i really really like my guy friend we are neighbors and he tottaly gives me mixed messages we see eachother everyday and i just can't stand to be away from him i don't know if he likes me or not should i tell him how i feel or not. pleez help i will rate five no matter wat the answere
Additional info, added Friday July 7 2006, 4:48 pm: i forgot i am 14 and he is 17 and the age difference kinda bothers me but i still REALLY LIKE him. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? caramella answered Saturday July 8 2006, 6:36 am: ok try flirting around with him more and try to always look your best...guys like girls that act all curious and cute...ask him to play open book (its a game where you ask him questions and he has to answer honestly) but let him ask first so he dont get suspicious....then ask him if he likes anyone or if he likes you [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
jumadel answered Saturday July 8 2006, 5:29 am: Hi, it sounds as though you've got a crush on him. This is OK. I think you might as well get to know him and soon ask him out. You will get a straight yes or no and at least you will know how he feels. Good luck!!! Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
neverbroken87 answered Saturday July 8 2006, 12:05 am: Continue to spend a little more time around him and give off the vibe that you like him. If you really like him then you should tell him when you feel the time is right. The age difference could play out in a negative way (as in he might say your too young) but you wont know unless you try. Good luck :) [ neverbroken87's advice column | Ask neverbroken87 A Question ]
babyygqirlx3 answered Friday July 7 2006, 11:53 pm: I'm 14 too and i liked my neighbor who was 16. His name is CJ... he and I got a long really well. We were like best friends, and everyday when I'd go outside he'd come running out the door to do something stupid to make me smile. He'd also ignore me and pretend that he was unsure of me with his friends. But one day I caught him talking about me, and he told a couple of his friends that he liked me. It's hard to tell though with older guys... If i were you I would try to flirt with him, lead him on, and then act like he doesn't phase you. And when the time is right, flirt a little more, and tell him how you feel. Age aint nuthin but a number. If he likes you, go with it. If he doesn't Im sure there are plenty of other guys wanting to be with you.
MrDaveD answered Friday July 7 2006, 11:42 pm: this is kinda what Im goin through but Im a guy... It ended up for me i told this girl I liked exactly how I feel but shes cool with it... she give me so many mixed signals its unbarable... but you have to tell him.. maybe you will be luckier than me? who knows? if you tell him and he still sends you mixed signals you just need to wait...but since your the girl you can give him a deadline... like say I'll tell you what I like you so much and IDK if you like me but I wont be here forever... if you say that im sure yins will get together.. thanx and keep the fires burning! [ MrDaveD's advice column | Ask MrDaveD A Question ]
Meghan09 answered Friday July 7 2006, 10:14 pm: If you REALLY like him then ask him out. There is no harm in that and you won't know until you do. Make sure it's casual like, "Do you want to go to the movies with me sometime?" Something like that. It is a safe way of doing it because while your at the movies if he tries to hold your hand or something you'll know whether he likes you or not; or whether he sees you two as more then friends. If that doesn't work and he's really shy confront him about it. [ Meghan09's advice column | Ask Meghan09 A Question ]
Jitter answered Friday July 7 2006, 9:35 pm: I think what you should do is at first talk to about like who he likes and stuff ... also yea you should twell him how you feel maybe he like you too... but also make sure you guys coukd become friend first well I hope I helped and hopefully everything turns out good well bye =) [ Jitter's advice column | Ask Jitter A Question ]
girly360 answered Friday July 7 2006, 9:25 pm: It sounds like one of myold friends but still my best i told her to tell him and when she did he told her he liked her too they have been going out now for 3 years but just do what you feel is right if it feels right be bright with it but dont make it sound weird or like your out of breath because ur heart is pounding just say it if he just sees you as a friend just be there for him one day he'll see that you were there beside him and he'll see your a great person and he'll give you a chance [ girly360's advice column | Ask girly360 A Question ]
naturally_sadie answered Friday July 7 2006, 8:24 pm: 3 years isn't much of an age difference so you don't really need to worry. I would tell him how you feel! What do you gotta lose? What's the worst that could happen? If he likes you too, bam, you gotta boyfriend! Just text message him and say I kinda like you. That's all there is to it!
Exquisitechick answered Friday July 7 2006, 8:20 pm: I know exactly how you feel. Tell him how you feel. Since, he is 17 make sure he doesnt take advantage of you. Because he will know how much you like him, and use it against you. I made the mistake of doing that. So, just be careful of that.
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