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Hey People, Im Sharifa. I live in VA. I love to give advice to people. I am a very nice person but i do get a lil Bit*hy some times. I am very talkative and love having fun with my friends. I like meeting new people and i love babysitting lil kids. They are my world. Well talk to ya lata people email me at booboowazhere@yahoo.com if u have any questions or anything. Holla At Me.
*~Sharifa~*

advice

which vitamins will help make your hair healthier or grow faster? because i heard there is one that helps things be healthier. and i drink ALOT of orange juice! what vitamins do i get out of that ..if any? and what does that help me out.

THANKS!

the only answer i can give to u is the one for the orange just thing. And by you drinking orange juice you get calcium. Bye.

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I have a biology test tomorrow. So much information will be covered on it. When you study, are you supposed to memorize everything, or are you just supposed to review notes until you're familiar with everything?

Well for me you want to be familiar with it. When you are familiar with it you start to memorize it basically. Just read the notes over and over. Hope I helped.
*~Sharifa~*

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Ohk. Last month i got my first period. So i really dont know. Please gimmie tips :)

Also, Its arround that time again this month (I got it on june 24th)

I heard that they are always late on the first time. but im getting horrible cramps. is it possible to get it regular??

ILL RATE!!
Thank you.

It is regular for a period not to come regular when u first get it a couple of times, when i got mine i had horrible cramps. U should go to a pharmacy like at wal mart anywhere and get some midol and it helps it feel better. If you want to make it regular you might want to think about taking birth control. It makes it so your not pregnant BUT also it makes your period regular. Hope i helped bye.

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I'm 13/f and i really want to gain weight before school starts in september. right now i'm like a 00/14 kids and i want to be a size 0. i'm an ectomorph, so it's hard to put fat on easily. What should i do to gain weight? (please dont say eat junk food, i want to be healthy too)

To put on weight but make it healthy is lift weights and eat healthy food to gain muscles. Make sure you dont skip a meal. Hope I helped bye.
*~Sharifa~*

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When I had my last boyfriend everything would always go so great and after about 6 months we were both inlove and I really loved this guy! But then about 3 months later we were laying in his backyard in the hammock his arm was around me and we were just relaxing then i decided to put my hand on his chest and give him a kiss so i did and he pushed me out of the hammock smacked me and told me don't touch me so i ran away crying...i didn't talk to him for a couple weeks but he kept calling so i answered
~Convo~
me-what do you want?
him-im sorry i love you
me-too bad
and i hung up
then when my dog passed away he came over with flowers my mom didn't want him to come up to my room because i was really upset but she finally let him, then he started kissing me and telling me he was truley sorry so i forgave him and for about 3 more month it was all good and back to normal then again one night we were watching a movie in his basement (his parents weren't home only his bro and his gf) and we were all watching a movie and he kissed me and we started kissing then i put my hand on his cheek a little bit and he pushed away and was like dont ever do that again and threw the movie case at me and his brother tried to stop him but he just went mad at started punching me and his brother while his girlfriend tried to do somethin --im not really sure what--

So my question is I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I really love him I mean we have been together for about 2 years but stuff like this keeps randomly happening! I thought this guy was really right for me and sometimes he treats me really nice but others he hurts me phsically and mentally...I just want a guy to treat me right thats why Im trying to forgive him again but I can't just forgive and forget I'm scared something like this will happen again PLEASE help!

No man should be putting his hands on u or throwing stuff at you if he loves you. You need to get out of that relationship before he starts doing it more often. I know you may love him but love isnt suppose to hurt in that kind of way. Hope I helped.
*~Sharifa~*

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so me and my softball team are going to nationals and we are all staying in this cool hotel. but we only have like one game a day, and are there for a week, what are fun games we can do in the hotel while our parents are gettin drunk.
we are all 16

Hey alot of hotels have pools in the notel and have gift shops and all stuff that you can walk places and see alot of things. Usually hotels have phamplets that tell u what u can see there and what places to go. Hope i helped bye.
*~Sharifa~*

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Okay me and my boyfriend had sex one time but i know he didnt pop my cherry cause i didnt bleed at all.. so am i still considered a virgin???

No u arent a virgin cause u had sexual intercourse. And a virgin is someone who hasnt had it

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want to be my sister in crime ?! ?

yes

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i really really like my guy friend we are neighbors and he tottaly gives me mixed messages we see eachother everyday and i just can't stand to be away from him i don't know if he likes me or not should i tell him how i feel or not. pleez help i will rate five no matter wat the answere

He might like you, since he is 17 they usually are hard to tell what they are feeling. Give him signals like tell him you like hanging out with him and stuff.

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I'm going to New York today and we're driving there. It's about a 2-2 1/2 hour drive. So I was wondering what me and my friend could do to keep busy during the ride. Thanks

You could play cards if there is space, listen to ur ipod or mp3 player if u have one just talk listening to music on the radio bring stuff with u.

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my boyfreind and i met on canada day when i was visiting poeple in reddeer it was great he was great and we connected great and all but londg distance is hard do u have any type s to make it easier or should i dump him because of the distance

Do whats in ur heart, long distance relationhips are really hard cause you can not see the person alot but if you really like him it might work out.

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sorry i didnt know what categorie to but it under

13/f and i want alot of peircings. but my mom said i can only have my first hole in my ear periced [ which i have already ] and i kinda wanted my second hole done but she thinks it looks tacky. its really annoying but when i go to college or when im 18 im thinking about getting anything i want peirced you know since she isnt in control of me anymore and i was think about -

industrial peircing
http://www.tattooheka.com/Piercing/piercing88.jpg

nose -
THAT -
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/d/d7/Septum_and_labret.jpg/250px-Septum_and_labret.jpg
OR-
http://www.pointedimage.com/site_content/tattoo-piercing-images/piercing-image-gallery/Nose/Nose2.jpg
which one? if i got one

tounge-
http://www.pleasurable.com/assets/images/db_images/db_tongue14.jpg


lip [ snake bites ]
http://z.about.com/d/tattoo/1/0/J/N/ericaface3.jpg

im really scared that they will hurt but i was wondering which one would hurt the most and the least and which 2 or 3 i should get.
thanks so much :]

Hello,
Your mom is the boss of you until you are 18. So either do it behind her back which probably wouldnt be good or just wait until your 18 cause then you can make your own decisions.

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I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. During that time, we have had some problems but have worked them out and have been doing very well, until lately. I don't know why I did this, but I cheated on my boyfriend with someone who is a very close friend of mine and have even developed strong feelings for...but I still honestly love my boyfriend. I didn't know it was possible for me to not only cheat, but do it for a few months while my boyfrined thought everything was fine. I also didn't know it was possible for me to love two people at the same time.

So, as much as it hurt to do this, I told my boyfriend about everything yesterday and, of course, he is beyond hurt. I knew I had to come clean with him to start setting things right. I want to be with my boyfriend and that's why I needed to tell him - to start to put the trust back in the relationship. However, I am still very confused about my feelings for the other guy, which are very valid and real (and he feels them for me as well). It killed me to hurt my boyfriend like that, and to keep something going outside the relationship for so long, but I really need advice at this point. I am lost and don't know what to do... thanks for any help!

Ok well at first the boy is really sad he might want to break up with you, you can say you will never do it agian but it will be hard for him to believe that because thats what everyone says and usually they dont admit just tell him you know what you did was wrong and you hope that he can forgive you and you want him to gain your trust back with a step at and time and you dont want to rush anything. hope i helped bye.
*~Sharifa~*

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Occasionally, usually once a month, my face gets covered in blackheads, and it drives me crazy. I try everything to get rid of them, but they just keep coming back. What is the easiest way to get rid of blackheads? Will rate high =]

Usually this happens because you are about to get your time of the month and your hormones are going crazy

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Hello Everyone!
I am 14/f and the first time I got my period was in February of this year. I am a 32 A. My mom is a 38 C. However, I am short for my age (which I got from my aunts) Since I got my height from my aunts (who are A cups as well) will I probably have the same size breast as them or my mom?

You would probably get your moms since u are mainly made up of your mom's and your dads genes. Hope i helped bye.
*~Sharifa~*

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Hi well i was having a normal day and when i went to the bathroom i saw that there was brown stuff coming out onto my underwear. wat do i do? what is this?? please help me! im 13 and i live in wisconsin

Hmm u might have a bladder infection or something if it just is coming out u should go to the doctors and have them check it out.

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So my friend called me last night when he was drunk... i'm dying to know: does alcohol kind of act as truth serum? or is it jus the first thing they think of saying? thanks!

yeah it can if they are really drunk and u ask them question they will answer it truthfully.
*~Sharifa~*

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Where do I go to get birth control pills prescribed for myself? Do I have to go to a ob/gyn, or can I just go to my regular doctor? Thanks.

you can go to ur doctor or go to a clinic and im sure they would perscribe u some

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A guy I was with for a year broke up with me. I don't want to mope around the whole summer.
What can I do to distract myself? I've tried lots of things..

if ya want to forget about the boy hang out with your friends. go to the mall or if there is a beach near you go there and look for some other hot guys.
*~Sharifa~*

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Do you guys think it's weird that my parents grounded my brother who's 21(I actually think it's funny)?


He's staying with us for a few weeks and he got a $300 citation for punching a guy on the beach yesterday. My dad didn't actually say the words "you are grounded" but he won't let him do anything. I mean he is an adult and everything haha.


My dad and brother have been arguing all morning because of it and I don't think my dad is right because my brother would have paid for it on his own. I want to say something but I just wanted a few opinions before I do so.

Hey,
It is pretty dumb that ur parents are grounding your brother even though he is 21 but alot of parents think that as long as they live in their house they can control them. which is probably the situation you are in well yeah hope i helped bye.
*~Sharifa~*

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