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weird feeling inside
i had a question about someone i loved and i got answered. but now i realize she doesn't love me.. but i still love her. and i feel this strange inside. all i want to do is listen so sad music, think about her, and write her poems (i made 5 in 5 minutes wtf) but i just don't know what i should do.. i don't want to move on yet I'm not ready to give up... i don't know what i should do...
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Write poems and listen to sad music. If it's helping you heal, then keep doing it. It'll get better with time.
Just don't let it take over your life. Do other things, too. Go to the mall, go see a movie, go for a walk, paint a picture, something.
-Laura (16-f)
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I'm in the same boat as you only with me it's my ex gf - difference is she does love me just we can't be together because in her own words 'love isn't enough'. Yet she still wants to be friends and somehow expects me to just ignore how I feel.
You can't force yourself to stop loving someone but in that same way you can't force someone to love you back. All you can do is give yourself time and rest assured in time you will move on and find someone else to love no matter how hard you feel it is right now to do that. Just give yourself time to get over this. I don't want to give up either but the more I tell myself I can't give up the more I realise she's already given up and there's nothing I can say or do to change that.
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There is nothing wrong on keep trying to get a relationship with someone whom already told you she don't love you, you seem to be very in love with her, the only thing is if you keep trying to get her to be you're girlfriend after she told you she don't love you, then you will onle be hurting you're self more, it is recomanded to stop seeing her and find another girl, the sooner the better for you, sorry there is nothing else i could tell you to do that would change her mind. don't make things harder for you're self and go another way.
HEALER
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