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best guy friend and boyfriend


Question Posted Thursday August 14 2008, 12:33 pm

ok well my boyfriend ask me to choose between one of my best guy friends and him and i choosed
my friend because i knew him way longer and then my boyfriend broke up with me....... was i wrong to choose my friend? also take in the fact that me and this guy friend use to date i still love him but he has a girl friend he's been dating for like a year


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brriannnnax3 answered Friday August 15 2008, 8:35 pm:
I definitly dont think its wrong that you chose your'e friend. your boyfriend should understand that he isnt the only person in your life and that he cant be the only guy you talk to . if there was nothing going on between you & youre friend at the time when you & your boyfriend was going out than he had no right to get mad and break up with you just because of a friendship.

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caramella answered Thursday August 14 2008, 4:34 pm:
it depends on who wuz really worth it.Wuz your boyfreind causing drama and making you cry and underappreciating you?wuz he not your type?wus your guy freind always there for you to hear out your problems and alwayz a good freind to you?if so then youve made a wise desicion of picking your freind over your boyfreind.

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LOL_x0x answered Thursday August 14 2008, 4:25 pm:
I don't think it's wrong. If you felt your best guy friend was more important, there's nothing wrong with that.


Boyfriends will come and go, but friends are forever ;]


-Laura (16-f)

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sweetsuga76 answered Thursday August 14 2008, 3:51 pm:
Smart choice! Your friend is so much important to you. I can see the big space for your friend then your ex-boyfriend. This ex-boyfriend isn't good enough for you if he's feeling a bit jealous of your friend and you and making you chose between him and your friend. Very, very nice choice, lol.

~~~Thanks 4 your time and reading my advice,
*sweetsuga76*

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prettyinpink1 answered Thursday August 14 2008, 3:15 pm:
i think you took the right dvecition. if he really loved you he wouldnt have pushed you like that.in my opinion friends are waay more important than boyfriends, and what he did was unfair, so yeahi think what you did was tottaly right

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uisforukelele answered Thursday August 14 2008, 1:51 pm:
If your boyfriend seriously just made you choose between him or one of your good friends, that's fair reason to stop dating him. You were perfectly right in choosing your friend. Your boyfriend shouldn't have put you in that position to begin with... that was rude of him. Take this as a blessing because if someone ever makes you choose between them or another person, they obviously don't deserve you.

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Jehmehh answered Thursday August 14 2008, 1:28 pm:
You weren't wrong for choosing your friend. Your [ex] boyfriend shouldn't have made you choose like that. Anyone who puts you in a situation like that isn't worth your time. And the fact that you dated your friend and that he's dating someone else now, and it hasn't impacted your friendship with him negatively shows that you guys should stay friends. You made the right choice. Never let a guy compromise any of your friendships.

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freshcutroses answered Thursday August 14 2008, 1:15 pm:
On this question you are just going to get everybody's personal opinion, and my opinion is that you made the right choice. Ditching your friends for your boyfriend never seems to work out well in the end... I mean, usually friendships last MUCH longer than any sort of romantic relationship. Look at it this way, your best guy friend could be your friend for the rest of your life, but your boyfriend probably wont be. (Obviously most high school relationships dont end in marrige- in fact, most dont even last past highschool.) High school relationships last months or years at the most. [I assume you are in highschool?] So yes, I think you made the right choice. You're too good for any guy who makes you make choices like that anyways! Stick with your best friends... and maybe you two can get back together someday!

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