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Did i lose interest or what?
Ok i met this guy a month ago and he's really nice and funny, we would talk online EVERYDAY for 3-6 hours and also we would call and text each other a lot we would flirt and sweet to eachother he likes me back too and i used to be so happy and i get the butterflies when i see him and smile a lot and stuff, and i used to be crazy about him (not obssessed) and miss him a lot, but when he started saying "i love you" i dont feel that much anymore when i see him i just smile a little bit and i dont have to butterflies anymore i dont know why but i suddenly and started to lose interest a little bit i dont know why because he's funny, nice and everything am i losing interest or what?
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I think that you still like him but when he said i love you, you really didn't feel it back. You might like a guy so much but not love him, and that's okay because i know how you feel. Next time he tells you he loves you, just tell him that you like him a whole lot but you don't love him yet. He should understand if he really likes you. If he dosen't say it again, then i think everything will get back to normal. Hope this helps!
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From the way you talk about him, it's obvious that you still like him, so I don't think that you've lost interest. You don't say that you feel weird when he says I love you, so I can't say that you're not ready for that commitment or anything, but that could be the case. If you don't feel like you love him, then that's okay--you can discuss it with him if you feel comfortable doing so (and that's important to any relationship) and enjoy your relationship with him now--maybe you'll fall in love with him one day.
Also, you could be starting to feel more comfortable and relaxed around him. In long-lasting relationships (though this hasn't been that long) people usually experience butterflies for the first few months or years and then just feel comfortable with one another, but still love each other.
Overall, since it's only been a month, I'm going to have to say that he's been too eager with the "I love you." Whatever the case is, if you still like this guy, continue spending time with him and having fun! You never know where it might lead you.
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I think you still like him but you're just not in love with him like he loves you maybe you'll fall in love with him one day but I don't think you're ready for that kind of commitment.
Just tell him how you feel and y'all should be able to get threw it.
Hope this helps!
XOXO-Bre Bre
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