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and i mean BEST friends
15/f...i went out with this guy ive been best friends with since sixth grade and were now in 9th and so it was a few months and everything was perfect and i just told myself everything was wrong but it wasnt and so i broke up with him for no reason at all i was just like its over.. and so its been about two months and he went out with this other chick and they broke up and now i realize what a big mistake ive made and we were BEST friends we told each other everything and after he wouldnt even look at me and the past week ive been just trying to make small talk and he'll talk to me and he gives me that look like " make it better please" but he doesnt act like that you know?..i want him back so bad i miss him soo much but i dont expect that i just want it to be the way it was before and ..
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telll him how you feel. tell him that you know that you made the biggest mistake and you know he prolly wont tak you back but just ask him. tell him that you hate how you were best freinds and now you guys dont even look at each other tell him you miss everything that you ever hada dn that you sorry for everything. i hope i helpedddd
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hey, things like that ruin relationships of both kinds if you let it. dont let it happen to you guys. talk about it with him and hear him out. express all your feelings towards teh situationa dn dont hold back. cait♥♥
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You don't expect you want things back to the way they were before? You mean friends or dating?
When you broke up with him, you just said, "It's over." Maybe that's why it's upset.
Your entire paragraph is incoherent, and you never asked a question.
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You know, it's obvious that he really, really liked you and you really hurt his feelings when you broke up with him, but honestly the only thing you really can do is either start hanging out with him and talking to him a lot again or just flat out tell him how you feel. Tell him why you broke up with him and how you realized you really did like him and it hurts to know that ya'll aren't together. See how he responds .. he may say that he doesn't want to be with you again because you'll break his heart, but just ask him for a second chance. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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I understand that you feel like everything in this friendship is ruined. The reason that you two aren't as talkative and hanging out anymore is because of the tension between the two of you.
You were both good friends at one time, so after you dated things became harder. It's normal that he's not looking at you or talking to you. This is suppose to happen for a while until he gets over you.
But, you have to decide if you really do want him back as a boyfriend or you want that really good friendship you had with him. I think that you might be wanting him back as a boyfriend because you don't like the way things are now so you'd do anything to stay in contact with him which isn't a good enough reason to try getting back with him. I think deep inside you really just want the friendship back and everything back to normal which makes sense and is normal.
But if you know for sure that you want him back as your boyfriend, it can't hurt to tell him that you've had a lot of time to think your actions over and you feel like you've made a mistake by putting an end to the relationship.
If you really think that deep down you just want the friendship, the only thing you can do is wait for all of the tension to clear up more and then you both could try talking again later on. When you make small talk, just keep it that way. Besides, he's not going to get over you by having big conversations with you everyday. Just ask him how he is every once in a while or leave him alone because he probably needs space to clear his head.
-TheTeenGirl
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This one is really a good question... well one of my old girlfiends did the same thing to me and it was not fun i tell you what she did... One day I was sitting there loook ing at her laughing and hugin her you know making her feel good... and well the next day she broke up for no reason... NOT FUN... but I eventaully got over it she first started talking small talk and I told her to get away from me and I went out with another girl just to make her jealous I felt bad and told this new girlfriend what was going on... and she told me straight up to get the hell over it... so she eventually gained my trust and I talk to her just about everyday now and Im about to ask her out...So dont be worried hell get over it... aight peace and keep the fires burning!!!
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what i think you should do is sit him down and tell him that you guys are friends and you use to be best frinds and now u think that ever since you guys went out it ruined our frindship and want to be the best of fiend again and forget everythin that ever happened
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Thats the risk you take when dating a friend. Sometimes it works great and sometimes you loose the friend in a breakup. Is it that you really want him back or that you just didnt like seeing him with someone else?
Things probably will never go back to the way they where, after all you broke up with him for no reason. He has a right to be angry and hurt. If he dosent really want to talk to you than write him a note telling him exactly how you feel.
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