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what to do? okay, my friend, A, was going out with this guy J; it was a long distance relationship and it had ben going on six monthes. but last night he broke up with her because 'he couldn't handle not seeing her all the time. and everytime he did se her he didn't want to say goodbye.' but i think theres another reason he broke up with her, i think he may have cheated on her or something like that. and she's not angry or anything she's just depressed. but should i tell her that i think he cheated or not? and do you have any ideas how to cheer her up? i've done evrything i usually do but none of it's worked. any ideas.
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You probably shouldn't tell her you think he cheated. You don't have any solid evidence and it's just based on speculation. For now, just work hard to cheer her up and be there for her. Have a girls night, be there to talk, watch her favorite movies with her, etc. It's all that you can do. ]
Even if you think he cheated, it really only matters what she thinks or believes. I wouldn't say anything. She may have thought the same thing, but it doesn't matter anymore because they broke up. If you want to cheer her up, just spend time with her hanging out, being a friend, doing girly things hehe. Don't mention him, don't mention guys at all, she will need some time to heal. When she is ready to move on to other guys, she'll say something. ]
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