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hurting ?


Question Posted Saturday July 8 2006, 11:53 am

When you have sex for the first time on a scale of 1-10 how much did it hurt for you and was it really that pain ful ?

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yellow_polka_dot_bikini answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 1:43 pm:
well my first time didn't hurt at all it really depends if your hymen (i think its called) is broken i broke mine when i was younger by accident at gymnastics and you can brake it by just falling off a bike etc but also it helps if you've been fingered before because thats sort of prepared down below hope i helped :) xxxxxxxx

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Speer82 answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 2:20 am:
uhmm..for me it was not painful like i couldnt take the pain but probably about a 7 on a scale 1-10 the 2nd and 3rd time shouldnt hurt though..so ive heard i just lost my virginity recently a couple weeks ago so i hope i helped..=]

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xthis1sakilluhx3 answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 9:42 am:
the first time i had sex it didn`t hurt at all because he didnt pop my cherry .i had broken it by putting a tampon in wrong when i was younger. I think that may have something to do with it because i was confused about why everyone was always saying how much sex hurt and i didn`t feel a thing. I think it`s different for everyone. and based on the pain i experienced when i broke my hymen im guessing it would be around a 6 or a 7. MAYBE a 7.5

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XSam513X answered Monday July 10 2006, 12:43 am:
It does hurt kind of a lot.
If you dont want it to hurt tooo much.. have him finger you right before.. but either way its gonna hurt.. my advice is to trust the person you do it with and have them be on top going slow the first time. FOr me, I would give it a 8 for hurting (he didnt finger me first or anything though and i tried to be on top)
Hope i helped!

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im_falling_4_u answered Sunday July 9 2006, 9:39 pm:
For me it was about a 5-6 just because I really trusted my partner and he went slow and didn't rush into it. But fingering for me the first time was about 8-9 just because I wasn't like wet.

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Roxy07 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 5:15 am:
For me it was about 9/10 but only because my partner and I rushed straight into it.

I wasn't really that aroused before we started and I was really tensed up. I wasn't relaxed enough.

But that of course doesn't mean that it will be like that for you... it might only hurt a tiny bit if you take your time, make sure you are relaxed and you are definitely not pressured into it and your are totally aroused before he enters.

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Jitter answered Sunday July 9 2006, 12:20 am:
wow my first time I would say a 10 but like the thing is you have to do it with someone that understand that its your sirts time like if you say it hurts he should be like ok ill go slower you get me someone that is nice and gentle but girl just enjoy don't let it get to you like because since I'm sayin it really did don't think about it when he's going to be relaxed and just feel good that your doin it with someone you love well hope I helped =)

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Exquisitechick answered Saturday July 8 2006, 6:40 pm:
haha, for me was about a 9.8/10.

But, some people it doesnt even hurt. It just depends on there person, really. But i made the one mistake...I didnt relax, at all. I kept tensing up so much. So, my advice to you...DO NOT TENSE UP! RELAX! :)

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Vikki27 answered Saturday July 8 2006, 5:53 pm:
For me, I would say it was about 6 or 7. However, it varies from person to person and a lot of the pain depends on whether or not your hymen has already been broken.

It was more painful than I actually imagined it would be but that is one reason I am such a believer in never having sex until you are in a stable relationship. However great they make sex look on TV, the first time is normally quite awkward and painful and you need to be with someone who will be gentle and understanding so that if you can't do it the first time round, there won't be any bad feelings about it.

Unfortunately, there really isn't anything that you can do (as far as I am aware) to prevent it from hurting. However, the good news is that after the first time it should start getting less painful and more enjoyable the more you do it.

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