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thought he liked me??
i met a guy at a training class and he seemed like he liked me.
the last day of training came and he kept giving me hugs and when i was in the store with him before we were about to leave and both head home he came up behind me and wrapped his arms around me and gave me a big hug and it felt so perfect.
he was really flirty and often asked me when i was gonna come visit him since he lives an hour away. we exchanged numbers and its been 3 weeks since i saw him. we dont talk much but the other day we were textng and i felt like he still liked me cause he was like yea i miss those cute eyes blah blah so the next day i was like... "hey i like you" and he didnt say he liked me back!!! he was like no you dont you dont know me. im soooooo confused i thought he liked me. and now i feel like an idiot and yesterday (following day) he texted me and i was like dang seems like you dont want to talk to me anymore and he was like no. and today he didnt even text me or anything. i feel so confused. was he just a big flirt???? or maybe did i scare him??? please help!
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If he were interested he would have called you by now and asked you out. If he was really into he would want to get in there and make his interest known to you so that he could date the fabulous you before another guy got in there.
Men who are really attracted to women don't send random text messages and then ignore the lady for long periods of time. I think he was just amusing himself in the moment and has no real interest in you.
My advice is to delete his phone number and keep your eyes open for other men who are more on the ball. You can't convince a man to like you. They're pretty forward creatures. They either want to date you or they don't.
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alright forget what you said and just play it COOL.Act like you didnt say anything and forget about it compleeeeetly!Mabey you said it to soon,mabey you really dont know the real him.Mabey the only thing you know about him is hes all flirty with you,did you get to know him as in his personality?what he likes,dislikes,hobbies,bad habbits?if you dont know all of that then you obviously dont know him that much.It takes time to get to know a guy,a couple of months arent enough although you might think it is.He thought you were playing around cuz you said it so casually like hey i like you and you didnt give it a chance to grow.Thats ok though it can be fixed hun.Just let it go forget what you said and STOP PANIKING!!Call him up or text him like youd normally do and talk.No big deal.Give yourself a chance to get to know him better and more important,for him to know YOU.
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To early to say if he is really serious about you, it could be he wanted to have a good time and see you later, at the same time like i said it's to early to tell, don't give in to him ??? and you can find out fast if you don't hear from him any more.
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It seems like he's just a big flirt and doesn't like you as more than a friend or someone to flirt with. Find someone new who isn't so flirty if that's not what you're into. That doesn't mean that you can't still be friends, but this guy doesn't seem like he's worth your time if he thinks it's fine to flirt with you but doesn't realize that this may affect your feelings for him.
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