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why did he text me?


Question Posted Wednesday August 13 2008, 7:21 pm

ok basically i dated this guy for about 2 years. he broke up with my probably 3 times and then came back. we've now been broken up for maybe 3 months? but during that 3 months we still talked and i still really loved him, and thought maybe he had feelings there too. about a month ago i told him how much i really still loved him and wanted to make it work, and he told me that it just wasnt like that anymore. it realllly hurt. so i decided i really needed to move on. i started hanging out with a lot more guys and i realllly started to get over him. me& him still texted a few times a week, which continued keeping my feelings for him.. about 2 weeks ago he saw this picture of me and a guy on my myspace, and texted me telling me wht a stupid picture it was because the guy was all over me. i think he was jealous? and then he actually deleted me from his friendslist.... since then we hadnt talked. it was the longest we had ever gone without talking. about a week later i requested him as a friend and he DENYED me. like what the hell?? so i figured he was mad at me, and we werent friends or anything lke that anymore. it reallly pissed me off. but i decided whatever, i hated him. about 3 days ago i saw him at the state fair. i shot him a dirty look and walked the other way.. yesterday he texted me saying "why do you give me mean dirty looks for no reason??" and i texted back "why does it matter?" and he said "beacuse you pretend to hate me when you know you love me" and i said "no..i dont" and he said "right." and i didnt text him back. wtff like WHY did he text me??? i was really starting to get over him and then he texted me and i was like wow what an idiot. but now for some reason, today im missing him? i just dont get why he texted me saying that, does he maybe still have feeligns for me? or what? like we hadnt been talking, he said we were done for good, he deleted me off myspace, like why would my dirty looks matter to him?!!

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caramella answered Thursday August 14 2008, 10:51 am:
This guys mad confusing!I dont think you should have hope in the fact that he still loves you though,mabey hes just mad because he never thought that you would get over him and that you would never be happy chilling with any other guy then him,his cofidence is down!HEs mad that you gave him a dirty look,well ofcourse he is anyone would get mad!I think when he deleted you off his myspace it wuz also cuz he wuz mad cuz he never thought youd get over him.I dont think he loves you because when you told him you still did he said it wont be like it used to!Hes just mad youre moving on^_^
MOve on girl life is too short to wait on any guy whos messed up and confused like that^_^
dont think about him either,go for a different guy

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SHAWTY74 answered Thursday August 14 2008, 1:05 am:
when they see you with another man they want you back dont pay any attention to him once an asshole always an asshole truth.. dont fall for that i know exactly what you are goin through just do you and dont talk to him he doesnt have good intentions

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Kittzen answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 10:03 pm:
like why would my (YOUR) dirty looks matter to him?!! Well i believe that he still likes you and he's trying the best he can to get over you. he deleted you from myspace because he wanted to delete you from his life but it turns out that it isn't going so well for him anymore. He texted you because he finally gave in. you gave him a reason to talk to you, to text you acutely and he bit. Like i said i believe he still likes you but he's trying his best not to. so everything you do towards him or that he see, he's going to give in like him texting you it's probably because he misses you. deleting you from myspace was probably because he was jealous of you and that guy. and rejecting you from your friend request was like a white flag to him and he's not going to let him self noticeably give in to you. he wants to get over you but i believe he can't. And that he still somewhere in there he still likes you maybe even love.

i think he will give in again and talk to you. and when he does you should get to the bottom of this does he like you, does he not thing that's going on.

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