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I have very sore bones and joints. It just started randomly and it's painful. It's in my neck, back, arms, hands, and fingers. I'm not sure what it's from. I'm 18 and just finished my period. Could this be why? I dealt with Anorexia for the past year but I'm in recovery and am gaining weight. I'm around 120 lbs and I'm 5'7. What else could it be? Thanks! (link)
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You seem to have a mineral deficency take Calcium Magnesim,it can also be the gaining weight thing, or you could be growing all of a sudden, there is also to mush thing's that could be happening to you,keep a close tap on you're self.
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I am still in love with my girl friend we've been together for 4 years on and off... we both know we love each other but we're also long distance part of the four years but we visited often... we had a falling out back in January she did something to hurt me(not cheeting)and so I thought to show her that I was hurt and dissapointed I stopped talking to her for about six months she did try to contact me several times but I ignored her never for a second I stopped to think of her or stopped loving her... I was just really really hurt... I got in touch with her couple of weeks ago she was very nice and responsive to me but tolled me that she is dating someone and has moved on and suggests I do the same... just the thought of that makes me sick... I know 6 months is a long time to ignore a person especially a person you love... I also know I was stupit to ignore her for this long but I did it... I never dated anyone else I was just hoping that she would realize her mistake and apologize and all would be great again... I tolled her how I feel and that I was sorry for all that time out but she tells me she likes this guy and wants to give her all to make it work... oviously I have different plans I want her back she keeps telling me that it is not fair to her new guy for us to talk but she keeps talking to me everytime I call her... we talk for long periods of time and she also calls me back when I leave a massage or a text... I try not to over do it so I do not drive her further away but I stay in her face enough to let her know that I am here... I am approching it like lets be friends and I talk to her about things we use to do together that were fun and great memories and try to make her laugh... I am not sure if she is doing it because she feels pity and sorry for me or because she still loves me but she just does not want to come out and say it especially with someone else in her life her new relationship is only 2 months old we have history how can she do this??? I am a pretty smart guy but I sure can use some good advice here what is the best strategy to get her back in my life??? (link)
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Sorry buddy don't consider you're self a smart guy,you say she tried to contact you several times and you ignored her,then where is the chance you were supposed to give her to appolagise to you for what ever her mistake was when you turn her away, it seems like you might have a chance of gettering her back because she still converse with you, but the bird seem's to be flying away, get my message.
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why do doves or birds fly together
most of the time in a V shape
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Because they consider themselves (VICTORIOUS)
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For my summer reading, our essay question is:
Two of the most important modern influences on our language have been the growth of science and communication technology. Why do you suppose science and communication media have been so influential in causing changes in our language? What do you suppose is the nature of those changes?
I really don't know what to say, except that the Internet is causing slang, but that's not completely the whole language. Any help? Thanks!! (link)
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It's hard to make out what you are really trying to find out, i can immagen the change of the way our schools and colleges are using there teaching technics I can see of how there are changes in our systems in general and let's talk about the computer when i went to school i had a pencil and tablet now i open a computer and can not imegin how this pieceses inthere are put together to give you a picture voice and answer most any question you might have try to get a book named (THE ALHABRA BY WASHINGTON IRVING) it will blow you're mind to find out who this educated people really are.
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i met a guy at a training class and he seemed like he liked me.
the last day of training came and he kept giving me hugs and when i was in the store with him before we were about to leave and both head home he came up behind me and wrapped his arms around me and gave me a big hug and it felt so perfect.
he was really flirty and often asked me when i was gonna come visit him since he lives an hour away. we exchanged numbers and its been 3 weeks since i saw him. we dont talk much but the other day we were textng and i felt like he still liked me cause he was like yea i miss those cute eyes blah blah so the next day i was like... "hey i like you" and he didnt say he liked me back!!! he was like no you dont you dont know me. im soooooo confused i thought he liked me. and now i feel like an idiot and yesterday (following day) he texted me and i was like dang seems like you dont want to talk to me anymore and he was like no. and today he didnt even text me or anything. i feel so confused. was he just a big flirt???? or maybe did i scare him??? please help!
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To early to say if he is really serious about you, it could be he wanted to have a good time and see you later, at the same time like i said it's to early to tell, don't give in to him ??? and you can find out fast if you don't hear from him any more.
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i have akin asthma since 9 years old. my dermatologist said it is lifetime. i know some of you doesn't have enough knowledge regarding my allergy. but if anyone of you who can answer me, please answer my question.
i just want to know if my allergy can be heal.
thanks and godbless (link)
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I had never heard of skin asthma i immegine you lack in someway on you're skin is oxygen there is a treatment that could very well be very good for you and it might even heel you it is called and i hope i spell it right (HYPOBREICK OXYGEN TREATMENTS) the person is put in a tank part made of glass and you're body pours inhale oxygen into you're body which makes you feel very well, you're Dermatologist should give you a prescription being you have that sickness and it's expensive but covered by most insurance when given for sickneses. May Jesus be with you.
If you would like please aske for my E-mail.
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Okay so, Saturday was Old Home Day and at the moment Steven was dating becky a really close friend of mine but she really never liked him. Well they broke up the same day, and Steven ended up saying right infront of me to Abby that if I asked him out seriously he would have a hardtime saying no to me. and I guess all day we were flirting and everything.
I told a lot of people the day and the key points that they lovee to throw in my face cuz I say we werent flirting is
--I played with his feet.
--Wore his sweatshirt.
--Played Mercy and lost miserably.
--Jumped on his back to get back for losing Mercy.
--He baught me french fries and the guy behind the counter was like "You have your boyfriend rapped around finger." and I was like =Ohes not my boyfriend.
--We shared the couch together very nicely lol.
i didnt know i was 'flirting' at the time... and I donno if he thinks I like him but everyones saying that he likes me.. I donno.
I guess flirting is wanting to keep his attention all the time which i guess im good at and he never complained. and he was talking about him and me and group people going over his house to watch a bunch of scary movies and NO. I hate scary movies becuase im the girl in the back screaming her head off and Ill probably grab the first person and cuddle with. Told Becky that and she said that that is probably what he wants.
I donno if I like Steven. I love spending time with him, I hate it when he picks me up, and I scream bloody murder right in his ear to get him to put me down. He's always making me laugh and I dont need to watch what i do with him I ust do it.
I thought thats what friends were... but Im wrong. By A Lot.
What do I do? What relationship do we have Kimberly calls us Flirt Buddies. and, I donno how to act around him now. (link)
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You probably like each other more then what you both think however whats holding you back from having a relationship is guilt and honesty to each other,
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hi,
my best friend dated a guy on and off for about six months. he's going away to college in the fall and he was away the whole summer so he kind of broke it off in june. then they started talking again a couple of weeks ago and decided they were both ready for sex. so they had sex this afternoon, and she came over tonight and was clearly upset that he's leaving.
i don't know what to say to her, because she's emotionally attached to him and he's leaving for college. he says he wants to see her when he's home from college for breaks, but she's been crying over his leaving and i don't know what to do.
any help?
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There ain't much you can do, she gave in at the wrong time, it's going to be hard for her him being away,normally the one you have sex with is the one you are ready to merry,have her bring up the subject.
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Hey i'm 13 years of age and i am a girl. Im a virgine and i have an amazing boyfriend named Braden. And i want him tooo be my first and he know's so, i was hanginf out with him and he tried fingering me, he like barely touched me and it hurt so so much.. is that normal? But tonight we were going too havbe sex... So i need advice FAST!!!!! Thanks in advance. :D (link)
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You're not of legal age to have sex, however nomatter what if you do it , yes it hurts, some girls more then other.
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i meant my best friend in 3 or 4 grade we been to peas in a pod ever sence i move out of town so we lost contact for a while then some stuff happened at her house so she moved with her grandparents and we know were ment to be becuse we keep finding eachother but her g=parents hate me becuse i am "mean" to them witch is not true becuse all i do is try to be nice to them the call me a back staber and two faced when all ive done for my friend is be there for her when she lived with her mom they had no food at all she and her little sis would come to my house and i would give them my food and iwold not eat so they could we are so close that we call each other sisters and to weeks ago she got in truble with them while she was with me so i took the fault becuse they say if she messes up theyll but her in a foster home!! now i cant see she and she i like all i got i love her like family and i have trust proplems shes the only person i trust i trust her more then i trust my own mom!! i fill like dieing i almost killed my slef befor so i know i can!
what should i do?!?!?!
dont tell me that i will find a nother friend cuz i wont shes one of a kind and she is my other half!! (link)
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Keep it low and just try to see her when she goe's to the store or somewhere else with out her grandperants take you're time and don't do something ignorant time will most likely bring you both to a closer relation.
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A really good friend of mine has type one diabetes.
I dont wanna feel rude and keep asking her stuff, can someone explain to me what exactly it is, why it happens, etc? i dont really understand it.
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Diabetes is a sickness of having high or low blood sugar in the blood, it can be caused by several reasons forexample exaccesive candy's, sodas, sweet bread, and most any thing that contains refind sugar,you have to take a blood test to determind what stage of diabetes you have. it is recomended to stay away from sweet's as mush as possable.
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okay so i am very active during the school year, i do a sport a season and i went to camp this summer too. but, im not as active in the summer as i am in the school year so i get im out of shape. but for some reason even when im not doing sports im always having these lower back pains. it just started happening a month or so ago. it hurts to bend down or even cough. its from the middle of my back to my kidneys/tailbone. my parents think im being dramatic because im always complaining about my knee injury (thats another story) but should i see a doctor or will it eventually go away? (link)
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With the symtems you have are sign's of injury to you're spinal, I would definetly take an (MRI) it's not painfull and can tell if you have something wrong.
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Ok so I am 18 and have been having sex with this one guy and everything seems to be fine, but I am a little worried. I have not yet made it to get on birthcontrol, but we also stupidly dont use protection when having sex. Can I get pregnant the day before my period, and how will I know if I did get pregnant? (link)
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Yes you can get pregnant before you're period and to find out if you're pregnant you need to take a pregnancy test.
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i had sex on July 19th and i took a pregnancy test on August 5th it came out negative.. was it to early to take the test?.. should i take another one? (link)
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The test should have shown a resault if it came out negetave it should be considered you're not pregnant however if you feel like taking another test it wouldn't hurt.
When a women get's pregnent it happens right on the time of having sex for example not two hours later.
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I have like two little tiny brown spots on my left cheek bc I picked at the zits I got there a while ago. is avene trixera Creme emolliente good and will it make them fade faster? I hate them so much my skin is so nice and clear except for those little spots! any suggestions on what I can do, or what creams I should use?if i didnt have those stupid spots i wouldnt need coverup! thanks! :) oh I also have a little tiny red vein thing on the same side what cream can I use for that? (link)
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There is a creame called (CONCHA NACAR)It is bleach for skin and made of Oyster Shell Powder it's been around for the longest time and it's very affective the only thing is that when using it it's a slow process,Walgreen sells the cream it's on imported items from mexico, the little red vain it's been told that a Doctor drains it with a needls suppose to be a very minor procidure.
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sometimes i feel like doing my life over again... but if i could i probably wouldn't make the same mistakes.. but allot of people say i would.. is that true??? and if i could do it... would i have met the same people (link)
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Good question, i don't think so.
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ok very complicated! i don't know what sex appeal i've been sending out but its not something old!! three guys in one week have been showing excessive interest... the only reason that i am writing this because they are all eligible but none of them is making a direct move and i don't know which direction to go! today i told one of them that when he is done with his grading (he's a TA but it's ok because i am not taking a course with him and i graduate soon) so its fair ground... i guess i am not really asking anything but sort of need moral support..... my friend says the smile he gave when i said that was from face to face and he is kind of nice.... i am not expecting anything, but how do i know what his real reaction was to the whole situation.... (ps i did not mean it as a flirt or anything but i kind of just blurted it out and it sounded that way! i am usually that nice to everyone) (link)
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Nothing, strange seem's like you're having thre guy's try to make a pass at you about the same time, you're will find out what's in the pot wance you go out the all of them, if that is you're intention, supposedly not all of them have the same thing on mind.
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17/f
so.. my mom and i. not the happy campers. me and her always argue. she has done a tremendous amount of emotional damage to me. my father does nothing due to the fact that he is scared of my mother and would rather agree than pick a fight.. 17 years.. and she has over protected me.. which isnt really a good thing.. she has turned into a control freak who will yell and scream and complain till he has broken an eardrum.. this woman hits.. she says things i dont think children are supposed to hear from their mothers.. you'd think she is a stepmother. basically my home life is not where i want to be. ill be graduating hs june 2009, and i have been planning to move in with my bf after hs. only problem is my mother. i'd probably lose her and my father for the rest of my life.. what do you guys think? become independent although not an easy trip once high school is over? or put up with her and eventually get thrown out , yelled at, and hit because i do not meet her standards? what are my options? what can i do? i know moving in with him isnt the best idea. but it seems the best so far. someone give me a little guidance?
thanks =/
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Do you have a relative you could move in with and probably things between both of you might get better, if not it seem's like if those are the way's of you're mother and it don't get better, there it seem's like there is no other alternative but to move in with you're boyfriend, most of the times in a thing like this you're mom might might snap and realise she has been to harch on you, maybe she might get worse against you, it's a chance you have to take, instead of living in a bad envirment like you do, you're problem don't have to many way's out, it seem's like youhave a sick mother who need's counseling.
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i had a question about someone i loved and i got answered. but now i realize she doesn't love me.. but i still love her. and i feel this strange inside. all i want to do is listen so sad music, think about her, and write her poems (i made 5 in 5 minutes wtf) but i just don't know what i should do.. i don't want to move on yet I'm not ready to give up... i don't know what i should do... (link)
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There is nothing wrong on keep trying to get a relationship with someone whom already told you she don't love you, you seem to be very in love with her, the only thing is if you keep trying to get her to be you're girlfriend after she told you she don't love you, then you will onle be hurting you're self more, it is recomanded to stop seeing her and find another girl, the sooner the better for you, sorry there is nothing else i could tell you to do that would change her mind. don't make things harder for you're self and go another way.
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I got a hostess job at Texas Roadhouse and I start training Monday, August 11(tommorrow). I was given a layout of the restaurant(with numbers and stuff on the seating areas) and a FULL MENU. Being a Hostess, I find it weird I have to remember the whole menu. I understand that I have to know the layout and the "numbers" for all of the tables/booths/bar, etc.
Anyways..I have absolutely no idea what to expect. I haven't ever taken a menu test, I haven't even had a job before. This is my first job and I really want it and wouldn't want to blow it!
Any advice on what to expect and how to remember this WHOLE ENTIRE MENU. Ahh! (link)
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There is alway's problem's rembering the whole manu, however this is new to me, try you're best you will find out it's not as bad as it sound's.GOOD LUCK.
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