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HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.

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Age: 18
Member Since: July 8, 2006
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Sorry it took so long to respond. I just found this site again after a long time. THANK YOU for answering this. I can't believe how stupid I was! LOL!

thank you.

thanks, that helps alot :)

Thanks!!! GREAT ideas!!! :-)

thanks but he hasnt texted me for 3 days :[

i'm not gonna throw myself at someone because i am not in a rush to have it and I am waiting for the right guy i was just curious on what they think. Thanks for the advice though. :)

thanks a lot

lol i love that song too, i've actually had that on my myspace for a few days its so cute. thanks for the help!

Thank you. I think that were going to do that Monday.

Thanks, by the way, he said yes (church boy) and I am so happy. I spent all day yesterday hanging out with him and stealing his very tasty ice coffee.

mmm.. ok for starters.. his parents both passed away ): he loves his brother unconditionally and.. would never tell on him meaningI can't even bitch about his brother to him without offending my boyfriend. I've tried going to people.. Ive gone to my step mother and all she says is that I shouldn't be having a long distance relationship (I'm in Massachusetts, he's in Georgia) I broke down once last year during school and the guidance consoler wanted to know every single thing about him that way she could call DSS and ever since then my boyfriend hasn't been as open to me as he was before because he fears I'll break down again, and blurt things that he doesn't want blurted.... which he seriously doesn't know I joined this site because I once again cracked.

thanks

so do i ditch the first girl?

perfect advice thank you! I'm gonna add you as a favorite columnist.

im sorry were does it say that he likes Pokemon no were he doesn't!ok so seriously watch what you say!

bad how wats gonna happen if i cant?

thanks

Heh, yeah I know what you're saying. I don't know how I deal with it.. But hopefully it changes. But thanks for your advice. :]

thanks yeah i think you got the wrong idea about D, hes not a player at all.. he just asks like one. he doesnt do stuff with girls like EVER. thats why i was so suprised.. i was like his first time making out. and yeah thanks i never thought that way about B. and yeah i think youre right A is just nervous. =]

Thanks <3

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awww ur too nice. and i wasnt dumb! i was just being stupid and hyped up on jelly belly energizer jelly beans at 3 in the morning. i got suspended for my hyperness- happy?!

ok thanx a lot you've really helped me

Haha, thank you! lol

Haha thanks for giving a real answer other than 'It's her business' or 'that's odd'

Thanks a bunch!

well then sara can u please tell him for me 3ASHAN KHATRI LOOL I LOVE U SARA haahahha

Thank you for the advice. I wouldn't be allowed to get a job and if I did I couldn't keep the money. I appreciate your taking time to answer though.

its on ebay. there is no price

thankyou for being honest, i thort it all a long but i just really needed to hear it from someone else! xx

if i tell this whole situation will get 100x worse. the person who did this is in my family and nobody will believe a 16 year old girl over a 27 year old guy, nobody in my family will even listen i'll get beat for even implying it. i know you're trying to help but im looking for other solutions rather than telling somebody

thank you!

you are the best agony aunt!!! thanks

Thanks!

thank you!

Do you even know what slutty means?

thanks !

thanks Xxx when he said that he was only joking around, thats the kind of guy he is :)

Thank you :) I'm actually trying to grow my eyebrows in a bit thicker, but I've over-plucked them so many times that it takes a very long while for them to grow back.

thankyou soooo much, you're a lifesaver!!!

haha thanks ya you can bet I'll never try doing this again :D

cool

thamx yea thts true...

thank you, but yes i aint virgin no more for sure Rating changed from a 2 by L2 mod.

thx

thanks

thanxxxxxx

thanks!

That's what I did and it turned out to be okay. I haven't mention my baby at all. Thanks

thank you soooooo very much. i appreciate it. :D

oh my god exactly! she is going crazy! she would die before talking to he mom or sisters i mean i am the closes thing to her and i guess if anything i'll be going with her. but the thing is where do we find such surgeries?!?!?! her guy is a doc so if he looks or something he'll know so we need to get this dun get her to bleed and get this done with. she is such a nice friend and i hate to see her be punished for something she never did. as a muslim what do you think i should be doing to help her anymore advice?!?! :S thanx soooo much!

Thanks

i don't talk about people alot, but okay.

wow, i can tell u know what ur talking about! thanks!

you were very up front, thank you. I think tonight will be the night if he isn't too tired after he gets off work. Thanks

Well I don't believe in god. So don't try to make me think he's real. I believe in science. You didn't even answer my question.

thank you so so so much! as for the pictures, i think they were a few years back before she even started wearing it. this really helps me a lot! <3

some people get their hymen broken through being extremely athletic or other nonsexual activities .. if a gymnast breaks her hymen due to like her really flexible movements, it doesn't mean she lost her virginityy .. right?

Thanks and you're right

you know i asked for advice. i didnt ask the question to get critizied. im not cruel. and she isnt going to get mentally hurt or depressed. she is like everyone else besides the fact that she cant walk. and it fucking pisses me off that that is what everyone sees.

thanks

They're not going to "go for me." That's not the point, or the problem. But thank you anyway.

you pretty much confirmed everything i was thinking. but i would never have sex with him, so. yeah. thank you very much :)

Very Good advice. Although we never had sex. I wasnt the one who brought up sex he did. & how do i get to the emotional side? Thanx.

Ur rite... I love my bf alot and this guy is jus like a passing phase... Thanx

Thanks

this has been going on all my life, and i actually did have a bladder infection a couple weeks ago, but this has nothing to do with it. i only pee when i laugh, and it doesnt burn, and theres no blood. thats why i rated four

he's getting drug tested today. just to prove his innosence thnkz tho

thanks. yeah he did that the first time, but i just didn't know if it was different because i was open about liking someone else.

okay....

Thanks!

but i really care about him i just don't love him!

You're right. I shouldn't fear the truth.

Hmmm I am very deprived on religion facts and such. All I know is that Christians believe in God and Athiest don't haha. I know, sad. So is Islam the same thing as Muslim? I get confused with that. But anywhos, that's cool that you are. All my friends are either athiest, agnostic, or christian so hmmm...

thank you for your time and consideration. I'm not "only 13" actually though. It just so happens i'm 14 1/2. i look 17.

I really don't like to curse, and I'm afraid to hit her in school b/c teachers will yell at me and I'll get in trouble. One time she told a teacher that I hit her when I didn't.

i didn't sleep with him ^o) i said i didnt want to.. i was just wondering if i did the right thing.

Thanks

thanks for your help! great advice! i really appreciate it!

everything you just told me is totttally wrong. so please don't tell me were not "true" friends if you don't even know us. okay? thanks.

What was stated was obvious and the emotional connection etc is great. I was interested in advice on the actual sexual compatability and wanted advice from a man about men.

Its been awhile now... I'm not all the way better, but I think it was just a bad cold. Thanks for the concern though!!

that was good advise but i dont think it is right. not many of my friends are going out with guys and it is not that i may think that i like him it is that i really like him[ enough to almost ask him out] but then i think wait what if he doesnt like me that goes on for a while and then i start likeing someone else to stop my self from getting confused. I AM CONFUSED AGAIN. Thanx

Thnks so so much!!!ur awesome!!!

being religious will just make me worse biotch! Rating changed from a 2 by L2 mod.

You gave me awesome advice! -Thanks

Thanks!

Thankyou. =]

thanks ill try

very good point.

Thanks.

Thankyou so much. Do you know where to get a wax kit?

thankx i really apreciated it and i just wanted help.

Well, not much help, at all. But I appreciate your time, and thank you for sharing your beliefs with me. =)

thanx!!! =]

thx alot

Thanks.. My skin is already ruined, it has been since 6th grade when ..acne attacked me. Now I'm covering it up because it just.. won't go away.

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thank you.

i had make up on just not as much as she wanted me to. Im white so my skin isnt going to look tan in the pictures.

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