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I met a band guy..
So I was at this show and it was outside an this one band was there. I never really heard of them or anything, but I was walking past them and I wa like hey you guys sound good. And they were like thanks. And the one guy, was like oh I like your shirt. And then we got in this big discussion about how awesome the artist is and then we started talking about other stuff and we have so much in common. Like he is a really cool guy. And he's done touring right now and is from my area so he asked for my number and we've been testing a lot and he wants to hang out. And then like I want to pursue it but i'm kind of scared too. I mean he is very good looking and I saw so many girls eyeing him up and he tours a lot and I can't go with him because of school. I know I
know I'm thinking way too far ahead of myself but I fall so fast and I just don't want to get hurt"/
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Not wanting to get hurt is one of the most frequent worries in dating. I know, you know there are many possibilities for him to cheat on you or find someone else. but if you like him don't let your fear of striking out and getting hurt keep you from getting to know him. my best advice for you would to be just to hang out with him and try to decide for yourself if he is the kind of guy to cheat on you, or if he is the kind of guy that would leave you just for the blond in the front row. sometimes this is a very hard thing to decide about a person but you can make the decision by reading his body language and doing a little investigation work,that isn't well, noticeable. what i mean by reading his body language is when you go out somewhere, watch him. see if he is constantly looking around and staring at girls as they walk by. maybe even go to the bathroom and see if he does or dose not hit on the waitress. there are many ways you can read his body language and try to figure out if he is the type to just leave you for another girl. This is just one way you can investigate another way is go and watch him at his shows (if he does any in the area again while he is off tour)when he is not expecting you. whether they are close by or not and just stand in the back somewhere and see if after the show he hits on, or takes home any of the girls what were as you said eyeing him up. I hope i helped you in some way and if you have any questions about my advice please ask me.
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