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I fell and got a big gash on my leg when I was 11, and I didn't get it stitched, but now I have an indentation about 3" by 3". Does anyone know any ways to get rid of it. I'm small framed, so i'm very embarrased about it because to me it looks like cellulite. please help. (link)
Ugh this sux rite? I've got two scars on my upper lip frum a childhood accident (long story) and as a result I got 23 stitches. Even still it's like, OUT THERE for the world to gawk at. Don't feel ugly at all! Seriously, you can apply as much cream and serum and friggen peanutbutter you want on it, it's not gonna dissapear forever. Especially one that large, but what you CAN do is [okay, I'm about to get all commercial-announcer on you] talk to your doctor about it. Alot of times you can get a special surgery on it where they of use a sort of abrasion to make it more evened out but won't make it go away all together. These surgeries can be expensive but the results are supposed to be great!
NOTHING can fully take it away but at this point, anything's worth a shot right? I can totally relate but seriously, talk to your doctor if you're really considering getting it removed (or smoothed out).
kbabe


hey,
So im 14/f and I just started dating this guy like a week ago. We are going on our first date this weekend and I'm pretty sure he is gunna hold my hand. Anyway, last time I was at a movie with him(we weren't dating) I got really nervous and my palms started to get kinda sweaty and clammy, and like sticky ya know? Well when he holds my hand I dont want him to think"ew yuck" or something. So how do I prevent sweaty palms, or like get rid of it when it happens during the movie? Thanks for your held! -mar (link)
Heyy,
I'm afraid there's only one way to prevent those sweaty hands and it's one of those 'just relax!' answers. But honestly, just relax! So he's looking fine, talking sweet and opening the door for you, you can't help but get nervouse. Chances are he's just as excited although he tends to hide it better. First off: keep talking to him! The more you focus your brain on something different, your breathing'll get slower and more even. A racing heart beat's caused by shallow breath and vise versa. Don't concentrate on your breathing too much because you'll zone out of what he's saying to you. If your hands are still acting up then you can casually excuse yourself to the bathroom and wash your hands before drying them really really well. This'll hopefully put-off the sweating a little longer.
Don't forget, he's probably nervous too. If he's sincere about you, he'll ignore your hand and just be happy you accepted him!
GoOd LuCk!
kbabe


I work with this girl && i went out with her and her male cousin On friday. He really wanted to meet me so i was like whatever and we went to the mall and hung out (the three Of us). My friend was pretty much walking in front of us the entire time so i was walking behind with him. We left the mall and went somewhere else. That night he made me laugh harder && more then any guy has ever made me laugh in my life. Now the only thing i can really think about is him && i cant get him off my mind. Wierd. We talk onliine && the phone sometimes. Only problem is Im 17 and hes 21.

What do you think i should do. I wouldnt mind being with this guy.

When i walked away from him and his cousin he was begging her to tell him what i had said && thought about him.

Ill ratee. (link)
I don't think that age has anything to do with a great relationship. I know this girl who's 14 and going out with an 18 year old. At first I was like, "Yeah they're not gonna last. I'll give them a week, 2 tops." NOBODY thought they would make it. 10 months later, and they're still together. It's a beautiful thing when it works out =] But be careful because you never know what older guys REALLY want from you. I don't know him of course but it's never a bad thing to be cautious. Hang out with him more, flirt, and get to know him. If you still get all fluttery-eyed at the thought of him, I say go for it! If not, just be glad that you didn't jump in head first. Oh, and one more thing: if he's still going to school or has a full-time job, consider what that means for you. But other than that, do wats best for you.
kbabe




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