think I have a yeast infection. I discharge alot but I don't think I have a yeast infection...Do I? Help please...
13/f
You could have a yeast infection or it could be something else, you need to check with your doctor i know it could be embarrasing but come on it's worth it if it means you can stop the smell right?
syireen
There's this guy who I was really tight with over the summer. We almost went out a couple of times. I liked him on an off.. like a day thing. After the summer we just stopped talking. And then when we tried to talk he'd start an arguement and now he like hates me. So awhile ago I was veiwing his Myspace and I put some bitchy comment about one of his pictures. He sent me a comment back and asked me what that was about and why I'm so mean to him. I'm confused! I thought he hated me and now he's acting like nothing ever went wrong.
Maybe you were mistaken having an argument dosen't always mean the person automatically hates you. anyway send him a message saying you heard he hated you and you were mad cause you didnt know why he'd be mad at you for, then apologize for the misunderstaning tell him your confused with his recent behavior and ask if anything is wrong i'm sure he'll respond back nicley.
syireen
So I have this boyfriend I love with all my heart. We've been going out for a little over a year. But like lately Uve been meeting other guys and I don't like them or anything but I always think of like what would happen if I cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. One of these guys, I will be seeing this weekend and I know it's possible something couldl happen. And I don't know. I don't want to cheat, but I might. Helppp!
If your even thinking of cheating you dont love you boyfriend its simple infatuation being mistaken for love. Im mean i know what your saying but i really wouldn't do anything with this guy this weekend its not fair to your boyfriend. If anything maybe you should take a break and then fool around with these guys then after you'll see what you feel then, and whether you liked being in a real relationship or fooling around dont get me wrong sometimes people need to fool around to see what they truly feel is important to them in the end. just dont cheat its unfair plus you'll feel guilty afterwards not to mention people will somhow find out trust me things like that dont stay secret
syireen
I have guy issues. Every guy I like, never seems to like me in that way. All the guys I like are my friends, and I don't know what is wrong with me. I'm kinda pretty, realtively thin, atletic, I got boobs and a butt, so I don't understand. I'm smart, and I don't think I have a dull personality, I like to flirt and joke around. Anyone have any ideas to why this might be happening?
Maybe its cause your coming on to strong, guys dont like girls that are like that they want a chase, if you act to intrested then they'll be turned off by you. you need to play hard to get then guys will want to figure it out more and be around you more, even ask you out. As for looks go it sometimes doesnt matter if your the prettiest girl in the world if you come on to strong guys will be running from you cause they dont want a controlling girlfriend.
syireen
How can you get pictures from a cell phone on a computer ?
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well i dont know if this applies to all cell phones but if you have a teleus phone all you do is send it to you online album and then while on the computer go to your telus account, and then click on your online album and save the picture to your computer then you can upload the pictures to and site that has picture uploads
ex. myspace.com,hi5.com,nexopia..
*im sure other cell phone companies use this method of online album.*
i'm 15 and my ex boyfriend is 16.. we broke up back in july.. we'd been going out for 9 months and 2 weeks prior.. we were both of each others longest relationships.. we broke up alot before but this time it was for good.. well in october i found out i was 5 1/2 months pregnant.. ya i know.. he was alittle supportive but not until he found out i was going with adoption because i don't want to be a mom and there's no way i could handle that change right now.. finally in late december he started to call & come over -- it was a big change becuase he wanted nothing to do with me all summer & i hate to admit it but i was even told by 2 counselors & my mother that he was honestly my "first true love" & when he left i hit rock bottom & of course i'm still not over him.. but my problem is -- one of the times he came over we were hanging out as friends & the next thing i know we were making out & doing things we used to like we were going out again but when i asked him later on why we can't just go back out he said he can't just jump back into a relationship but that he truely did love me & i believe it because i'm pretty positive i was his "first true love" too.. so now when we hang out (which is not alot at all maybe 1 time every 2 weeks) we act like we're going out.. we hold hands & kiss & tell each other we love each other but there's 2 girls in my grade he flirts with soooo much & they want him all of a sudden & they are definitely competition material & i know he likes them but don't know if he wants them.. yet he tells me he hasn't done anything with any other girl since we broke up & he just misses what we had.. yet he doesn't act like he plans on having us get back together.. so do you think i honestly have a chance & just need to wait & MAKE him fall back in love with me or is he possibly just using me when no one's around to get what he wants & once the adoption's final he'll just leave again for good..? i'm still madly in love with him & i don't want anyone else - yet i don't want to play friends with benefits if thats all it's going to be but i'd do anything with him if it'd make that spark come back for me.. what should i do??
You might of been his first love but its obviouse he's using you now. he tells you he loves you but dosent wanna get back together with you thats the weiredst thing ive ever heard when guy truly loves a girl he wants her to be his and only his,if he really "LOVED" you like he says he does he'd have already asked you to be his girl and been really romantic about it, thats what love really is.other wise its just lust and infatuation. i can tell that you love him and want him back, what you need to do now is act diffrently towards him and test his true feelings for you. i know you might lose him in the process but its better then in the position your in now, and remeber this is only to see if he really wants you in the end.
what you need to do
1. Dont say you love him any more, when he says he loves you just smile and say i know you do dont say it back unless he asks if you love him back then just nod. the point is to stop reeasuring him of you love and commitment to him
2. Decrease all the cuddling holding hands and start making excuses to decrease seeing him
3. Dont tell him everything that goes on in your life have a sense of mystery, if he asks whats going on in your life just saying nothing and change the subject.
4. Last but not least make up some story of a guy hitting on you but laugh about it and say something like "i still got it". he'll defiently get jelouse and feel like his he needs to do something to make sure your not moving on
*do this for a week and hopefully if he does feel that stronlgy towards you he'll do something about it, the key here is to get your man wanting and falling for you again, and remeber guys all ways like it when you play hard to get, or if you seem un intrested he'll chase after you again*
hope things go well and this works
syireen
Hey, i really need some advice. me and my boyfriend and really serious and have been for a long time. we love eachother so much and plan on getting married someday. the only problem is we fight alot, and its becoming a problem. whenever i try to talk to him about it we just end up fighting more. we know he has depression but he wont talk to anyone about it which is also a problem. any advice on what to do? thank you
Get someone else he's close to like his bestfriend, sibling, or even parent to talk to him about it. best bet sometimes guys lisen to the third person better. so just get for ex his bestfriend to talk to him about his depression then hopefully he'll do something about. i personally dont belive in councelling. i just think simple things like taking afternoon naps, changing diet, or just changing your lifestyle can help depression. maybe get him to join a gym,or even meditaion works. anyway hope this helped.
syireen
There is this guy at school that is really smart and really nice and really... cute!!I don't think he even knows I exist though. I was wondering besides being myself, how to get his attention without the whole school finding out I like him. I want to talk to him but I don't know how or what to talk about since I don't even know him.
It would be a great advantage if this guy was in your class or you had at least one class with him that way you can easily come up with an excuse to talk to him. ok so if he's in a class with you you can do this be absent for one class then come the next day and sit by him and simpley ask him if he was here the previouse day when he says yes ask him what you guys did in class that day and maybe even ask for his notes if you guys took any tell him you werent there yesterday and you wanna get caught up. he'll view it as just a normal conversation between you guys then you can start a conversation with him ask him if he could explain what the teacher was lecturing about and i think from there the conversation will keep going.
If he's not in your class best bet is to make friends with someone he knows, or better yet hangs out with and then eventually you guys will end up meeting each other during a luch break or something. you need to understand it's a lot harder to just get to know someone out of the blue if your guys arent some how connected by school,or work or something s it will take time but yea just get to know someone he knows then make excuses to talk to that person when he/ or she is around the guy you like chances are he'll notice you if say you stop and talk to someone he knows.plus! you never he might end up talking to you while your talking to his friend.
well yea thats best advice i could give for now hope things work out for you and him!
syireen
how come mormons dont drink, gamble, party or anything like that? it seems like theres all these rules.
Thats part of the rules to their religion, but i never heard that mormans dont party. either way every religion has diffrent rules on how to live life, and what they view as sin or not good. in islam its a sin to drink,gamble,and eat pork, jew cant eat pork either cause their religion dosent permit it. many people who eat pork see that as weird but for the muslims and the jews its normal. every religion is diffrent and should be respected and such. mormans follow the rules to thier religion cause they believe it to be the right way to live and i think we should respect thier chioce of living life that way.
i got my period about a year ago and i still have discharge even 2 or 3 weeks before my period comes..i know its not a yeast infection..is this normal?? 13/f
Oh yea its totally normal dont worry for some girls they get more discharge after their periods where as for other its before. As long as you change your underwear everyday there should be no problem.
ok admit it i know you maturbate. well if you dont i still think you can asnswer this Q. ok i try to maturbate. My cherry did pop but im still a virgin. so i stick my fingure down there (i can only fit one) and i go up and down. I dont feel anything speacil. ill be horney as like whatever but it doesnt work. Any ideas?? im a 15/F
lol! belive or not i actually dont masterbate reason= cause i'm a religiouse mulim and thats a huge sin in my religion. but i know lots of girls who do, my friends themselves who even have boyfriends masterbate and i heard the best way is if you have a vibrator, or if you use both you finger cause i think the thicker the better any way hope this helped sorry but its the best to my knowledge.
As for me i know its weired you dont see many 18 year old vigins but i really wont have sex untill marrigie its just me though cause im a hard core muslim. if you want i can my friends for more tips then ill get back to you ok?
syireen
i have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now when we first got together he said he does not want a relationship and that and his best mate even said not to do anything with him he will just get what he wants then leave but he did not and it did not bother me before but not i think that it may turn it to a realtionship and that but every time i see him i cant help but think that he is sleeping around with other lasses how can i tell if he realy likes me or not and if he is sleeping with other lasses one min he is close to me the next he acts distant please help i will rate
Its hard to tell, maybe he's just one of those guys who are scared of starting a relationship cause they dont want to be kinda tied down, i dont but what i do know is you have to talk to him about it. just sit with him one day and bring it up ask him what he wants from this relationship tell him your confused cause of what he said to you the first time.