Question Posted Wednesday August 13 2008, 12:02 am
sometimes i feel like doing my life over again... but if i could i probably wouldn't make the same mistakes.. but allot of people say i would.. is that true??? and if i could do it... would i have met the same people
You Cant Go Through Life And Not Make Any Mistakes. Because If That Was The Case There Would Be Nothing To For Us To Learn From.
I Believe That Your Life Has A Path. If You Do Your Life Again You May Take A Different Path. This May Lead You To Meet Different People That You Didnt Meet In Your Past Life.
You Dont Need To Do Your Life Over Again. If You Have Made Mistakes Then The Most Important Question To Ask Yourelf Is Not "Can I Do My Life Over". It Is "Have I Learnt From My Mistakes". If The Answer Is "Yes" Then You Dont Need To Ask This Question.
ellegirl606 answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 3:27 am: Will you make the same mistakes? No. Will you make mistakes? Yes. You know what to avoid, but mistakes are inevitable and a part of life. They should teach you what to do the next time you are caught in that situation. Hopefully, you learned from them and changed. However, not everyone learns from their mistakes because they are too stubborn or to ignorant to even accept that they were wrong.
Chances are you would not have met the same people. You'd meet other people, which could be good and bad.
Anyways, you shouldn't regret the past. You should take what you learned and move on. Personally, I'm glad for some of the bad things that happened in my life because they made me who I am today. I've made some really bad mistakes, but I also changed drastically from them, and I'm really happy with who I am today, regardless of the past. The past is in the past, so leave it there. [ ellegirl606's advice column | Ask ellegirl606 A Question ]
HEALER answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 3:15 am: Good question, i don't think so.
abstract_profanity answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 12:56 am: Here's a thought: If you hadn't made any mistakes in your life what would you learn? Honestly, I believe that the mistakes we make morph us into the person we want to become. Mistakes are made so that we realize there's a consequence for certain actions. We learn that there is some bad parts of life. If we didn't already experience this we wouldn't know how to handle obstacles that come our way.
The people that you met have affected you in some way whether it be good or bad. In a way you should be grateful for that. The people who weren't the best in your life have made you realize some problem and in some way you dealt with it. Use this and think what you can do next time you meet someone like that again. The people who are good in your life you need to keep and use them for inspiration of the person you want to become.
Try not to think about doing your life over. Learn from the past and build for the future. You can change the way you think and avoid similar problems you had in the past to make your life more simple. Start your life over by remembering experiences and grow on that. :) [ abstract_profanity's advice column | Ask abstract_profanity A Question ]
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