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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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Hey I'm going to a party and my period is still irregualr so theres a very good chance that I'll be on it during the party/sleepover because in May I had it from the 23-30th or somrething like that so I'm expecting to have for the sleepover. And I'm kinda scared to wear a tampon to sleep because I don't want to get TTS but I know a ton of people who do. So like I'm not totally sure what to do. I mean if ther is a way to wear a tampon I will but I just don't know weather to not sleep over (but I don't really have a reason not the besided that one), wear a pad, or tampon. So any advice will we great.

WILL RATE.

hey, ive recently experienced this. except i got it right before the sleepover. just wear a tampon during the whole partyyy. but if everyones sorta dying down and gonna go to sleep change to a pad because a leak during the ngiht is totally embarrasing.

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Hi my name is Sofia im 10 years old and theres a boy i like his name is guy i relly like him and i dont know wat 2 say can you please help me. you can talk 2 me by aim heres my screen name sexy51496 or my email adress sexy51496@yahoo.com

hey, well sweetie first of all your 10 years old you shouldnt be on this site. anyways well i give you alot of props because your actually a girl thats willing you ask a guy out. usually girls are afraid of that. so if i really like this guy i would just keep dropping little hints that you like him. flirt alot. also make sure hes single and that he isnt interesting in anyone because if he is thats an automatic no. just casually ask him if he wants to hang out one day then ask him while your chilling. cait♥

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14/f
theres this guy...he saw me at this party i went to with a bunch of my friends. He noticed me out of about a million girls there and was interested in ME. he's a grade above me and lets just say has a reputation for being a "bad boy" He always calls and texts me and before i would call and text him back but now i'm kind of unsure. we hung out once at the movies and talked the whole time. he's really hot and popular and i guess you could say i do kind of like him a little bit. i really want a boyfriend and am kind of desperate but i don't know about him. Practically all my friends are telling me to ditch him because he is known for being really rude and mean to people and being perverted and pressuring you into moving really fast. i've never even kissed anyone before so i don't know if he's right for me because all i think i would do would be make out.. and he would prob. want much more. i'm so confused and my friends don't help because they all tell me different things. i don't know whether to give this guy a chance (i mean i do really want a boyfriend and he is extremely gorgeous and popular AND a grade above me!) or to listen to what alot of people are telling me about him..that he is a complete jerk and is a "man whore" i really seriously don't know what to do :( i'm sooo confused..please help me!

hey, sorry i took so long to asnwer youu. well dont listen to your friends. some of them might just be jealous because he is gorgeous and a grade above you guys. so give him a chance. see what happens. if he pressures you to do something that you dont want to do then thats when you ditch him. he might think that your "not cool" anymore but its not cool to be pregnaunt at 14. so stay safe and just give him a chance. cait♥♥

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for the past 2 days i have constantly felt like i have had to go pee once i go pee i still have this feeling and when i pee its not alot just like a drip this is a very uncomfortable feeling what do you think might be the problem?

hey, i think you have a unrinary tract infection also known as a UTI. you should go get checked by a doctor jsut to make sure tho. cait♥

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well everytime i get a haircut and i get it blow dried it's always sooo pretty and soft and shiny!!! how do they do that??? cause everytime i do it it is shiny and soft and pretty but i know it could be better than that so how can i do that??? i have special shampoo and conditinor but that dosnt work that good though..
what should i do??

hey, well leave in conditioner protects your hair from natural oils around us everday. so use leave in conditioner [ preferable from paul mitchell ]. use the paul mitchell extra lather shampoo too. even if your not straightening your hair use redken straightening balm. it helps tame frizz and make your hair flatter and less poofy. i would just take a regular brush [ not round ] and brush thorught you hair while blow drying it on hot/high. then if your hair isnt naturally straight there might be some curly/wavy areas. go over those areas with a straightener but dont go over it too much. cait♥

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Anyone know any good summer reads. Everything I usually read is depressing. Like someone usually dies. I'd like suggestions of books that are funny and enjoyable to read. Even Harry Potter depresses me although I do love all the books. Maybe even books I can relate to. You know being a teenager and typical teenage problems. I'll rate anyone who gives any names

hey, the click series and the gossip girl series are awesome. if you want to know more about the click go to www.lisiharrison.net the gossip girl website is www.gossipgirl.net cait♥

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Does anyone know what the Hex Editor progam is? because i need it for the game called xmen legends2. the computer version.

hey, search "the hex editor program" on google. cait♥

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i'm thinking about working at smoothie king this summer. does anyone know how much you make there per hour?

hey, i just answered a question similar to this. im wondering if you are the same person. hmm anyways search "how much does smoothie king pay?" on google. thats what i did and a bunch of stuff came up. i actually picked the first link and that was very helpful. cait♥

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well im doing a thesis paper discussing the fact that people who are in same sex couples should be aloud to marry.

i was wandering if anyone had an accurate (and recent, 2002-2006) site where i could find recources for the percentage of homosexual people or people in same sex marriage.

thank you!

hey, im not reeally sure what you are looking for. but search "percentage of homosexuals in the united states" on googlee. cait♥

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The chair I use at my computer is actually a large recliner. It sits pretty low compared to where my monitor is. After long bouts of using the computer (and since I play WoW, that happens a lot), my neck tends to hurt. I know this is due to my chair. Do I need a harder, taller chair that forces me to sit up? I've moved this chair and sat in it every which way, but to no avail. Any recommendations for a good, not-make-my-neck-hurt chair?

hey, yeah its teh height of the chair. well people usually go all out on computer chairs buyingg large && big chairs. they buy the ones that spin and stuff lol. but i just use a simple folding chair. the ehight and good and its pretty comfy. oh yes and whats WOW? cait♥♥

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does anyone know what kind off dog this is?

hey, my dog looks like that. its a chihuahua. cait♥♥

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How do you upload a pic for your advice column? Every time I try t do it it says it's to big or something like that. Plus it deletes all my info. How do you avoid it doing this as well?

hey, go to photobucket.com. upload the pic then resize it. there is options on there for you to do it. cait♥♥

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My boyfriend broke up with me because
he thought we'd be better off as best friends again.
We were best friends before.
I'm in hell right now I miss him so much.
I want to be back with him...I dont know what to do. Should I talk to him about it?
I'm a wreck.

hey, well hes basically telling you nicely that he doesnt like you anymore. its the nice way to say that its over. you cant make him want you back. just deal with being best friends. cait♥♥

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I work with this girl && i went out with her and her male cousin On friday. He really wanted to meet me so i was like whatever and we went to the mall and hung out (the three Of us). My friend was pretty much walking in front of us the entire time so i was walking behind with him. We left the mall and went somewhere else. That night he made me laugh harder && more then any guy has ever made me laugh in my life. Now the only thing i can really think about is him && i cant get him off my mind. Wierd. We talk onliine && the phone sometimes. Only problem is Im 17 and hes 21.

What do you think i should do. I wouldnt mind being with this guy.

When i walked away from him and his cousin he was begging her to tell him what i had said && thought about him.

Ill ratee.

hey, well age doesnt matter. what i think is that anything five years and over is bad. anything under is finee. so if you two are serious about being together then go for it. who cares what people say. cait♥♥

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Okay, so I dye my hair a lot. Well, I havn't cut it all year, and its still the same length and I think its gotten shorter. I straighten it with a wet/dry straightner when its wet and I wash it once or twice a week. How do I get my hair to grow faster? B/C apparently all the crap I put it through is why its so short.


I rate high! Thanks in advance.

hey, well from experience ive learned that letting your hair grow for 48y64398 years is not the answer. every month get a trim. get like a half of an inch or a little less. also dont dye your hair so much. just use pantene pro v brunnete expressions. it brings out the natural highlights in your hair. if you have red or blonde hair they have those colors too. also wet/dry straighteners are the worst kinds for your hair. just get a dry one. cait♥♥

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okayy. i've been going through alot right now becasue i've lost people in my lives and getting bad grades and shit. i need help here to get happy. well now i just found out that my boyfriends parents are getting a divorce right now and im really upset for justin (my boyfriend) and i don't wanna lose him because of this i love him so much and i have no idea how to get him help and i know it might take a while and i just have to just be there for him whenever i talk to him how im i supposed to say?? i need help here
my life and this year have been tough yearr i need to get things out of my way!!

Thanks lauren

hey, well like you said you wanna be there for him 100%. dont force him into telling you anything that he doesnt want to. if he wants to talk to you about it, he will come to you. iv`e learned all taht from experience. because oen time i was dating this guy. then the guys father needed a transplant. but there was a long list and his father was pretty close to the bottom. then once he finally got teh transplant, hid fathers body was rehjected the transplant. this happened many motnhs ago and his father is still in the hopsital awaiting to see whats gonna happen. good luck. cait♥♥

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My friend, who I used to be best friends with, used to go out with this guy that I like now. They had gone out for 7 months. I talked to him, and told him that I like him, and he said he likes me as well. I went to my friend and asked her what she would do if me and her ex went out, and she said that she probably wouldn't be able to be friends with me anymore. Her ex is still friends with her, and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. I kind of feel the same way, but I'm leaning more towards not being her friend anymore anyway because we barely ever get along anymore. I really want to go out with this guy, but I don't know what to do, because I don't want my friend getting hurt, and he doesn't want to hurt her as well. Any suggestions?
-- How would I convince him to not care what she thinks, and just go out with me? she broke up with him anyway, so what's the big deal?
Please help me.

hey, well friends come before guys. also you never date your frends ex, expessically if she doesnt want you to. thats just like the rules of girl world. cait♥♥

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can a sunburn on your face cause acne?

hey, no you dont get ance from it. sometimes you may get something called " sun bubbles ". they are just little red bumps on your skin that are caused by sunlight. sun bubbles arent infectionious and dont spread. cait♥♥

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15/f...i went out with this guy ive been best friends with since sixth grade and were now in 9th and so it was a few months and everything was perfect and i just told myself everything was wrong but it wasnt and so i broke up with him for no reason at all i was just like its over.. and so its been about two months and he went out with this other chick and they broke up and now i realize what a big mistake ive made and we were BEST friends we told each other everything and after he wouldnt even look at me and the past week ive been just trying to make small talk and he'll talk to me and he gives me that look like " make it better please" but he doesnt act like that you know?..i want him back so bad i miss him soo much but i dont expect that i just want it to be the way it was before and ..

hey, things like that ruin relationships of both kinds if you let it. dont let it happen to you guys. talk about it with him and hear him out. express all your feelings towards teh situationa dn dont hold back. cait♥♥

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does anyone know how much you make at smoothie king?

hey, ive never actually heard of this place. but i googled it and foudn some stuff that might help. just pikc a link and look around the site.

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=how+much+does+smoothie+king+pay%3F

cait♥♥

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