My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years and he is showing no signs of wanting to get married. I have 2 children from a previous marrage and he has never been married before. We are both 33 years old and we live in Nebraska where people don't generally wait much longer than 2 years. We have had our ups and downs but we do very well with the exception of me wanting to get married and him putting it off. How long should I wait? What do I do now while waiting? (link)
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Enjoy the time you spend together. Everyday moments by themselves whether happy or not can make a relationship stronger and happier. Take baby steps up to getting married; have him move in, or both of you make decisions together about normal things. He might not want to get married right way, because of the fact that the relationship is so great now, but what happens if something ruins it. Over half of all married Americans are devoiced, and what he is probably thinking is that breakups with someone you love is hard, but a thirty-day drawn out divorce is harder. Give it time, if you two are meant to get married that it will happen. But keep in mind you don't need a ring to be happy with him, enjoy the moments you have, and I guarantee those moments will last a life time, whether or not you ever see that ring.
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i have a new coach for my volleyball team and this year before season starts we have to run 2 miles in 16 minutes. I have never been a good runner, and i definetly have never run a 16 min 2 mile, or even an 8 minute mile....what should i do to get ready for this?!obviously run, but i just need some tips to get myself motivated. (link)
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One of my best friends decided she was going to try out for track this year and her running schedule was just run. If you run a little bit each day, like a half a mile each day one week and than a mile each day for the next week, you will begin to see results. keep a diary of your how far you ran and the time it took you to run it and I guarantee that by the time he needs you to run 2 miles in 16 minutes you will be ready, and even if you don't impress him, you will definitely be able to impress yourself with all of the hard work you did to reach your goal.
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There is a guy down the street, he is over 20 years older than me. I am 16. He is really good looking, funny, cool, calm, and collective. We have the same interests (movies, motorcycles, cars). He sits next to me sometimes at parties. We have had conversations about stuff like Cialis (ED medication, we were joking about it), and once Dirty Jobs with Mike Rowe came on and we joked about the subliminal messaging in that title ;). I took his chair once when he went to the bathroom, and when he came back he laughed and totally pretended to sit on me and put his butt all in my face. I laughed back. Everytime he walks his dog, I go outside for some reason, and he talks to me. Once, I had texted him and he never responded. I went outside the same day, and he cut his walk short (he always walks to the same spot, this time he stopped and turned around waaaay before that) and he came and talked to me. He said he got my text and answered my question about motorcycles, then we talked about age and how I was sick of being young because I needed a parent signature on EVERYTHING. He said the government was just protecting me from myself. I laughed. I have a friend who is helping try and get more friendly with him. Me and her are planning on inviting him over tonight to help us looking for bikes online since he knows more about them than we do. I hope we can be flirty. Can you give me some advice? I want to be able to be flirty with him and be on a more than friend, summer fling, level. I know the age difference is illegal and bad, but I'm not talking about sex or anything. A kiss would be nice. Can you help me? He is single and lives alone, two doors down on my street. (link)
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The best advice anyone could give you is to just be yourself. Think about it, it has got you this far. From reading your question, it seems to me that he is either avoiding you because he likes you and he doesn’t know what to do. Either because of the age difference or maybe he just isn't that good with showing his feelings. Or maybe he is avoiding you because he likes you but he doesn’t want a romantic relationship. Before you start really flirting him, just flirt a little and see if he flirts back, if he dose than he probably likes you. If he doesn’t he might just want to be friends. If he does flirt back than just go with, flirt your way, it is unique and it is a good way to show him who you are, and what you have to offer. Hope I helped.
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i'm a girl, 16 years old going on 17, and i have been dateing my boyfriend sense March 27, 2010. The problem with dateing him is there's a age gap... we are 5 years apart, or 4 depends on how you look @ it, which means he's 21.
so in the first month of our dateing everything was cool and all we would do is hang out. in the 2nd month, or the middle of the 2nd month there was a prblem, he wanted to have sex. see i know that if we do have sex it would be counted as rape, and he would go to jail and i would be in trouble, BIG TROUBLE. so i told him we should wait. so during may he tells me he wants to change his life and start going to church with me.
one day after church i went with him to go meet his mom, we met and she is a wonderful lady. Then the week after he jumped back on the subject (which he's been jumping on alot even after i said no the 1st time) and he gives me the same lame excuses, "well, if your mine, why can't i have all of you?" or "baby, i love you, and i just wanna show you how much i do" and ect. And every time he gives me those lame excuses, as if i never heard those lines b4, i tell him the same thing "you can wait, and if you can't leve."
now he's never did anything to make me wanna leve him, except bring up the sex subject like 1,000 times and i'm getting tired of it. i've asked some of my friend and some said they would "have sex with him and leve him." some said "jus stop talking to him, he'll get the clue." and others said "screw him like bunnys do, and make the sex so good he wouldn't dare leve."
but i'm not worried about him leveing. if he does, he does. that's how i feel. i just don't know what to do. i realy do like him and we have fun together but i'm tired of telling him no and always talking about it.
what do i do? should i give IT up, or give HIM up?
please, some one give me some advice. (link)
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I read somewhere that when you are sixteen you can have sex with anyone up to age twenty-four. (You might want to double check this fact.) My best advice for you would be to do what you feel is the most comfortable for you. If you believe that you do want to have sex with him, than you should probably start reading law books and see if my fact is right or not. But if you don't want to have sex with him, tell him it is illegal and he can wait one more year. Tell him, you love him enough to think of the legal consequences. If you choose not to have sex with him, the most likely thing that is going to happen is that he was ask you again and again, hoping that you will give into his request. Whichever decision you decide to make, stick to your decision. If he loves you he will (maybe not like) be accept any decision you make. And if you do loose him on account of this, just remember that someone better might be your next boyfriend.
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how to get rid of a black eye fast (link)
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Make up is a good way to cover one up. And ice will help the swelling around your eye, some people use steak too but they do the same thing. There is no really good way to get rid of a black eye. You see blood has leaked from your veins and it trapped it self under your skin and until that bruising goes way itself there is no real way to get rid of one. But makeup will help to cover it up, it might not cover it completely, but it will make it less noticeable, or you could wear sunglass.
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how to kill your self with out pain
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This is not the answer you’re looking for i am sure, but sometimes when you feel like this is the end and you just can't go on, because of whatever reason. The best thing to do is just get away. Maybe go for a long walk or solitary vacation where you can just stop and look back on what is really bothering you. Try thinking about all the good times in your life, and always remember that a least five people in your life will be sad if you died. You might not think so now, but I quartette it.
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O.K there is this guy at my school and i think he is very cute and very polite but just recently his best friend told him i liked him and now he wants to talk to me but its summer and i invited him to my pool party but i dont know what to say to him and i am realllllllllllllly scared cause every time i talked to him i like cant talk what should i do?? (link)
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The reason you can't talk to him is because you like him so much, you are scared you will mess up your chance at ever having a relationship with him. The first thing you can do is get a picture of him and try talking to that. i know it sounds weird but some people say it helps. i don't think that will work, but you know all people are different, it might. my advice for you would try to find common ground with him before the pool party. try to find out things he likes and try to built conversations. try preparing possible conversations in your head, so if you freeze you at least you will be well rehearsed and it will stop you from saying something stupid. another thing that i find really works is simply talking to him on the phone, sometimes just hearing his voice and responding to it is easier that talking to him in person. than when you get comfortable enough to have conversation with him on the phone, having conversations in person should be easy. if you don't have his phone number, you can either get it from a friend and make up an excuse to call him, such as if it rains the pool party will be on Friday and so on. if you absolutely can't talk to him on the phone, try texting him, emailing him or facebooking him. just try to find little ways you can talk to him so that moment when you two do talk at the pool party it won't be very odd and uncomfortable for you. if none of these are options for you, you can have your best friend standing by at the pool party so if you do freeze, she can bail you out. she can either pull you out of there before anything embarrassing is said or she can try to keep the conversation going and help you look not so frozen. Hope i helped.
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So I was at this show and it was outside an this one band was there. I never really heard of them or anything, but I was walking past them and I wa like hey you guys sound good. And they were like thanks. And the one guy, was like oh I like your shirt. And then we got in this big discussion about how awesome the artist is and then we started talking about other stuff and we have so much in common. Like he is a really cool guy. And he's done touring right now and is from my area so he asked for my number and we've been testing a lot and he wants to hang out. And then like I want to pursue it but i'm kind of scared too. I mean he is very good looking and I saw so many girls eyeing him up and he tours a lot and I can't go with him because of school. I know I
know I'm thinking way too far ahead of myself but I fall so fast and I just don't want to get hurt"/ (link)
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Not wanting to get hurt is one of the most frequent worries in dating. I know, you know there are many possibilities for him to cheat on you or find someone else. but if you like him don't let your fear of striking out and getting hurt keep you from getting to know him. my best advice for you would to be just to hang out with him and try to decide for yourself if he is the kind of guy to cheat on you, or if he is the kind of guy that would leave you just for the blond in the front row. sometimes this is a very hard thing to decide about a person but you can make the decision by reading his body language and doing a little investigation work,that isn't well, noticeable. what i mean by reading his body language is when you go out somewhere, watch him. see if he is constantly looking around and staring at girls as they walk by. maybe even go to the bathroom and see if he does or dose not hit on the waitress. there are many ways you can read his body language and try to figure out if he is the type to just leave you for another girl. This is just one way you can investigate another way is go and watch him at his shows (if he does any in the area again while he is off tour)when he is not expecting you. whether they are close by or not and just stand in the back somewhere and see if after the show he hits on, or takes home any of the girls what were as you said eyeing him up. I hope i helped you in some way and if you have any questions about my advice please ask me.
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i have a crush on this boy in the year above me an he knows. whenever i see him around school he always looks at me but then when me or my freind turns and looks back at him he looks away quickly like as if he doesnt wont us to see he is looking at me. so what i was thinking was asking him out, but theres a problem he already has a girlfriend. i have liked him for ages but it doesnt seem to be getting me anywere with him so should i just give up on him and move on or should i wait till him and his girlfriend breake up. because i dont wont to give up on him if he likes me. im just so confused any help please ? :P (link)
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Well if you have a friend ask him, the situation can get messy because he already has a girlfriend. but i think he looks away when you look at him, because he doesn't really want to be caught staring at you because lets face it, it can be a little bit odd. and when he stares at you in the hall way he could easily say "i wasn't looking at you i was looking at..." if it something happens that makes him have to say that or if he need an excuse at anytime. but the best advice i can give you is try just talking to him as friends and including him in your group of friends. do things together and get to know each other and see if the situation changes, or you get the feeling that he really likes you. if this does not work you can try moving on until he breaks up with his girlfriend than you can ask him out if you want to. or you can have one of your friends ask him what he thinks of you.
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15/f ok so i have this amazing bf! i love him to death! christmas is coming up and i need lots of ideas on what i could get him i cant think of anything! any opinions would help. i want it to be something special or sentimental but i just cant think of anything :/ plz someone help me i need all the help i can get. i want to make this a special christmas for him thanks :) (link)
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Well what does he like to do? if you think about it that way you could probably get him something that he would really like. if he is a football player you could get him a custom made sweatshirt of his favorite player or himself. if he is a bookworm you could get him the new kindle digital book thing that just came out. and if he really doesn't have any particular group or activity he really likes, (or likes them all) you could combine different things and maybe create for him a collection of his favorite pictures or memories. or a present that has a little bit of all his favorite things in it. (body wash, movies, games, ect.) or maybe for a really good gift maybe you could arrange for you two to go one a winter horse and buggy ride. or just go on a short vacation. once you get thinking about what he really likes there is a lot of options that could make that Christmas just speculator.
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I work as a cashier in a big grocery store and I am seeing a lot of products saying things like, "No high fructose corn syrup!" and stuff. I don't think I saw it a couple of years ago and it's making me curious what the stuff is and if it's bad to ingest. It's like the companies are advertising it because it's a super good thing that their product doesn't have HFCS.
The packages are from big name companies too like Pillsbury (cookies), Snapple (natural teas), Miracle Whip, and even Pepsi had these new throwback drinks that didn't have it in the mountain dew or original Pepsi.
So, what's this high fructose corn syrup stuff and why are they getting rid of it in products? (link)
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high fructose corn syrup is a high amount of sugar made out of corn and put in a form of a syrup. right now they are saying it is very bad for you because it is like splenda the sugar substitute, that is said to harm you in some way or another. there are alot of trends out there in the food market, like once they said that chocolate wasn't good for you or you shouldn't drink milk. this may be a fad the food company is trying to roll over. but in my option this product is like any other sugar substitute. and like sugar it isn't really good for you but it should be fine in moderation. i am no expert on this product so you might also want to try to goggle the protect or ask a boss or someone trained in the food market for more information.
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I wear pads when I have my period, but the only way I can sleep without staining the bed is on my front. I think that position is contributing to my monthly back pains. Any advice? (link)
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My Advice would be to either buy longer pads where they cover everything and it would be so easy to stain the bed or but a thick towel or ratty blanket that you don't care about under you so if it does leak it won't go throw and stain. another good idea is maybe to switch to tampons. they will be uncomfortable at first but when you get used to them it will feel like nothing is there and you can also wear a back up pad so it would be very hard or near impossible to stain the sheet since you have double protection.
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my freind recently told me that he liked me i didnt make a big deal of it because i think im too young to date. now when i ask him who he likes he doesnt ever give me a staright answer but he makes it seem like its not me anymore. He told a lot of people that he likes this other girl in my school that i think is really bad for him. today i asked him if he really did like her and he said that he was just lying.. i really want him to still like me because i like him back to but i think i lost my chance, how can i get him to tell me who he really likes? i've already askeed him many times and he wont tell me so how do i get him to?? (link)
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you can try having one of your friends ask him. or you can talk to him alone and drive the conversation in that way.
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I've had this huge crush on my best friend (who is a guy) and i've always been to afraid to tell him or anyone. People were always teling us that we should go out cause we act like a couple and we look cute together but nothing ever happened. Last week he told me that he has had a huge crush on me since spring break and he asked me out. i didnt give him an answer but i realized that i didnt like him anymore..is that normal to not like someone after liking them for a year? i dont know what happened. please help me figure out what to do (link)
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Well, to put it this way some people put there whole life into something and than all of a sudden when it suddenly matters it just fades away and becomes unimportant to them. i have no clue why this happens but sometimes it does. if you want to date him and give it a try go ahead that attraction might come back to you. and it might be better than you expect. but if you don't want to try it don't. don't pressure yourself to do something that will bother you in the further.
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well i was going out with this boy and we were off and on agian for about a coupel of months. This last time i think it was the 4th or 5th time we are goin out. but, a few weeks ago, he broke up eith me because he belived some other girl. She hates me because he likes well liked me and not her. so anyway, its been at least 2 weeks and i cant stop thinking about him, and i cant help but to like him. my freinds and his friends tell me that he still likes me and wants anthore chance. I dint no what to say. i want to say yes because i do like him but.. i dont want to get hurt anymore. we still talk kinda it took about 12 days to start talking again. its so hard to because most of my friends hang out with him and so im there too. When im with my other friends they all get mad at me because im not with them. so then i try to hang out with more cause we've been friends longer but he's always with them. so then his friend tells me that he still likes me. i do to but i dont wanna. How do i get over him for good? This isnt my 1st bouyfreind but it's still hard. im in 8th grade and about to enter High School. (link)
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Time and distant really level out feelings for one person. it is almost summer so hang out with other friends but don't push the ones that hang around him away. also putting yourself out there again and dating someone else can take your mind off him and make you feel better and it will also make it easier to hang out with him and your other friends. If that don't work you should really try to search inside yourself and sort out your feelings for him. sorting out your feelings can help someone remember but it can also make it easier for someone to forget.
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Me and my boyfriend of over 2 years has just recently decided to try and get pregnant. I've been taking YAZ b/c for about 8 months. A couple of months ago i missed 2 pills in a row and I immediately started my period. However, this time i have already stopped my b/c for the past couple of days and my period still hasn't started. We have only had sex once since my last period...it was last week when we had sex. And my last period started on May 3rd, and if i was still taking b/c i would get my next one on May 31st. So...is their anyway that I could already be pregnant? And what are the chances?
Sorry it was long... (link)
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There is a chance there, but i don't think it is a very high one. sometimes it takes awhile for your body to adjust when you go on and off the pill or anything like that. i know someone who takes the pill and when she goes off she won't have her period for six or seven months straight so it will take time.
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Im moving to another state and i really need hlp. im gonna have to make new friends and last time i moved i couldn make any and i only had about 3. how can i make new friends? plus, i like kiddy shows (nick, cartoonetwork) and im going to be in 7th. (link)
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My best advice for you is to join sports and activities that you enjoy and this will help you make friends. you can also just get out of your comfort zone, put yourself on a limb and just introduce yourself. put yourself out there and keep trying to make friends.
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You said to use an ointment or cream. What do you recommend that girls should use for there chin? (link)
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i believe that if you are going to get something to use for acne on the chin you should use an acne wash by a good name company. than if there is still a probably you can apply ointment or cream either will work on top of this and you should get results.
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what do you think hurts more vacines or blood tests??? because when i took blood out it didnt hurt dat much! but i want you to tell me which one do you think hurts less??
please answer backk!! (link)
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i believe that vaccines hurt more, because the next day or even later that day your muscle where they injected it does hurt every time you move it. when you have a blood test it just get it and go there might be a tender area around the injection site but it doesn't hurt like a vaccine.
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should you get mad if some one draws in your history note book as a joke (link)
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Maybe, especially if you are a perfectionists and have to write it all again. but it is good not to hold a grudge about it, because you can lose you funny friends that way. and trust me that isn't a good thing whatsoever, because even if you don't know it than, at that moment, they are probably the best kind of friends you will ever get and it would be ashame to lose them.
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