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16/f..i have a boyfriend..we've been together for almost 3 months..and he says I'm the "only one" yet..he flirts with girls in my face..acting like nothing is wrong when he talks to me after! he changed his myspace status to "single" but he still treats me the same..(like his gf) idk what's going on. whenever i walk by with him..holding his hand..if he sees a girl that he knows..she'll obnoxiously walk over to him..(as if not noticing I'm there) and go..Jimmy(not his name lol)!!!! HEY BOO! And she'll give him a greeting kiss..I won't respond to it..I'll pretend it never happened..though I'm a bit hurt inside. He talks about how hot girls are sometimes...though limiting that subject of conversation when I'm around. Whenever we talk..he doesn't sincerely admit how he feels about me..It's all physical. He talks about watching porn. Something you wouldn't do when you're around your girlfriend. It's as if he has NO regard towards my feelings..as if I'm SUPPOSED to hear that from him and stand it. This is my first boyfriend..so I'm not entirely sure. I'm not one of those people to speak when something is bothering them, so I'll keep it in. I didn't confront him about the comments he sends to girls on myspace..or his status. Or any of that. His ex-girlfriends also give me weird stares..and glances. I just want to know..In your opinion..do you think I'm just a make-out buddy for him? 3 months seems long enough to grow up..And he's my age, so he should at least TRY to act normally. I know I'll never be able to confront him..I'm too scared. He gets mad when I do that..and he might break up with me, lowering my already lowered confidence...
What can I do?

You've Met a Pimp.
And I know this because, well, I do the same thing. But The girs I mess with are all kinda like cool with being hook-ups, Idk i just dont date. My best advice, Break it off. Because he just wants to prob. have sex with you. Im sorry you had to stand all this, and I hope I help. Need anymore advice just ask :)

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this boy, he lives so far away, i only see him 3 times a year. winter break, a week in the summer, and spring break. well, this sunday im gnna see him for spring break. his family and my family are both going, and, were gonna be swimmin all day, and then its like fancy dinners at nights. and, i like him so much. how do i make him see this? without saying anything that has the word "like" or love in it. like i cant say "i like sombody" because i dont want to be that direct, i just want to hint it to him because he might have a girlfriend, and i dont want to look like an idiot. also, how can i flirt without being to direct? usually, i just smile a lot, and the boy will get it, but this boy isnt so much of a flirt. also, hes 14, almost 15, and im 13, almost 14, and so hes older, and thinks of me like younger. how can i show him that im a big girl? it helps that im taller then him, but just by a little. and he said "woah, are you wearing makeup?!" when i was. is this good that he noticed? because im such a girly girl, i wear makeup everywhere and im not going to stop for him, i just want to know if its a good thing or not. okay, thank you to anybody who took the time to read this, i know its obnoxiously long.
xoxo,

MMEE!!!

No, You dont liek him you ont know him, im sorry but liking someone you see only three times a year means you cant find anyone where you live and you should start trying to find some1 this is not healthy, but if you do not want to go by what i say at all simply go up and kiss him, Sorry if this sounds mean but its the truth
-thanks

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i am in the 8th grade and i really like this guy who is in my class. we have been going to school together scince kindergarten. He got out of a really bad relationship like a year ago and hasn't liked a girls scince. he always gives me mixed signals its driving me nuts. I am really bad at telling some1 i like them cause it hasn't worked out before and i am scared i will lose a friendship. please help what should i do?

This has to be the worst thing i've ben faced with as of late, You just have to "eat" your fear and approach him and just talk, and if you dont want to do that pass him a note, tell him, ____ i know you are going to think im silly, but i really like you, i mean everytime our eys meet a get a tingley feeling, and i feel so specail, Im not sure if you like me but i def. like you, and hope we can be together?

-thanks for askin me this :) hope you two get together Byez

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do guys like it when a girl moans during sex?

simple question,simple answer... yes we really do

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Ok so everything was going well with me and my boyfriend. But then out of the blue he said it was over. I was so sad. He didn't even want to give me a reason. I am so depressed. We were together for 10 months. I really don't know what went wrong. Well anyway I need help to make him feel bad. I don't go to his same school. So that's a problem. I want him to feel bad the way he made me feel bad. I also want to find out if he still likes me or if he ever did. But I can't ask him that. Any ideas?. Please help. Aslo if it helps I'm 14 f. Thankyou so much!

well this is gonna be hard to hear this, but i think he has used you and cheated you, and revenge is immature , i think you need to befriend some1 from his school that will find stuff out for you... just move on and find some1 else... hope i helped thanks

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okay so ive only got fingered like once. but my bf was only able to get 1 finger in so how can i make it so im not so tight?

well let him finger you mor, or finger yourself alot and eventually it will get bigger... yocould also try using sex toys on yourself... hope i helped thanks

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13/F. There is this boy that is in 2 of my classes. I bearlly noticed him like 2 weeks ago, and he is really cute. I know or I think I know that he likes me, but he hangs out with this girl all the time and I know she likes him, in my opinion shes isn't really all that cute. I want to tell him I like him, cause I if I did then he might ask me out. But before I do are these kinda signs that he like me?: he always comes and tells me i smell good, he always wants me to sit on his lap, he passes me notes during class, and always hugs me and holds hands with me in the hallway. Another thing is that the girl he hangs out with is kind of my friend but lately has been calling me and boyfriend stealer, when they aren't even together. So what do you think? Should I tell him or not?

yes.. def. tell him dont hold back if you liek him, and your friend cant be your friend if she acts this way.. i say go for it he def. really likes you... hope i helped thanks

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Alright, i wanted to do something special on New Years for my boyfriend. Since new years is our 11 month anniversary too. I cant think of any ideas. I was already going to wear a skirt for him since i have never worn somethin like that before (excluding one time for wedding)haha. I need ideas on what to do for him. Anything, sexual absolutely anything. I have no clue on what to do. Thanks.

well as a guy i think what Xenolan said is a pretty good idea, but if your ready for sex, well in the limo would be perfect... and what to wear, well a skirt is liek the sexiest thing ever and i personally think that like those stockings that girls wear that liek come almost up to thier vagina is so hott... (not pantyhose BTW) well thats about all i can think of, any more questins and ill be glad to help.. thanks

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Ever since I knew you
My heart sings a new tune:
One of love.
Every time you come around,
I bubble with joy;
As happy as a _______.
You give me pleasure unknown before,
Each day I beg for more;
Without you, my heart is empty;
ever day seems dull.
I can't pay you for the joy you give;
But I know you
You are the reason to live.

please help! it has to be rhyme with joy
thanks a lot =]]





Ever since I knew you
My heart sings a new tune:
One of love.
Every time you come around,
I bubble with joy;
As happy as i hope you are my baby boy.
You give me pleasure unknown before,
Each day I beg for more;
Without you, my heart is empty;
ever day seems dull.
I can't pay you for the joy you give;
But I know you
You are the reason to live.


-- thats liek the only thing i cant think of hope i helped thanks

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Ok im going out w/ his guy. We've been on and off for about 2 years now. Hes a junior and im a freshman. We both go to differnt schools and we hardly see each other. But i went to a football game w/ him and my friend came to hang out w/ me. And now she calls my man every day. And i keep telling her hes mine. And she doesnt lisen but me and my man barly talk anymore on the phone..

What the hell do i do???

he is not exactly your boyfriend then is he? and your friend is not you friend, i know this might be hard to except but to make a relationship work yins have to be able to see eachother like once a week and talk every day, just break up with him and find some1 else you could possibly love him and vise versa, after yins break up he will do the same thing to her.. hope i helped thanks

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I met this guy a few months ago and straight away we knew we were going to be really close mates. A month or two later he told me he loved me and that he knew he had a girlfriend and he loved her but he couldn't help loving me as well. Things happened anyway and a while later him and his girlfriend hit a rough patch and mutually split up (her idea) Anyway, he asked me out and we had an amazing few weeks, but after a long talk i realised he still loved her and told him i wanted him to be happy even if that meant losing him to her again. He is back with her now and we are still very close mates. .. But he is the only guy for me...I really think i am actually in love with him, but i want him to be happy! thats all i care about!
Please help me!
Lovesick Rock-chick
-xXx-

sandi74 is completely right he is using you as a doormat, and if he loved you so much why did he go right for his ex again? This guy is using you, everytime him and his girlfriend break up or fight he is gona come to you, and prob say* oh baby i missed you i really love you come here* and he will prob kiss you and all that... he is using you, and you are to good for that... hoepp i helped

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Okay whenever me and my boyfriend are messing around and i like touch him or poke him down there...he always tells me im making him hard?? im not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing or even what it means..haha cause hes comeing over tonnight soo pleeasee help! thanks :]]

haha this happens to me alot, e finds you super attractive and when he says your *making him hard* he is very horny and prob. wants to do *things* with you but doesnt want to say it because well thats just wrong to say it... it is good anyway around because he finds you very attractive and its good because if you want to have sex with him you can anytime(USE PROTECTION IF SO) hope i helped thanks

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I am really into acting and i really want to become an actress. but i dont do drama or anything like that but next year i am. I want to become a famous actress and star in movies and tv shows and things like that. but i dont know where start. My school dosnt have drama this year but next year they will but i having second thoughts about taking it and i dont know why. So my question is what would i have to do to become a famous actress?

thank you so much

well i have a friend that wanted to be an actress all her life and then she went into modeling *DO NOT DO THIS* modeling really ruined her life, because i got her thinkin that im to fat stuff and she got really sick and all that so dont take that road, go into drama clubs eveen if they are not at your school , there should be some availible outside of school, you might wanna consider taking a dance(it gets your body stronger, and gives you better cordination) hope i helped thanx

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Everytime my boyfriend comes over we just watch movies and makeout. Its getting kind of old, is there anything else we can do? (Not anything sexual I mean) Were both 15 so we can't drive yet either. Thanks.

well as a boy myself i can say i love cuddling, and try to get him to sing for you or dance even, talk long walks with him, and if you get tired yins can go to eithers house and maybe fall asleep together, many think guys and a girl and bed= sex its not true, it feel really good when you wake up with a girl next to you knowing yins didnt have sex, play him in video games and its awsome to get into conversations about like nothing...

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Ok..i play for a travel volleyball team and our first tournament is next weekend. Well..im the only new girl on the team..the rest of the players played last year and im really nervous that im gonna do bad in the game. I dont want the other girls to think im a bad player. How do i handle this?

well i play football myself and i always worry about how bad im gonna do, but no matter what you think at the time adrenaline will get to you and you'll forget all about it, and think of it this way you cant be a bad player at all if you made it on this team, hope i helped thanks

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did yours hurt like wen you sat down and did it hurt in the back to?

yes... it most definately did

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i really really like my guy friend we are neighbors and he tottaly gives me mixed messages we see eachother everyday and i just can't stand to be away from him i don't know if he likes me or not should i tell him how i feel or not. pleez help i will rate five no matter wat the answere

this is kinda what Im goin through but Im a guy... It ended up for me i told this girl I liked exactly how I feel but shes cool with it... she give me so many mixed signals its unbarable... but you have to tell him.. maybe you will be luckier than me? who knows? if you tell him and he still sends you mixed signals you just need to wait...but since your the girl you can give him a deadline... like say I'll tell you what I like you so much and IDK if you like me but I wont be here forever... if you say that im sure yins will get together.. thanx and keep the fires burning!

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i tore my groin and it's hurtin terrible well i was wondering how long do you think i'll be on crutches? and if it should be hurting in the back and front? and what are some things i need to avoid doing to help it heal faster?

oh man... i had this happen to me in my first year of football... You'll be on crutches anywhere from 1 to 3 months... as far as heeling faster drink large ammounts of water... and make sure this water contains flouride...(basic tap water is what has flouride in it) and just like sit down and sleep and talk on the phone... plus once or twice a day you should get up and move around and make sure you dont get super stiff and make the thing lock up... aight peace and good luck...

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k so i'm 14 and i fell for a 16 yr old. He said he liked me and i told him how i felt. We decided that we'd wait a month before we decided anyhting b/c we had met really recently.
Now he says that he doesn't think he'll be ready to date anyone for a while, but he still only likes me. But i dont want to wait. Should i just give up and move on or wait for him?

I think...You can wait for him if you want but someone else will come along and that is when you need to worry about what to do... right now just wait for him and if someone else comes along and he says he's really you need to follow your heart... thanx for listening...and keep the fires burning...

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i want to get my hair permanently straightened, but my parents both said no. because: my mom said it would damage my hair because of the chemicals. my dad said that its not really permanent and it doesnt last a long time. and i don't have to worry about it being too expensive because my uncle works at a hair salon and he can do it for me for free. is what my mom and dad said true? what are some good things and bad things about getting it permanently straightened? thankss soooo much.

hmmmm... ya what your dad says is true... my mom gets a perm. like every two months... and what your mom sayss I dont like is true but it might be Im not sure... but ya what your dad says is def. true...

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