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15/f/uk
So there's this guy I like (let's call him A). He started hanging around with our friend group about a month and a half ago. The day we met, A talked to me quite a bit, made eye contact with me. The next day, everyone was saying that he thought I was really hot. However, he did have a girlfriend (G) at this point. One night after that, we were all out, a bunch of people, and it was dark and A came up to me and asked if I wanted to sit on his skateboard with him. Whenever someone asked him about G, he always acted really disinterested.
From then on, A would always smile and talk to me if he saw me at school, as well as high fiving me, staring at me a lot, and doing things like making me wear his hat. Out of school, he would always sit next to me, compliment my clothes and seemed really happy when he found out we're going to the same college next year.
Then, while I was away for a week, A and G split up. When I got up, he was the same, always looking happy to see me and hugging me all the time.
We went camping just over a week ago, and everyone told me A wanted to share a tent with me. There were actually four of us in the tent, but me and A did sleep next to each other. However, G made an appearance that night, and he did seem to talk to me less when she was around.
Then I went round his with a bunch of other people, including this girl (W), A hugged me and acted the same as usual, but I couldn't help but notice that him and W seemed pretty close. When I dropped obvious hints that I would have liked to sleep in his double bed with him, he didn't acknowledge them, and then W slept there instead.
A few days later, I was out and someone mentioned that A and W had had sex and there was something going on between them but it seemed to be a secret. It was this same day that A was constantly complimenting me, putting his arm around me and basically hanging out with me all the time. We were standing next to each other, and he just started playing with my hands and then he held my hand and didn't say anything. Later, I asked if anyone wanted to come to the cinema, A straight away said, "I'll go!" He asked who else was coming, and when I said I didn't know, he said "It'll just be me and you then." jokily. However, W showed up a bit later and then he didn't really speak to me that much.
The next day, although we didn't go to the cinema, we were both out and he kept apologising about not being able to go, and we kept making eye contact, like the kind you make when you both understand something that no one else does. But then when we were all talking, someone teased A about making a move on me (S), and A said, "No, I wouldn't make a move on S. Unless she wants me to." and then he looked me right in the eye and we just stared at each other while everyone else carried on talking :S
Later, everyone was ahead of me and A, we were walking and he put his arm around me, and then asked who I was going to prom with. I said I didn't know, and he asked me if I'd go to prom with him. Embarrassingly, I acted all shocked that he didn't have a date and asked him why he wasn't going with anyone. He said that he was going to go with G but then they broke up, and then he was going to go with W but if he did, everyone would think they were together, when they're not. So he wanted to go with me.
That night, he texted me asking if I wanted to go to the cinema the next day, just me and him. I said maybe, but then he didn't reply and the next day he still didn't, so I just went out and he did too and said that he thought I was gonna call, and then (in front of other people), "We're not gonna be alone now then..". Later he made me promise him I'd go with him sometime soon, and referred to it to someone else as "our first date."
A couple days ago, loads of people were round, and me and him slept in the same bed and we spooned and held hands all night, and my friend said he was staring at me all the time. But then the next morning W phoned him, and someone else was talking to her and said something about me and A, and A looked really worried. He also said that W thinks he fancies me, and then joked around saying "Because I do, just kidding". But then jokily said to me that him and W were just friends. Since then, we've been texting and he always asks questions, which means he must want to carry on talking, but then he always takes ages to reply.
He's always complimenting me, saying things like, "I really like the way you dress.", "I love your (insert item of clothing here)", "You look gorgeous.", "I think you're a lovely girl.", "Your hair looks nice." etc. and although he's a bit of a charmer, I havn't noticed him complimenting any other girls half as much. He always notices little things about me, and comments on them and asks me questions about them. He ALWAYS sticks up for me and helps me out and asks me about my interests.
I'm pretty sure he likes me, but the problem is know there's also something going on between him and W.
How can I:
get him to like me more?
move our relationship forward?
find out more about him and W
and, What do you think everything he's done means?
Please don't tell me to give up on him, because I've already decided I'm not going to do that.
To me, it's obvious that A likes you. It's possible that he did have sex with W or have some sort of thing going on with her, but I feel like his relationship with W is one thing and he wants to be with you in a different way. If he has slept with W, I think their relationship is purely sexual, whether she wants it to be more or not.
I feel like A really cares about you and isn't so shy that he won't bring it up to you, but is waiting for a sign from YOU. Not doing anything or playing hard to get at this point is not going to help you out. Be direct. Do you want to go out on a date with just him? Tell him you'd really like to go out with just him. He obviously really wants to go out with just you, too.
I wouldn't ask him about W. Doing so would make you seem jealous. If you are jealous, that's fine, but A isn't going to want to know that. For now, just BE DIRECT. If he compliments you so much, try complimenthing him back.
If you and A end up taking your relationship forward, then ask him about W.
Hope everything works out and you have fun at prom!!
okay, my friend, A, was going out with this guy J; it was a long distance relationship and it had ben going on six monthes. but last night he broke up with her because 'he couldn't handle not seeing her all the time. and everytime he did se her he didn't want to say goodbye.' but i think theres another reason he broke up with her, i think he may have cheated on her or something like that. and she's not angry or anything she's just depressed. but should i tell her that i think he cheated or not? and do you have any ideas how to cheer her up? i've done evrything i usually do but none of it's worked. any ideas.
You probably shouldn't tell her you think he cheated. You don't have any solid evidence and it's just based on speculation. For now, just work hard to cheer her up and be there for her. Have a girls night, be there to talk, watch her favorite movies with her, etc. It's all that you can do.
ok my best guy friend asked me out, problem is im gay and her doesnt know it....neither does anyone else. (he's liked me for 2yrs now) so how do i tell him that im gay without breaking his heart?
Unfortunately there's probably no way to do this. Get together with him and sit him down and just tell him how you feel. Tell him that he's your best guy friend and that your friendship is really important to you. Tell him that since you're so close, you would like to share something very important to you that you haven't really told anyone else about. You might want to explain how long you've known you're gay, etc. or just come straight out with it. And then just let him know that you trusted him enough to tell you this and that you love him as a very good friend. Good luck!
i JUST ate at least 500 calories worth of food
i had field hockey practice about 2 hours ago for 3 hours..so that's about 2,000 calories burned.
what will happen to the 500 calories i just ate? will they end up as fat? (god forbid)
RELAX!! 2,000 calories is about a day's worth of food. Assuming you eat 2,000 calories or so a day, you just burned off that much. 500 extra calories aren't going to hurt you. If you're in good shape (which you sound like you are since you play field hockey) it's probably going to amount to nothing, assuming you're not working out and then pigging out all the time.
15/f
do you think its weird for someone to "brush up" on conversation topics before leaving the house, for ex: spending time looking it up on the internet or watching the show that everybody likes.
the idea sounds a little unsettling to me. i want to do it, to get over my shyness, but it feels like brushing up on conversation topics is like going out of your way for others to like you.
It's definitely going out of your way if it's not something that you normally do, but that's not a bad thing. If you want to talk to people, it's good to be informed. Reading up on the latest news and watching popular television shows are things we all do. Perhaps we do it just for enjoyment, but also because it makes us feel connected to others. I love discussing sports, TV shows, world events, and popular culture with my friends, family, and people I meet. These things connect everybody in the world and make it easier to realize how similar we are to other people. So if you're changing up your usual routine to do this, of course you're going out of your way, but there's nothing wrong with that!
I got a truth box but I dont know how to read what people right. everytime i click on it says- Fatal error: Call to undefined method socialAdCrossSellWidget::getMobstersAd() in /var/www/vhosts/rockmyspace.com/httpdocs/google_apps/truthbox/lib/core/widget/socialAdCrossSellWidget.inc on line 366
so what do i click ?
There's probably an error with the application. Wait a few days and check again. If it STILL says that, delete the application and then add it back again.
heey, you answered my question about the facebook app: compare people.
so i can get compared even tho i dont have the app right?
but i dont show up on the top compare people list thingy where it says: most attractive, most being able to work with etc
like on other ppl their profiles where it shows the top 3 ppl with their pic.
i cant be mentioned there, cos i dont have the app right?
or wrong?
ou and do i get notified when i get compared??
haha , sorry im making such a big deal tho :S
Haha, it's cool.
Yes, you get compared whether you have the app or not.
I'm really not sure about the second one but I don't see why you wouldn't be. If you've gained the #1 spot in most attractive, I know they show it on the application page whether someone has the application or not, so it would probably come up on someone else's profile page as well.
You MIGHT get notified when you are compared, but it doesn't always happen. When using the application, there is the option to notify the people that you compared that you compared them. You can either leave the box checked or uncheck it. If someone has the box unchecked, you won't know when you are. Sometimes when you are compared, the application won't let you know, though sometimes it does (I guess in hopes that you'll add it.) It never notifies you when you lose, though.
you said "withdrawl isnt that effective"
I didn't only withrdawl.
We used a condom AND he pulled out when he came.
and I've been on BC for a long time.
I am aware withdrawl isnt that effective, which is why I have a condom and BC and withdrawl is just..another thing..
I was just asking if I was most likely okay. which I think I am because of me 3 methods.
Ya know?
I know that's not what you were asking--just wanted to let you know for future notice.
You can't be positive if you're okay but like I said, I wouldn't worry too much.
OK went to this girls house we had unprotected sex like 6 days ago i think i precummed ok i was really drunk and had ejaculated earlier that day but peed alot after this ejaculation because i was drunk..sorry:( but anyways do u think she is pregnant? do you think the peeing got all of the leftover sperm out and it was just for like 1 minute anyways.
If you have unprotected sex, there is always a chance. Pulling out and all that stuff doesn't work, and your body is constantly creating new sperm so even if you ejaculated earlier and kept peeing you still had plenty of sperm in you. No one can tell you if she's pregnant or not but her, and, afterwards, a doctor, so just wait and see. Good luck.
So there's like a lot of tissue or something around the like actual hole to my vagina, as weird as that might sound. Is that normal?! I'm scared to put it tampons because it looks like the tissue is like blocking the hole? and its weird, I have to like use my fingers to spread appart all the tissue stuff to like see the hole. Is there something wrong with me?!
You're completely normal. Honestly, I'm like that too. The tissue around your vagina is called your labia. Some women have very thin labias and some have bigger ones. Like all other body parts, labias, vaginas, and the entire reproductive system in general come in all shapes and sizes. If you want to use a tampon, use your fingers to spread apart your labia. If that's too much trouble if you spread your legs really wide it will probably open (though depending what possition that puts you in it might be difficult to put in a tampon.)
(1)what's the difference between friends with benefits and an open relationship? (is it just that with an open relationship, you're actually in a relationship while you can do stuff with other people and with friends with benefits you don't actually have a relationship?)
(2) why would someone even bother having an open relationship when they can just be friends with benefits?
1. The answer is basically what you said--and open relationship is usually when you're seeing someone but are allowed to see other people. Friends with benefits means you guys will mess around together but aren't romantically attracted to one another or want to date.
2. Usually an open relationship means you're romantically attracted to someone...but not enough that you want to date JUST THEM. This person is your main sweetheart but that doesn't mean you can't see other people or have other hook-ups. Friends with benefits is kind of more layed back and about the sex (or just kissing) than an open relationship is.
friday i didn't take my bc pill.
i had sex friday night.
we used a condom and pulled out when he came.
i took both friday and saturdays pill on saturday because thats what my sheet told me to do(i remembered i had forgotten friday at the time i was taking saturdays pill)
im pretty sure im okay because we withdrew and used a condom.
so, i'm pretty much okay, right?
bc of condom AND withrdawl.
You're probably fine because you've been taking it for a while. There IS a slight chance--birth control is 99% effective, so when you're on the pill there's always that 1% chance. Since you used a condom, though, I wouldn't worry. Just a note for future notice, though: withdrawl isn't that effective.
um yeah so i think there's some sort of a facebook virus going aroundd cause i've been getting wall posts from people about male enhancement and i really don't want to get a facebook virus so like what can i do to avoid getting one? do you get it only if you click on the link? i'm really worried..
Just delete the wall posts. Don't click on the links because you will most likely get a virus unless your computer has a firewall that stops you from viewing the site or warns you that it has a virus.
15/f
so i recently found out that my mom has been "controlling" my facebook more or less... im wondering how she did that (because she does not know my password or anything).. and how I can get it to stop because I dont want her looking at it
i dont have anything bad its just annoying.
anything helps- thanks
First, I'd change your password. If you have a feeling that she's still messing around on it, change your password again. Then talk to your mom about it. One mistake you don't want to make is telling her that your Facebook is private--it's not. Your Facebook is on the Internet for anyone to see (unless you've set it a particular way, but all your friends can still see it, so it's not private.) Do tell her that you don't like her messing around on it, though. Tell her that if she's uncomfortable with someone you've put up there, you'd appreciate it if she talked to you first before taking the liberty to control your site. She might still be angry with you, but make sure you ask her why she does it...maybe she'll have a point and you can come to a compromise. (She might not like that your birthday is up, you have pictures up, etc.)
Also, don't leave your page up and just walk away from the computer. Then anyone in your house can mess with it, which is probably a big duh, but still.
Good luck!
heyy ,
i wrote kinda wrote about this earlier.well i wrote about how my boyfriend (17) is more experienced than i am. he came over my house when my parents were gone and we weren't doing anything big. And he tried to have sex with me but i said no cause im not ready to yet and i dont feel like its a thing to be rushed into.But i was wondering is it possible for someone to get pregnant when im avirgin..and he tried to have sex with me but "it" didnt go all the way in.. it wasnt even to a point to where it hurt me . but i was just wondering if there wwas anyway it could happen. i wouldnt think it would. but im just making sure. what im really wondering is do you have to have "it" mostly all the wayy? pleasee helpp thankyouu !=)
It's extremely rare, but if your genitals touched but his penis didn't enter your vagina, then you could possibly be pregnant. Like I said, it's EXREMELY rare, but it's possible.
I'm compiling several playlists based on moods.
Can you please list me a few of your favorite songs for certain moods? (Ex: Happy-Unwritten, Sad-Better than me) Anything mood is great and so is any song of any genre. Thanks! :)
ANGRY
Breaking The Habit-Linkin Park
Build God, Then We'll Talk-Panic! At the Disco
Camisado-Panic! At the Disco
Hemorrhage (In My Hands)-Fuel
It's My Life-No Doubt
Jenny Was A Friend Of Mine-The Killers
Little House-The Fray
London Beckoned Songs About Money Written By Machines-Panic! At the Disco
Pardon Me-Incubus
BROKENHEARTED
The Blower's Daughter-Damien Rice
City Traffic Puzzle-The Hush Sound
The District Sleeps Alone Tonight-The Postal Service
Doin' Time-Sublime
Dreaming With A Broken Heart-John Mayer
The First Single (Cause A Scene)-The Format
The Garden-Mirah
Love Me Dead-Ludo
Love You Much Better-The Hush Sound
Lovefool-The Cardigans
Lying Is The Most Fun A Girl Can Have Without Taking Her Clothes Off-Panic! At the Disco
Mr. Brightside-The Killers
Nothing Better-The Hush Sound
On Fire-Switchfoot
Smile-Lily Allen
Sweet Tangerine-The Hush Sound
Take a Bow-Rihanna
FLIRTY
The Boys Are Too Refined-The Hush Sound
Can't Get You Out Of My Head-Kylie Minogue
Can't Stop-Maroon 5
Closer-Ne-Yo
Corona and Lime-Shwayze
Figure It Out-Maroon 5
Fill My Little World-The Feeling
Forever-Chris Brown
I Want You Now-The Feeling
Kiwi-Maroon 5
Little of Your Time-Maroon 5
See You Again-Miley Cyrus
HAPPY
Ain't No Other Man-Christna Aguilera
All At Once-The Fray
All Star-Smash Mouth
Are You Gonna Be My Girl-JET
Beverly Hills-Weezer
Big Yellow Taxi-Counting Crows feat. Vanessa Carlton
Bones-The Killers
Bonito-Jarabe de Palo
Boys Of Summer-The Ataris (Cover)
Can't Stop-Red Hot Chili Peppers
Crawling Towards The Sun-The Hush Sound
Crazy-Gnarls Barkley
Crooked Teeth-Death Cab For Cutie
Here It Goes Again-OK Go
Hey Mama-Black Eyed Peas
Hey Ya!-Outkast
Island In The Sun-Weezer
Lovestoned/I Think She Knows-Justin Timberlake
More Than Fine-Switchfoot
Nine In the Afternoon-Panic At the Disco
No Sleep Tonight-The Faders
Pas de Cheval-Panic At the Disco
Pump It-Black Eyed Peas
The Remedy (I Won't Worry)-Jason Mraz
Shake It-Metro Station
She's Electric-Oasis
The Sweet Escape-Gwen Stefani
Take On Me-A-Ha
That Green Gentleman (Things Have Changed)-Panic At the Disco
There's A Good Reason These Tables Are Numbered Honey, You Just Haven't Thought Of It Yet-Panic! At the Disco
Viva La Vida-Coldplay
What I Got-Sublime
4 Minutes-Madoona feat. Justin Timberlake & Timbaland
99 Luftbaloons-not sure, but it's the German version (99 Red Balloons, the English version, is fun too)
IN LOVE
Accidentally In Love-Counting Crows
Bleeding Love-Leona Lewis
Brighter Than Sunshine-Aqualung
Bubbly-Colbie Caillat
Change Your Mind-The Killers
Crazy In Love-Beyonce feat. Jay-Z
Everything-Michael Buble
Feeling This-Blink-182
Green Eyes-Coldplay
Hallelujah-Rufus Wainwright (cover)
Here (In Your Arms)-Hellogoodbye
I've Just Seen A Face-The Beatles
I Walk The Line-Johnny Cash
I Want To Hold Your Hand-The Beatles (OR the T.V. Carpio version from "Across The Universe)
Look After You-The Fray
Momentum-The Hush Sound
Northern Downpour-Panic At the Disco
Please Forgive Me-David Gray
Praise You-Fatboy Slim
The Reason-Hoobastank
The Scientist-Coldplay
Sewn-The Feeling
She Is-The Fray
Someone To Die For-Jimmy Gnecco feat. Brian May
Something-The Beatles
Think Of You-A Fine Frenzy
This Year's Love-David Gray
When the Day Met the Night-Panic At the Disco
Wonderwall-Oasis
MELLOW
Across The Universe-The Beatles
Amie-Damien Rice
Behind the Sea (Alternate Version)-Panic At the Disco
Breathe (2 AM)-Anna Nalick
Californication-Red Hot Chili Peppers
City Hall-The Fray
Crash Into Me-Dave Matthews Band
Days Go By-Dirty Vegas
Different Names For The Same Thing-Death Cab For Cutie
Existentialism On Prom Night-Straylight Run
Fall Away-The Fray
Lazy Eye-Silversun Pickups
She's a Handsome Woman-Panic At the Disco
Stable Song-Death Cab For Cutie
MOODY
Bad Day-Daniel Powter
Boston-Augustana
But It's Better If You Do-Panic! At the Disco
Carry Me Home-The Hush Sound
Dear Prudence-Siouxsi & The Banshies (cover)
Do the Panic-Phantom Planet
For Reasons Unknown-The Killers
Helicopter-The Feeling
June Gloom-The Like
Let the Drummer Kick-Citizen Cope
Out Through the Curtain-The Hush Sound
Time Won't Let Me Go-The Bravery
NOSTALGIC
All These Things That I've Done-The Killers
All Over Again (Another Song)-Justin Timberlake
At Seventeen-Janis Ian
Bittersweet Symphony-The Verve
Borrowed Time-A Fine Frenzy
A Dark Congregation-The Hush Sound
Doesn't Remind Me-Audioslave
Drive-Incubus
Good Riddance-Green Day
Here's To The Night-Eve 6
Here In This Diary-The Ataris
An Honest Mistake-The Bravery
No Such Thing-John Mayer
Oceans-The Fray
Smile Like You Mean It-The Killers
So Long Astoria-The Ataris
The Sun-Maroon 5
When You Were Young-The Killers
White Houses-Vanessa Carlton
100 Years-Five For Fighting
OUT OF LOVE
As You Cry-The Hush Sound
Better That We Break-Maroon 5
Call Me When You're Sober-Evanescence
Criminal-Fiona Apple
Dance Floor Anthem-Good Charlotte
Honey-The Hush Sound
Hourglass-The Hush Sound
My Apologies-The Hush Sound
Not Your Concern-The Hush Sound
Nothing Lasts Forever-Maroon 5
Say It Right-Nelly Furtado
She Had the World-Panic At the Disco
Someday You Will Be Loved-Death Cab For Cutie
Summer Skin-Death Cab For Cutie
Water's Edge-1997
When It's Over-Sugar Ray
Where We Went Wrong-The Hush Sound
SAD
Almost Lover-A Fine Frenzy
Apologize-Timbaland feat. OneRepublic
Ashes And Wine-A Fine Frenzy
Brothers On A Hotel Bed-Death Cab For Cutie
Catalyst-Anna Nalick
D'Artagnan's Theme-Citizen Cope
Don't Wake Me Up-The Hush Sound
Grey Room-Damien Rice
Happines Is a Warm Gun-The Beatles
Heaven Forbid-The Fray
Hello-Evanescence
Hundred-The Fray
Iris-Goo Goo Dolls
Look What You've Done-JET
Mad World-(not quite sure of the artist, but it's the version from the "Donnie Darko" soundtrack)
My Immortal-Evanescence
Trouble-Coldplay
Vienna-The Fray
Wake Me Up When September Ends-Green Day
What Sarah Said-Death Cab For Cutie
Wreck Of The Day-Anna Nalick
You Are the Moon-The Hush Sound
That seriously took me like half and hour, haha. Hope you enjoy!!
i'm 15 and me and this guy are boyfriend and girlfriend for a week now. he's truely amazing and i do love him. the problem is that we have never been on a date before. we've seen each other because he goes to my school and we had classes together last year, and i see him when i have sports practice. so its not like we haven't seen each other for a long time. its just that we are both so busy that we can never really hang out just the 2 of us. so i need advice on what to do about this. is he really my boyfriend if we have never been on a date before? even when we see each other, we give each other hugs but thats it. no kiss, no holding hands or anything. and the reason for that is because we are always with other friends and we have never done that together before and it would be really akward. we would do it if we were alone but since we are not its kind of weird. help!!!
If you're both busy then schedule something ahead of time. It's only been a week so I really wouldn't worry. But here's the deal: if you say you're boyfriend and girlfriend, then yes, you are. But if being boyfriend and girlfriend means more than just words to you and you still haven't dated or done anything more (such as kiss, hold hands, etc.) that you feel constitues as being girlfriend and boyfriend in a few weeks, I'd take a step back and look at this--are you guys two friends that have chemistry or two people who want to be something more?
Like I said, schedule a date or a hang out ahead of time. If you want to kiss and hold hands then make sure you're alone. Best of luck!
15.f, nevada
i had the worst day of my life yesterday, i think. yeah. i think that pretty much sums it up. and so i went to bed extremely angry and upset, one of my friends had a party yesterday at her house, and her boyfriend said some things that REALLY hurt my feelings & made me really upset (later that night, i tried getting comfort from two of my other guyfriends, who told me i overreact and i'm overly sensitive so that made me even MORE angry even though i knew it's true. it wasn't the best time for those things to have been said, and i didn't even tell them WHAT HE SAID. he could have called me a big fat ugly cow for all they knew!). last night, i had a dream that my friend (who threw the party) was in my room and i was feeling very, very angry. her legs were extended, so her feet were right in front of me. out of nowhere, i pulled out a knife, and started stabbing the bottom of her right foot. i could see the torn skin and the actual wound in her foot, but there was no blood. but the look on her face was a look that she's never given me. a hurt, EXTREMELY irate look. i then went to dreammoods.com and searched for "knife" and "stab." THE DETAILS WERE INCREDIBLE! and EXTREMELY accurate beyond belief.
so. because of this, i wanted to REALLY find out why i have this one recurring dream.
i have guinea pigs as pets. i always have a dream that there's like 20+ guinea pigs in the location that i'm in! like, my first dream was that i was in my living room and i saw my guinea pigs there, but it seemed as though they had SO MANY kids. all the baby guinea pigs looked like my own, and the living room was full of them! another one i had was in a sort of.. abandoned house. i was in an empty, white room and i saw my own little girl guinea pig. but then i saw a TON more in the room! i really wanted to get to the bottom of this, especially since know i am convinced that dreams are the key to figuring out what your true life problems are.
i tried searching "guinea pig" but the answer was EH. like it made SORTA sense, but i feel as though i wouldn't have those dreams IF i didn't have guinea pigs.
can someone tell me what this recurring dream means? and please do not say "you're scared that they're gonna have babies / you want to start a family of your own" cause like i know those are both true but there's something MORE. i rate based on length & how in-depth (detailed) you are in your answer. if you are good at analyzing dreams, please respond to this :) & thank youu.
One thing you need to know: dream analyzing is a theory. It's completely faulty. Sometimes I definitely think it's true--you were probably angry at your friend if she didn't stand up for you or something when her boyfriend upset you, so you dreamed of stabbing her. It doesn't mean you want to stab her, it means you're mad. Or maybe you're not even mad at her but her boyfriend, but she was the one who represented him in your dream or something...
As for your main question, reoccuring dreams usually happen just because they're memorable. I have similar nightmares all the time--they freak me out, so I remember them and dream about them again. Guinea pigs probably don't have any special dream meaning in your dreams--you have guinea pigs so you're going to dream about them, just like you dream about people you know in real life (like your friend). Though some dreams, like the friend one that you listed, really have to do with your life and repressed feelings, some dreams are just dreams.
In psychology, there are two main theories about why we dream. The first is very Freudian and if you're into dream theory I suggest you look Freud up because he has a lot of theories on that and other personality-related things. His theory was that dreams display our repressed feelings, etc. If you're stabbing your friend, you're mad at her. Though you didn't want this answer, Freud would probably say that you're scared your guinea pigs will have babies, or, more likely, that you want to start a family of your own but aren't ready to yet. Though in some cases I agree with Freud (like the friend dream) in this case I'm going to have to go with the other psychological theory--dreams are just dreams. They're your brain's way of storing everything that's happened to you and passed through your mind throughout the day. And so you're going to have random dreams like that, it's common. I hope that that helps!
Ok i met this guy a month ago and he's really nice and funny, we would talk online EVERYDAY for 3-6 hours and also we would call and text each other a lot we would flirt and sweet to eachother he likes me back too and i used to be so happy and i get the butterflies when i see him and smile a lot and stuff, and i used to be crazy about him (not obssessed) and miss him a lot, but when he started saying "i love you" i dont feel that much anymore when i see him i just smile a little bit and i dont have to butterflies anymore i dont know why but i suddenly and started to lose interest a little bit i dont know why because he's funny, nice and everything am i losing interest or what?
From the way you talk about him, it's obvious that you still like him, so I don't think that you've lost interest. You don't say that you feel weird when he says I love you, so I can't say that you're not ready for that commitment or anything, but that could be the case. If you don't feel like you love him, then that's okay--you can discuss it with him if you feel comfortable doing so (and that's important to any relationship) and enjoy your relationship with him now--maybe you'll fall in love with him one day.
Also, you could be starting to feel more comfortable and relaxed around him. In long-lasting relationships (though this hasn't been that long) people usually experience butterflies for the first few months or years and then just feel comfortable with one another, but still love each other.
Overall, since it's only been a month, I'm going to have to say that he's been too eager with the "I love you." Whatever the case is, if you still like this guy, continue spending time with him and having fun! You never know where it might lead you.
hi. my question is basically wat the subject states: :could i be pregnant. heres the thing i had unprotected sex with my ex. after i asked him if he has cummed. and he told me no. the sex lasted a while...the problem taht i have, or wat im wondering is, isnt there is possiblity that some of his sperm could have leaked...i mean it was unprotected. in regards to symptoms, i have been having really back back aches for hte pass week, eating alot- spicy food, and mood swing. in a nutshell i quess the important part of my question pertains to the sperm and the possiblity of it leaking.
thanks in advance for answering
Whether he came or not you could be pregnant. There is always the possibility of getting pregnant during sex, protected or unprotected, ESPECIALLY unprotected. Even if a guy "holds it in" he can still get a girl pregnant. Having back aches, mood swings, and cravings could be unrelated, especially since it doesn't seem that you're far along (you haven't mentioned missing a period) so you can't be sure yet. Take a pregnancy test or wait and see if you miss your period (though sometimes women don't miss their first period.)