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I did it now its too late to turn backk...girls and guys help needed!


Question Posted Thursday August 14 2008, 3:33 pm

15/f
Whenever im with my boyfriend he always tries to put his hand down my pants. and i wouldnt mind it but i have pubic hair and im scared it would gross him out, so talking to some friend we were all going to go skinny dipping. and they were like ugh i need to shave first. and me being curious was like shave what they were like my vagina its prickly. i was like oh yeah haha. so that night i went and shaved my vagina. and now it just looks weird and not normal... and i think i made the wrong decision. but i cant go back now. was i suppose to do that?
guys when your going to finger a girl do you expect hair or no?
and girls just please help with the whole situation of shaving down there.


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hotpotato answered Friday August 15 2008, 9:48 pm:
I agree that you should leave a landing strip but wax everything else. They sell products to wax the bikini line and down there where it is most sensitive.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday August 14 2008, 9:50 pm:
Beard trimmer is far better than shaving.

A beard trimmer gives you zero razorburn. It allows you to cut the hair short enough that it doesnt get in the way or look bad, while leaving it long enough usually to avoid the ingrown hairs problem as well. Lastly, rather than being stubbly and rough for a week after it starts growing back it starts out past the stubble point so the hairs are still relatively soft.

All you need is a beard trimmer (like 15 bucks at CVS) a decent hand mirror and a good source of bright light.

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ashhishurrrr answered Thursday August 14 2008, 9:25 pm:
I know it feels weird the first time you do it, But you will get used to it. And most guys prefer it shaved/trimmed.But if you aren't comfortable with shaving the whole thing, You can shave the outer area and only trim the inner area. I'm not sure if this is an option because your only 15, But you can also get it waxed..then it won't get prickly for about 4 weeks. But either way I don't think your boyfriend will get grossed out by your "pubic hair". A vagina is a vagina..And I think a guy will love it either way! (:

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vindicated answered Thursday August 14 2008, 9:05 pm:
I shave, and have been for awhile.
But for one thing, I think it'll always look funny (though in my opinion better hairless but then again I don't like hair like that I'll feel gross) cause honestly, I don't think any girl's vagina is pretty. Face it, how likely is that?
I think it's more enjoyable shaved also cause you don't have to worry about that and it's easier for the guy to get around and won't pull any hairs *which would hurt like hell*
Any more questions feel free to ask :)

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StarryNightSkies answered Thursday August 14 2008, 6:08 pm:
usually guys might feel a little weird with it being completly bald, so some girls just trim it real short or leave a "landing strip"...
when you said it doesnt look normal, do you mean by the way you shaved it or just the fact that it's bald?
since this is your first time shaving it will look a little weird at first because it's the first time you've seen no hair on it since before you hit puberty.


EDIT **
no it's not bad that you shaved it completely, it will grow back faster than you'll realize. and a landing strip is where you shave every where except for a small patch directly in the middle

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curliecue answered Thursday August 14 2008, 5:38 pm:
I don't shave but I trim it down so it doesn't get prickly like you said.

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