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does he realy like me
i have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now when we first got together he said he does not want a relationship and that and his best mate even said not to do anything with him he will just get what he wants then leave but he did not and it did not bother me before but not i think that it may turn it to a realtionship and that but every time i see him i cant help but think that he is sleeping around with other lasses how can i tell if he realy likes me or not and if he is sleeping with other lasses one min he is close to me the next he acts distant please help i will rate
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Its hard to tell, maybe he's just one of those guys who are scared of starting a relationship cause they dont want to be kinda tied down, i dont but what i do know is you have to talk to him about it. just sit with him one day and bring it up ask him what he wants from this relationship tell him your confused cause of what he said to you the first time.
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I imagine he is confused on what he wants, its totally possible he ws really hurt in the past so he doesn't want a relationship. Now he could be doing three things.
1. He really is kind of falling for you, but is denying it and trying to be with other girls so he won't like you as much.
2. He does really like you and is not sleeping with other girls, but is still trying to fight his feelings for you.
3. He doesn't care and is just sleeping around.
Personally I believe in number 2, but the only way to find out is to just ask him, I mean if you do end up in a relation ship, you wann be able to ask each other stuff, no matter how hard it is, and be honest, its key to a great relationship.
I hope I helped, and good luck with your lad. By the way are you from Ireland, England, Scotland?
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Hey there! I'm PPP and I'll be your advice giver for the evening (did that sound corny, I though so... sorry, hun. Just wanted to get you to giggle a bit). Well, down to buisness. Honestly, I know this may not be the answer your searching for, but if you can't trust him, he isn't the right one. I dont think cornering him is the right answer, it may just make him feel like you are being nosy and no girl wants their guy thinking that. He may distrust you after that too and that could drive him to actually cheat on you, if he wasn't before. I'd stick around him for a while, if you still can't trust him, then you have two options: 1) you can keep hanging with him and just see if the feeling will go away or 2) you get rid of him, not him, himself but just let your feelings fall. Seriously, a guy you can't trust is not the right guy for you. If you let him go, who knows, you might just find that perfect someone you could trust with all your heart and soul. You just gotta keep trying, that's the whole reason why we date, it's trial and error. I really hope I helped you out. If this isn't what you'd like to hear (I know it's not. I understand this, been through it) than you can always look deep down inside yourself, or ask your best friend. It'll work out in the end, you just gotta put your heart and feelings first.
Luvs,
~PPP~
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Hello, Yeahh all you can do is ask him. Hope i have helped. Please rate.
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