HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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Ok so i wanted to be a photographer, but everyone is telling me it has no money and i'll suffer. Well than i wanna be a cop or a person off of like law & order. but ppl said that has no money either.. idk what to do. i really wanna do photography but will it be a bad choice or not. please help me i'm begging please!! thank you ver much (link)
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the thing you need to ask yourself here is do you care more about getting alot of money while doing a job you like OR doing a job you LOVE and getting a little bit of money?
IF you want both then mabey you can take photography as a hobby,something you do in your spare time while getting a job that will pay you alot.
If youre reallly into the photography thing then mabey you should get into it but like make a phd in it in order to be sure youll make more money then a normal photographer^_^
good luck^_^
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We have arranged groups and unfortunately, I was paired up with one of my friends. I know you might be thinking, "UNFORTUNATELY?!" but out of all my friends and including myself, there's only 3 of us that actually try in school.
My friend even told me herself that she doesn't' care as long as she passes but I want to work in the medical field, which means I need super high marks if i want to fulfill my dream of healing people.
I want her to work and I can already tell that I'm going to get mad at her eventually and snap at her, ruining our friendship. How do I convince her to stop fooling around and just TRY without ruining our friendship? (link)
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hey=]
look this is what youre gonna tell her but nicely
"it isnt gonna be fair if i do all the work all by myself and you just dont care and wont do anything,if youre not gonna take this seriously and youre not intending to,then tell me so i can ask the teacher to get me a different partner.I want to work in the medical feild and getting high marks means alot to me,and as a freind im asking you to please take it seriously"
its not being mean,its being direct and getting to the point.Your future is a very important thing and you should let no obstacles hold you back from acheiving your dreams.
good luck^_^
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i dont even get whats wrong with me most of the time. sometimes, everything will be fine. like, ill be hanging out with my boyfriend and his house or at the store or something. and then suddenly, all my energy and happiness gets sucked out and im up in space and i feel like dying and he keeps asking me whats wrong and i keep telling him nothing. most of the time it is just nothing, but its bringing a wedge in between our relationship.
i love him to death, and i think he loves me, too. but whenever i get upset or depressed, i dont like talking. i just want to sit and stare at something or just lay down and go to sleep. so whenever he says "i love you" i just nod and say "mmhmm" and he thinks im mad at him BUT IM NOT!! these random depressions are ruining everything and im always upsetting him, and upsetting him just upsets me even more.
i tried to tell my parents once that i was depressed but they pulled the old "you're a teenager, its just hormones" gag and so i never tell them anything.
i probably wont kill myself, but i really want to. i was raised christian, and also raised to believe that if i kill myself, i burn. and im afraid of hell.
i think im mostly worried about not being with my boyfriend in the future. hes left me before, and whose to stop him from doing it again? i just cant handle it anymore. and i dont like being a downer. around him, especially.
im 16/f, btw. if anyone has any advice, please share. i dont know what to do anymore. :( (link)
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hey hun=]
look,you need to talk to your boyfreind about this and make him understand what youre going through.Tell him how much you love him and how you want to be with him forever and that your sorry about how you sometimes shut off and explain why it is that happens.Hell definetly understand.But sweety is there a certain something thats getting you depressed and your somehow trying to deny it to yourself by saying"i just get depressed outta nowhere"?
if there is you gotta get down to the root of whatever it is and try to find a solution to it!
Talk to a trusted person about it,an adult or a trusted freind.Try to tell your parents again and tell them youre sure this cant be just horomones because if it were you woulda fealt a little better just knowing that.
Anyway,i hope it all goes good for you and hope this helped
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Ami in love with the guy i have been with for 5 months? i cant stop thinking of him, i cant eat i cant sleep. i dont know wht has gotten into me. whenever im not with him i wonder if its really true. does he really love me like he says he does? i just want to know so i can watch what im doing. (link)
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hey hun=]
ok to know if your in love you gotta ask yourself the following questions
do you feel all emotional and missing him when hes not around?do you get a little jelous of his girl freinds?would you be willing to sacrifice some things you like and want for him?does he make you happy?does he ever hurt you?does he do everything it takes to make you happy?does he PROVE he loves you?or does he try pissing you off and treats you badly?did he say he loved you before?when you guys got together did he ask to be your guy and say how much he wus into you?
if you dont feel all emotional and happy when you see him or think of him mabey you just like him and its too early for your love.
hope this helped you hun^_^
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How do I talk to my parents about sex and purity? Whenever I bring somthing up with my dad he gets mad at me and with my mom it just gets akward. What can I do? I want to stay pure till marrige, Im thinking about getting a purity ring just as a reminder whenever it starts to go to far with a boy. How can I bring up a conversation with my parents. I have a little sister(11) if that helps at all. Thanks in advance! (link)
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ok then forget about your dad for now and start with the easier to talk to parent....ur mom!!
it may be akward but come on you need to talk to her sooner or later!just think of it this way its not like shes gonna be mad at you when you say mom i want to be pure till marriage,if you were my daughter id be mad proud of you and id be listening to you till the end!Itll be akward at first but then bit by bit youll get the hang of it^_^give it a try youve got nothing to lose^_^
just start off like this...mom what do you think of people that stay virgins till marriage?Well im thinking of staying like that because....blah blah!see its not that hard is it^_^
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Hi! I;m gonna spend the night at a girl's house... And sometimes when i go places, we don't do nothin.... Any ideas of stuff we could do that is actually fun and not stupid? We're both 13 year old girls btw... And i'd prefer ideas where i don't have to buy anything... Just cause it isn't a BIG slmber party with bunches of people... I'm just gonna go hang out with my friend.. Any ideas will be greatly appreciated!!! (link)
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make retarted funny videos!lol me and my friends do that when theyre at my house^_^put on a song and act it out in the video you make in the funny version^_^lol
you can play truth or dare,talk about anything and evrything.
you can watch movies,tv,go online,make dances!!
me and my other freind would make the coolest dances ever!!
hope this helped^_^
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umm about the bright eyeshadows :
when can i ever use these eyeshadow colors? dont you think theyre a little too bright? like, to wear at any occassions. not school, not work, not a wedding, not a basketball game.
1 if you suggest, like a club, or party, HOW DO YOU PULL IT OFF?
2 and do i put just ONE color or mix n match?
the MAIN QUESTION IS: when can i use these bright ass shadows?!?!?! (link)
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yeah theyre bright,so?theyre pretty!you cant wear them in school thats for sure.The only time you can wear them is like at night,in a club,prom,party,and mabey if your just out normally with your freinds at night.
This eyeshadow is not just one color here,she used many colors.She used three colors at the bottom which are light green then she goes in middle with a darker green then the last shade in the bottom is the darkest green.Its like putting on eyeliner but from under and using eyeshadow instead.She also has just normal black eyeliner abover the three green eyeshadows at the bottom which isnt hard to put on at all.Now as for the top lid she has mascara,a thin layer of eyeliner and eyeshadow.The eyeshadows base color is a pink peachy color that you will put all over your top eyelid.In the bottom of your eyelid you will put a darker pink then the base color you applied on your whole eye.Under your eyebrows should be a shade of white.
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i dont know if this is weird but i love talking to random people. not like, aol chat rooms where you talk for 2 seconds and then someone ims you wanting sex from you but just casual conversation. are there any websites that are safe and let you talk to people your age (16-18years old)??
p.s. i really love talking to foreign people. like from england, ireland or france (i speak some french) (link)
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Definetly facebook.When i go on it,i get added by loaaads of people everyday.And if youd like to get to know me the pleasure is mine^_^i live in egypt;p
you can also chek out myspace that has people all over the world you can get to know.
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i met a guy at a training class and he seemed like he liked me.
the last day of training came and he kept giving me hugs and when i was in the store with him before we were about to leave and both head home he came up behind me and wrapped his arms around me and gave me a big hug and it felt so perfect.
he was really flirty and often asked me when i was gonna come visit him since he lives an hour away. we exchanged numbers and its been 3 weeks since i saw him. we dont talk much but the other day we were textng and i felt like he still liked me cause he was like yea i miss those cute eyes blah blah so the next day i was like... "hey i like you" and he didnt say he liked me back!!! he was like no you dont you dont know me. im soooooo confused i thought he liked me. and now i feel like an idiot and yesterday (following day) he texted me and i was like dang seems like you dont want to talk to me anymore and he was like no. and today he didnt even text me or anything. i feel so confused. was he just a big flirt???? or maybe did i scare him??? please help!
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alright forget what you said and just play it COOL.Act like you didnt say anything and forget about it compleeeeetly!Mabey you said it to soon,mabey you really dont know the real him.Mabey the only thing you know about him is hes all flirty with you,did you get to know him as in his personality?what he likes,dislikes,hobbies,bad habbits?if you dont know all of that then you obviously dont know him that much.It takes time to get to know a guy,a couple of months arent enough although you might think it is.He thought you were playing around cuz you said it so casually like hey i like you and you didnt give it a chance to grow.Thats ok though it can be fixed hun.Just let it go forget what you said and STOP PANIKING!!Call him up or text him like youd normally do and talk.No big deal.Give yourself a chance to get to know him better and more important,for him to know YOU.
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ok well i was with my boyfriend for about almost a year then i found out i was pregnant i decided
to keep the baby but now we arent together and im 6 months pregnant we broke up because he thinks im in love with some one else which is kinda true. i love one of my closest friends. my boyfriend ask if i would pick him over my friend and i said no and thats why we broke up. see i've known this guy since middle school and i kno that he will always be there for me and i care about him alot we used to date but we broke up and now he has a girlfriend who hes been with for a year and 3 months i told him how i felt a while ago but he said he wanted to see where his relationship with the new girl would go anyway yesterday im ex call and asked me if i still loved him but i realized i never really was in love with him but didnt want to hurt his feeling so i ask him was he in love with me and he said yes then i told him i cared for him but i didnt want to be with him and he said you'll change your mind and hung up ............so now im wondering what should i do should i give up the idea of my being with my friend and go back with my ex or keep hope alive
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im sorry but i think its a very unwise idea to get with your freind.honey you got a kid coming!do you ever wonder how confused this kid is going to be growing up with its father not around?If you never liked the guy whos gonna be the father of your kid whyd you get with him?plus hes got a girl freind now.I think you should forget about him.As for your ex,if you truely dont love him and your sure you dont then just stay freinds cuz hes going to have to take care of the kid too you know.but take care cuz any decision you make in your life will affect your kid,so make sure you do whatever it takes to insure your kid will be happy
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i was molested at 7 by a older kid who my grandmother would babysit. everytime she would to sleep he would take me and play games where i would suck him and he would finger me. im now 15 and my mom and my bff knows but my mom doesnt know the extent. i have repressed it so much and when his father died my family went to his wake and all i wanted to do was laugh. but then i saw him and went to the car and cried and mind u this is the first time i have acknowledged it. so now i have a masturbation problem and i look at porn and stuff online. i cant do this much longer i feel guilty and pray to God for me to stop but do it again i feel as if i am truly a bad person who fakes a front of happiness. inside of me there is a hidden darkness that rears it ugly head when i feel lonely or sad and have suicidal thoughts i know i would never do it cuz i hate pain but i dont think this is normal and the worst part is that when my bf touches me i feel dirty or repulsed i desperately want to serve God but i cant because of my past
sry for the rambling and bad grammar but i dont know what to do (link)
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omg how terrible.You cant just keep this a secret,you gotta go scandalize that loser who did this to you!Go tell your mom the whole story and make her do something!Tell her that youre depressed about it and even feeling suicidal!!YOU HAVE TO!if you dont then one day some crazy thought will come to your head and youll do something crazy to yourself!He cant go unpunished for what he has done,when your mom finds out let her call up the police and tell them EVERYTHING so he can get arrested!!Or you can have another trusted adult do it for you if youre worried.As for the porn and you want to stop for religious reasons then i agree,you can stop this one step at a time.Like for example start by having the will and say to yourself"ok i WILL stop watching porn" and then just delet it alll off your computer.Its not as hard as it seems.
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i randomly told my mom that i bought make up at an online store in the interenet and she immediately just FREEEEAAAAKKED OUT AND YELLED AND SPEECHED ME OUT
like what am i supposed to do shes making me feel guilty and like have doubts about my buying online
shud i continue to buy or is it really dangerous
she said there are identity theft online
is that true?
pleasae ansswweer all of my questions i know its all over the place but please. IM SO WORRIED
is there nothing to be worried about?
have you esperienced any of the identity theft online in ur credit card?
how about ..do you continue to buy online?
tell me stories or speeches on anything ADDVIIICCE
please and THANKS. :(
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youre mom is right.Although she did kind of over react but shes right.Sometimes there are like professional online hackers that can get your credit card number and take all the money in it.You should be very careful.
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So ive been with my fiance for awhile and i really want to get married. I already have baby fever. I am moving 400 miles away from my family to live with him which to me would be a big deal if i was him. Hes going to college as a freshman everytime the topic comes up he says he cant. He is capible but doesnt want to. I dont know why he doesnt want to get married but it sucks. Can anyone help me. Is it me? Should i not be moving? What else can i do to show him i want to get married!! (link)
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You need to talk to this guy!Tell him that You gave four years of your life to HIM,taking care of him and doing everything he wants and how marriage would proove to you that his love is for you is true!Youre moving 400 miles away from your family to some far state you arent used to for him and now its time he gave something to you too!!Love is all about sacrifice and if he isnt sacrificing enough then hes not worth it!Plan what youre going to say then tell him,and if it doesnt work then tell him im sorry im not going to arkansas with you,why should i if i keep doing so much for you and youre not doing the least thing that proves your love to me?Tell him youre not going and mabey then hell think about it and marry you.
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ok well my boyfriend ask me to choose between one of my best guy friends and him and i choosed
my friend because i knew him way longer and then my boyfriend broke up with me....... was i wrong to choose my friend? also take in the fact that me and this guy friend use to date i still love him but he has a girl friend he's been dating for like a year (link)
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it depends on who wuz really worth it.Wuz your boyfreind causing drama and making you cry and underappreciating you?wuz he not your type?wus your guy freind always there for you to hear out your problems and alwayz a good freind to you?if so then youve made a wise desicion of picking your freind over your boyfreind.
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ok basically i dated this guy for about 2 years. he broke up with my probably 3 times and then came back. we've now been broken up for maybe 3 months? but during that 3 months we still talked and i still really loved him, and thought maybe he had feelings there too. about a month ago i told him how much i really still loved him and wanted to make it work, and he told me that it just wasnt like that anymore. it realllly hurt. so i decided i really needed to move on. i started hanging out with a lot more guys and i realllly started to get over him. me& him still texted a few times a week, which continued keeping my feelings for him.. about 2 weeks ago he saw this picture of me and a guy on my myspace, and texted me telling me wht a stupid picture it was because the guy was all over me. i think he was jealous? and then he actually deleted me from his friendslist.... since then we hadnt talked. it was the longest we had ever gone without talking. about a week later i requested him as a friend and he DENYED me. like what the hell?? so i figured he was mad at me, and we werent friends or anything lke that anymore. it reallly pissed me off. but i decided whatever, i hated him. about 3 days ago i saw him at the state fair. i shot him a dirty look and walked the other way.. yesterday he texted me saying "why do you give me mean dirty looks for no reason??" and i texted back "why does it matter?" and he said "beacuse you pretend to hate me when you know you love me" and i said "no..i dont" and he said "right." and i didnt text him back. wtff like WHY did he text me??? i was really starting to get over him and then he texted me and i was like wow what an idiot. but now for some reason, today im missing him? i just dont get why he texted me saying that, does he maybe still have feeligns for me? or what? like we hadnt been talking, he said we were done for good, he deleted me off myspace, like why would my dirty looks matter to him?!! (link)
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This guys mad confusing!I dont think you should have hope in the fact that he still loves you though,mabey hes just mad because he never thought that you would get over him and that you would never be happy chilling with any other guy then him,his cofidence is down!HEs mad that you gave him a dirty look,well ofcourse he is anyone would get mad!I think when he deleted you off his myspace it wuz also cuz he wuz mad cuz he never thought youd get over him.I dont think he loves you because when you told him you still did he said it wont be like it used to!Hes just mad youre moving on^_^
MOve on girl life is too short to wait on any guy whos messed up and confused like that^_^
dont think about him either,go for a different guy
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i am 20 years old and i have never madeout with a guy and i am still a virgin and everything. I have kissed a guy but no tongue action. ITs not that i am ugly or anything, it`s just because i havn`t really found anyone or whatever. Sometimes i am kind of embarrased because i never have but do u think guys care if i am a virgin or whatever or do they prefer that because then i am sort of like untouched or do they think that i am a loser because i am still a virgin at 20 and still never madeout with anyone???
Plz Help. Thanks! (link)
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I seriously dont get why people make it such a big deal if you havent had it.I dont think anythings wrong with it at all i mean you cant just give yourself away to any guy just cuz of what people think!Mabey if you do that YOU wont be truely happy!What you need to do is stop worrying so much about what people think about you and your decisions,i mean they dont care when they go off drinking or doing whatever the hek they want about what anyone eles says!YOu shouldnt either.Wait for the right guy,he has to be worth it,not just any guy youre in a relationship with for a couple of months.He has to prove he desserves you cuz youre special!
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practically all my friends are sexually active and im not, ive never had sex. but i dont feel like i really fit in, unless i change my mind set to their perverted minds. like i have to act and talk like them to fit in. but im against that kind of stuff with my beliefs and stuff. so what do i do, continue being friends with those kind of people or make friends who are a little more pg? but its only adultry that im against and almost everyone in highschool talks about who they did, and im just a virgin :/ (link)
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Stick to your beliefs,i respect that youve done that for so long^_^ Havent you noticed that most high school drama and rumors are about sex?Why should you get caught up in this shit?Youll never be truely happy doing something just to fit in.I think you should make other freinds that are more like you because when you make freinds that share the same beliefs as you,you wont be afraid to be yourself and say what you TRUELY think!When your around people that are different,you sometimes try to change your point of veiw on things so it can match theirs!This is a big problem it will only confuse you about who you are and what you truely think.
be yourself and dont change yourself just to fit in cuz havent you ever wonderd like if you leave high school and go to college and the people there think differently..will you change the way you are AGAIN just to fit in there?
think about that^_^
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I'm a 15 year old female.
Okay, here's the deal. I've liked this guy since 7th grade...we're going to be sophomores this year and this summer we've gotten close. We've even gone on a sort of date. So, a couple says ago he asked if i considered us "talking" and I said that I did. He agreed and we texted a little that day. A day or so after that I texted him while i was shopping and he replied to one message but not the one that I sent him back. I was like "oh, well whatever" to that. The next day I texted him again, just to see how he was doing and because he's usually always the one to say something first and he didn't reply. He's not replying to anthing on myspace and he's just not talking to me in general. I mean, what's up with thaT?
-We usually text for hours and talk on myspace and stuff....I don't know why we don't call yet. (link)
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For how long has he been not answering you?if its like a couple of dayz there are various reasons why he isnt answering.One reason is mabey somethings up hes got some problem,or hes busy or something.Another reason is mabey he needs space,some time to be leaft alone and think about where this is going.Guys dont alwayz tell you when they need space they just randomly dissapear.Youve already texted him enough and he didnt answer,so wait.Dont text anymore,wait for him to text you!If its true that he did need time to think and youre all messaging him,youll only confuse any desicion hes about to make.Give it a week then text him,if he dont answer then then its either he really does have a problem goin on or hes just playin with your feelings and you shouldnt try to talk to him anymore!
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Hey i'm 13 years of age and i am a girl. Im a virgine and i have an amazing boyfriend named Braden. And i want him tooo be my first and he know's so, i was hanginf out with him and he tried fingering me, he like barely touched me and it hurt so so much.. is that normal? But tonight we were going too havbe sex... So i need advice FAST!!!!! Thanks in advance. :D (link)
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dont do ANYTHING your going to end up regretting.And something like this,you will definetly end up regretting.Youre only 13 and you have your whole life ahead of you.You should wait till your older cuz theres some things cant be fixed you know once you lose your virginity you cant magically get it back.Live your age your only 13,you can think about having sex when youre older and definetly more ready to make this big desicion.Young teens think about having sex but they dont think about the risk of the condem breaking,pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases that you can get.Wait till youre ready and till youre SURE this is the guy you wana give it to,just cuz you were with him for a while doesnt mean that hes prooven himself worthy of taking your virginity away,its a very precious thing!!!
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http://beautyfromtheearth.com/fpdb/images/content/Image/rainbow2.jpg
is it possible or okay to go to schoool looking like this?
if not, then why do people still buy those eyeshadows! for what OCCASSIONS can you possibly wear those colors! (link)
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I think its really pretty and i personally love it but its a little too much for school>.< i mean in school you can wear makeup but these colors are a little too much.You can deffinetly wear it in like a prom,or if your going out at night to a pretty cafe or club,but its deffinetly not something you should wear in the morning.
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