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move on or wait?
k so i'm 14 and i fell for a 16 yr old. He said he liked me and i told him how i felt. We decided that we'd wait a month before we decided anyhting b/c we had met really recently.
Now he says that he doesn't think he'll be ready to date anyone for a while, but he still only likes me. But i dont want to wait. Should i just give up and move on or wait for him?
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i9 say just go find someone new. forget about him. its not worth waiting for. i think he has found himself someone he likes better than you or that the reason why he told you to wait for a month is becuz he was messin with you. anyways just go on. if you dont want to wait then dont. hes not controlling you. go on with life and find someone new.
Bluebell78
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give him up woman!!since he cant make a simple decision of weather he wants to be with you or not then hes just a kid not worth your time....go out and find someone eles you have a lot of years ahead of you and youll meet A LOT of guys trust me
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Hi, waiting for him if only for a month is good in alot of ways because it is giving him time to sort out what he wants and deal with the different messages his brain and heart are telling him. However if you find that weeks and months are going by and he isn't letting you know and your still waiting then it might not be worth waiting for. People shouldn't after wait for ages and if thats the case then don't. It will only worry you and make you think the if questions. Daniel.
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Don't wait. Play hard to get, he'll want you even more if he knows he can't have you and your not waiting for him. Just be like ok I'm not waiting for you, I don't wait for guys. It shows respect for yourself and it shows him you don't need him. If he knows you don't give a shit and are hard to get he'll probably be interested and want you even more. Good Luck!!
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I think...You can wait for him if you want but someone else will come along and that is when you need to worry about what to do... right now just wait for him and if someone else comes along and he says he's really you need to follow your heart... thanx for listening...and keep the fires burning...
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You should tell him that you aren't going to wait for him and he needs to make a decision. No guy is worth the wait. Either he wants to be more then friends or not. Don't let him think about it either because it isn't that hard of a decision. Hope I helped.
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well if it was me I would never wait for a guy there's no point because usually guys will just let you down like what if you waited for him and the next thing you know he has another girl also you guys decided for a month and he still wasn't ready but at the same time I think you guys should just talk straight out o see what's up he probably like that because he's probably those party boys well hope I helped =)
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