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okay flat out .. cut and dry : i love my boyfriend of 1 year and we have had out doubts about it working because we are constantly in fights! i think i got immune to picking fights because i always watched my parents fight who are now divorced but i found out he has been talking to another girl! she is very very pretty and i know he hasnt said anything he shouldnt have because she showed me the text messages but its the fact that he would do that and i dont want to start a fight because i dont want it to end with him but idk what to do .. help me please ? ohhh ya when i comfroted him he didnt denie he flat out told me about it i just dont know how to handle it! well bubye! (link)
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well if he is denyin and you saw that its true he just immature he denyin to you but @ the same time behind your back he's still doin the same thing... but obviously if you do break up with him he is gonna try to get back with you but you should really break it off because if yall went out for a year and he's cheatin on you that's meanin all this year meant nothin to him because he's already talkin to someone else and don't you think later on they get to know eachother hell end up leavin you for her so hurry before he leaves you for someone and you'll feel worse hope I helped =)
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hey well me and my guy have been together for 4 months and we have taken breaks in btwn !! i love him soo much and we have talked about sex!! heres the thing im 16 and still havent started my period yet!! the doctors tell me there is nothing they can do but give me this medicine and well i heard if you still havent started your period but you have sex .. theres a chance i can still get pregnant and i want to lose it to him but i am scared of getting pregnant .. i have a future playing pro ball and have a free ride to UCLA but i could ruin it by the condom tearing or somthing ... what do i do ? please help me!! .. UHHHHHH!!!! (link)
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hey I think you should wait its awesome that you love him but does he feel the same are you sure he loves and will still be with you afterwards and trust him still... also you have a great future comin up and by you havin sex you would never what happens I think ts best to wait like if your paranoid those things are gonna happene your not ready too but trust me its best to wait and wait for the right one in the future you feel resposible and good inside well hope I helped =)
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ok here goes.........i go with a dude hes 15 im 14 were going to the same grade. we've been goin 2gether 4 lyk a month n he wants 2 take my virginity. well i want him to 2 because i really love him and he iz faithful. also because im going 2 high skoo and dude are alwayz askin me can they *brake it* n i dont want 2 have to deal with that while im at skool again. hes comeing over my house so we can do it but im really nervous. how bad will it hurt? (link)
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hey to be honest I think you should wait a lil bit more trust me its just been a month you really don't know him much but like its all up to you just be careful but what you doin I'd not right your still young... but if you do it hurts A LOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so tell him to go slowly lol hope I helped
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does being a virgin mean you've never had sex? what about fingering/blowjobs etc does that count, and if youve done one, are u not a virgin anymore? someone please explain.. (link)
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once the guy sticks his thing in your vagina your no longer a virgin that's all but other thing nope
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Well back in september me and this dood BOB started going out. which made me real happy cus i liked him ALOT for a few years now. everything was good until one day he randomly dumped me for no reason he told my best friend to tell me it was over cus he felt like it. that was the only reason. It really hurt me. we didnt talk for 2 months. and we started going back out again in febuary. i guess things were decent. then over time i started seeing problems with him and then one day he randomly ditched me and would not talk to me for like 2 weeks (we live like 4 houses away from eachother and both have fones, so theres no rreason) and when ever id call him hes always busy with this slutty chick and his little friends. and the time that we ever did spend together, he was always high, and because he was high, he didnt listen to me, or understand, or focus and he would be such an ass.
So i called him and told him what i just told you and said we need to break up he said Ok iwas sorta thinking that too. and yet again didnt give me a reason on why he wanted to , or why he blew me off for two weeks. But for somereason, i still really like him. i feel like im over him, then i suddenly reallllly miss him. and im wondering if hes worth missing. I realllly loved him. he was the most greatest thing i had, until he started being so lame. I did like him, but i know i dont ned that kind of person in my life, some one whose always high and ditching me and breaks up with out a reason. i dont know if hes worth my compassion..? (link)
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hey look the boy is not worth your time he just takin adavnatage of you that knowin that fact that no matter what your going to be on his ass and he enjoys it... you gotta notice what type of guy he is you wanna be thing about a guy that doesn't show you the love you show him you know you want a boy that shows he loves you... the thing is that boy is immature and thinks he has games you gotta show him that he doesn't and make him look bad... you shouldn't be cryin for a guy that does appreciate a girl like you just look for a guy that you know that would never waste your time.... hope I helped =)
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I think that I might have gotten Chlamydia because I basically have all the signs but I'm so scared to go to the doctor because I will have to tell my parents and not only will i be embarrassed I'll get in trouble..i have no idea what to do please help (link)
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you would never know if you have chylamedia because thay disesase is also called the silent disease which means there is no signs for chylamedia maybe another disease but not that one so the only way is go to a doctor hope I helped =)
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alright this is very serious so please try and help me. but alright im 16 and i never had sex before and hte other night i was swimming in my boyfriends pool, things got a lil out of hand and we were basically skinny dipping but then i was kinda on him so his weiner was like touching my vagina, and it went in like literally not even a centameter and he didnt bust or anything but then the night after i puked for no reason.. could i be pregnant? PLEASE help me please (link)
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naw I doubt because you get signs days after your period like a few weeks if you miss it hope I helped =)
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Yesterday me and my boyfriend were lying in bed and he started to rub his penis on my clitoris. He did that for a while and then he came. I didnt think that was a problem because he wasnt inside me but then he started fingering me. Is there a chance that his sperm went inside me? Could I be pregnant? Pls help! (link)
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I believe chances are 50/50 see it doesn't matter if his penis wasn't inside if it was really close like if cum and it was touchin the vagina then chances are that probably but if then he fingered probably more of a chance so be careful besides guys know it when they about to cum why didn't he step back hope I helped =)
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Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now, and we've only made out. If we go any further with him..would that make me seam Easy? (link)
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you shouldn't be worried about if it makes you look easy you should just be think that he really loves you then you do things I think you should keep it as makin out maybe touchin if you want but no sex yet trust me I know just wait but touchin no in a way it won't make you look easy
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I had been into a net relationship with a boy from Aus for the past 4 years. We never heard each others voice or ever saw each other (except thru the net pics we shared).Four years was a long time to me and I could not stand the pain of being away from my loved one for so long.I desperately loved him.There was a time when he took me for granted and stopped being in touch.But then he was sorry and came back.And he really changed. But loving a boy on the net so desperately and knowing that I would not be able to see him for the next few years was a real pain and so I backed off from the relationship. He asked for a reason and I gave it to him. His answer was something like..."Sweetheart, Thank you for replying back and wish you all the success for the future. I like to walk in the rain cuz no one can see me crying... Good Bye. Yours__Michael"
It was a pain to me too but I don't think he thinks so. Its so hurting. I've been a failure in relationships even in the past and I don't feel like going for a relationship ever again.But deep down I secretly long for a person to love me.Though I have a lot of really good friends, I long for someone who'll call me his own.I know I am loved and wanted but the feeling remains.I try to distact myself by engaging myself in activities but nothing helps.And I can just not stop crying and like to stay all alone. Please help me!! (link)
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hey I understand nobody likes to be alone but like don't always be in a rush to find someone just focus in your life school family friends and then eventually you'll find the right you'll find him unexpectedly... just don't be always lookin for someone because life isn't always just bein with someone.... trust me you'll find the right one unexpectedly its happened to me before well hope I helped=)
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When you have sex for the first time on a scale of 1-10 how much did it hurt for you and was it really that pain ful ? (link)
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wow my first time I would say a 10 but like the thing is you have to do it with someone that understand that its your sirts time like if you say it hurts he should be like ok ill go slower you get me someone that is nice and gentle but girl just enjoy don't let it get to you like because since I'm sayin it really did don't think about it when he's going to be relaxed and just feel good that your doin it with someone you love well hope I helped =)
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i was raped when i was younger and i don't know what to do anymore it haunts me in my sleep. I think about it all the time and when i see any of the guys that did that to me i freak out i start crying and they were all over five years ago so i can't go to the police and tell them i was raped i don't know any of the guys names. All i know is that they used to date my mom and when i told my mom that they were doing that to me she didn't believe me. I am now in foster care and i don't ever see my mom. But that fact that i was raped is scary and i need all the help and advice that i can get. so please anyone help me. (link)
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sweety it is never too late to tell the poluce but you don't need to know there names but the way they look and what they did to you... you really need to tell the police because trust me you'll be reliefed also you don't tell the police this wil probably haunt you for the rest of your life well hope I helped =) tell the police
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Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me. (link)
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damn girl sorry to say this but it seems that he used you luckily yall didn't even go more but seriously your only 12 turnin 13 and you doin theses thing imagine when your sixteen and the reason why you feel guilty was because you know he wasn't the one you wanted to do that with you did but with him because you were into it and couldn't stop your hormones but you know wait when your older with the right guy that you love to do these things and you'll feel better control your hotmones missy
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tomorro is mine and my bf's 5 months! any ideas on what we can do and what i can give him? 17/f by the way and if it help i will probably be picking him up tomoror. an ideas on how to suprise him in the car? like any food i can bring/buy for him and what i can give him? make preferably. thanks! (link)
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I think you should get him a big teddy bear with a pic of you guys sayin I love and dress really pretty hope I helped =)
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Okay, so, they guy i like, has a girlfriend, but he told me that he liked me and to wait for him. Should i continue to wait for him? (link)
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you should never wait for a guy because you could never count on it for sure ... how you so sure that there gonna break up soon... how you sure that if they break up hell be with you in a second like it'll make you look bad knowin that you waited for a guy.... also would you like if your in a relationship and some girl is waitin for your boyfriend well hope I changed your mind =)
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Sorry in advanced if it is long. I'm 16/f. So, I broke up with my bf of 4 months a month ago. And the same exact day he got a new gf. And he didnt bother telling him, I found out at a party, I saw them together. And it didn't feel right to me, like he shouldn't have moved on so quickly. But I wasn't really jealous I don't think. And we are still friends, which I'm glad for, and I'm constantly going online to see if he is on. And when he is, my heart starts to race like crazy, and I'm like so happy. We can talk forever but little stuff, we just always find things to talk about. I also think about him all the time no matter what, it drives me crazy. And when I'm not talking to him, I feel a little depressed. I'm just scared that if we do get back together, it will end up like the past. I really don't want to hurt him again, I would just hate myself. And after we broke up, I told myself that I did love him, but just that it was just friendship love. But now I"m not too sure. Can I really still be IN love with him? And I just also need some advice on how to deal with these feelings if they won't go away. I'm just really confused and need some advice. (link)
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hey I have a feeling that your really into him you remind me of my and boyfriend we only went out for a month because he didn't feel the same then like he noticed what he lost and we went out and now were going out for 7 months but what I'm tryin to say is talk to him but I understand he has a girlfriend I think you feelin this because you saw that he moved on quickly so your bothered... but hey look I believe your x wasn't heatrbroken because I believe he was talkin to some girl behind your back and and havin her waitin for him incase of anythin I'm not tryin to make him look bad but if you see him movin on why is he stoppin you you should just go out a lot spend time with your family just find anythin just to distract and like don't be goin online a lot just for him well hope I helped =)
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I really like this guy and I wanna have sex with him, only, I'm a virgin. I don't know how or what it's like and I'm really nervous. Any advice or tips or could any of you girls tell me what it's like to be layed? Anything will help. Thanx
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make sure you really like this guy enough to be like I'm so glad I lost it to you like feelin no regrets like make sure that if you loose it he's not the type to spread it arpund to his friends... make sure he's always be there and he really cares about your body... you would have to love someone to feel special knowin the fact that that guy really did care about me also well hope I helped make the right decisions =)
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why do we cry over a guy?
when i listen to a slow jam its always remind me of the guy i likev and makes me cry so much..... why?
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hey a lot of girls cry for guys for example ME I use to cry over some guy that wasn't even worth it at all so what I did was just look for a guy that was super cute and I did and now he treats me way better like if I got a gift in return for bein a faithful girlfriend well what I'm sayin is that just distract yourself what I did was I always called my best friend and we would all night till she got sleepy and I was distracted also like just enjoy life you don't know what your missin out there because your so hooked on and all down just enhoy life well hope I helped =)
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my boyfriends kind of skinny.
actually hes realllly skinny.
Alot skinnier then me.
and to be honest it kind of bothers me..
i feel so much bigger than him and i dont know how to get over it cause i really like him.
but like i feel like im going to crush him and i just feel like we dont look right together cause usually i go for more muscular looking guys
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remember its not all about the looks if he's really sweet to you and treat you good then everything will be good don't let the way he looks manipulate your feelings well hope I helped =)
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k so i'm 14 and i fell for a 16 yr old. He said he liked me and i told him how i felt. We decided that we'd wait a month before we decided anyhting b/c we had met really recently.
Now he says that he doesn't think he'll be ready to date anyone for a while, but he still only likes me. But i dont want to wait. Should i just give up and move on or wait for him? (link)
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well if it was me I would never wait for a guy there's no point because usually guys will just let you down like what if you waited for him and the next thing you know he has another girl also you guys decided for a month and he still wasn't ready but at the same time I think you guys should just talk straight out o see what's up he probably like that because he's probably those party boys well hope I helped =)
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