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am i hopeless


Question Posted Thursday August 14 2008, 3:16 pm

ok well i was with my boyfriend for about almost a year then i found out i was pregnant i decided
to keep the baby but now we arent together and im 6 months pregnant we broke up because he thinks im in love with some one else which is kinda true. i love one of my closest friends. my boyfriend ask if i would pick him over my friend and i said no and thats why we broke up. see i've known this guy since middle school and i kno that he will always be there for me and i care about him alot we used to date but we broke up and now he has a girlfriend who hes been with for a year and 3 months i told him how i felt a while ago but he said he wanted to see where his relationship with the new girl would go anyway yesterday im ex call and asked me if i still loved him but i realized i never really was in love with him but didnt want to hurt his feeling so i ask him was he in love with me and he said yes then i told him i cared for him but i didnt want to be with him and he said you'll change your mind and hung up ............so now im wondering what should i do should i give up the idea of my being with my friend and go back with my ex or keep hope alive



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caramella answered Thursday August 14 2008, 8:45 pm:
im sorry but i think its a very unwise idea to get with your freind.honey you got a kid coming!do you ever wonder how confused this kid is going to be growing up with its father not around?If you never liked the guy whos gonna be the father of your kid whyd you get with him?plus hes got a girl freind now.I think you should forget about him.As for your ex,if you truely dont love him and your sure you dont then just stay freinds cuz hes going to have to take care of the kid too you know.but take care cuz any decision you make in your life will affect your kid,so make sure you do whatever it takes to insure your kid will be happy

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Cricket1613 answered Thursday August 14 2008, 7:46 pm:
you cant make yourself love someone. no matter how hard you try.try to make things right between you two though, you dont want him on bad terms with you.and as for your friend.. i would say forget about him too... keep him as a friend, because og course you are going to need support from everyone but ask yourself if you really need a guy there for you.
good luck.♥christina

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