I work with this girl && i went out with her and her male cousin On friday. He really wanted to meet me so i was like whatever and we went to the mall and hung out (the three Of us). My friend was pretty much walking in front of us the entire time so i was walking behind with him. We left the mall and went somewhere else. That night he made me laugh harder && more then any guy has ever made me laugh in my life. Now the only thing i can really think about is him && i cant get him off my mind. Wierd. We talk onliine && the phone sometimes. Only problem is Im 17 and hes 21.
What do you think i should do. I wouldnt mind being with this guy.
When i walked away from him and his cousin he was begging her to tell him what i had said && thought about him.
kbabe33 answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 2:22 pm: I don't think that age has anything to do with a great relationship. I know this girl who's 14 and going out with an 18 year old. At first I was like, "Yeah they're not gonna last. I'll give them a week, 2 tops." NOBODY thought they would make it. 10 months later, and they're still together. It's a beautiful thing when it works out =] But be careful because you never know what older guys REALLY want from you. I don't know him of course but it's never a bad thing to be cautious. Hang out with him more, flirt, and get to know him. If you still get all fluttery-eyed at the thought of him, I say go for it! If not, just be glad that you didn't jump in head first. Oh, and one more thing: if he's still going to school or has a full-time job, consider what that means for you. But other than that, do wats best for you.
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