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Member Since: May 29, 2006
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Last Update: September 27, 2006
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I have a question. i normally dont ask for advice. but i want to know someones oppinion. are you a slut if you had sex with 2 boys in the same night? (link)
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hahaha you dirty tramp.
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My sexually abusive boyfriend ripped me while trying to fist me. I told him it wouldn't fit, he doesn't listen to me protest. He did say he was sorry and that he didn't intentionally mean to hurt me. It ripped a good 2 inches long, between my labia and my clitoris. It was bleeding like crazy last night, and this morning when I went to the bathroom it is still bleeding. Should I seek medical attention? how will I explain something like this without telling them my boyfriend is sexually abusive?
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thats discusting.. yes you need to go to the doctor.. your losing blood, and it might be serious. also, if your boyfriend is abusive, why don't you be smart and break up with him. then this sort of thing wouldn't have happened.
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okay this is how it goes....
a friend of mine recently quit the smoking habit although he still is a heavy drinker,and the wierd part is that his girl left him because of he quit the smoking habit.So my question is,do girls get turned on by smokers or off?and do girls mind if their guys are drinkers? and finally,what should I say to my friend's girl?cause we all are pretty good friends and I wish I could help mend their relationship.thanks (link)
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well, first of all i think you should stay out of their relationship.. i know you want to make things better but they need to handle things on their own. every girl has different views on smoking.. personally i find it a major turn off and would never date a guy who does smoke. i don't mind if guys drink.. but if they drink all the time.. and rely on drinking to have a good time at parties, then i won't date a guy like that.
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15 year old female.
I`m sure you all get alot of questions like this and I`m sorry but I need help =)
This is going to be my first year of highschool, freshmen. I`m scared out of my mind. One of my best friends whom I`v gone to school with for 9 years is going to a different school. Will I lose her friendship ? My sister just graduated from taht school and she was known as a slut, and to cheat on her boyfriends.. am I going to have that same stuff said about me because I`m her sister ? I`m so scared I`m going to get lost, 3 floors and I can`t make it to the school tour (I`ll be in New York City on vacation). How easy is it to get lost ? I`m in a super high science class, and I`m not worried about doing bad in the class, I`m worried about how there will be alot of higher classmen in the class. Should I be worried about higher classmates ?Basicly, anything you can tell me about highschool will help me,.. postive and negative information would help me.
♥ the scared freshmen. (link)
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to answer your first question;;if your truly great friends you wont lose her friendship.. me and my three best friends all went to middle school together.. and two of them went to private schools.. we stayed together and we're still all best friends, regardless of what school we go to.
i doubt that people will judge you according to your sisters reputation. it may have been different if she went to the same school as you.. because people would probably compare you to her.. but since she's graduated you probably won't hear anything about her. & if you do.. prove everyone wrong.
my school is only 2 floors and i still don't know my way around.. maybe thats because i'm a complete ditz.. but still.. three floors may take some time to get used to.
that was just to answer your questions.. and i wanna add a few things about highschool. its a major change.. im sure you already know that but seriously.. you are going to change and witness people around you change.. drastically.. some for the better.. and unfortunatly.. others for the worst. relationships get more serious. don't mingle with upper classmen boys.. they just wanna screw as many freshman girls as they can because... their considered easy. thats really all i can think of.
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I had a dream i made out with my best friends boyfriend. I feel so bad that i would have a dream like that. I dont even have feelings for him!! Now i feel like i have betrayed my best friend what should i do to make me feel better? (link)
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aw. don`t feel bad about it. it's only a dream. we dont control our dreams, our brain does.
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ima 14yr old female and i just broke up wit my bf, and that same day my friend asked him out. I kno im the one who dumped him, but i still like him a little, and it sorta bothers me that their goin out. and she is 2 yrs younger than him, so it seems weird to me. (link)
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ok well first of all if she truly was your friend she wouldn`t do that to you. It doesn`t matter who dumped who. you just don`t date your friends ex. its not right. it should bother you that their going out. thats so shady.
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ok is it ok to have sex when your on your period? (link)
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theres nothing physically wrong with it. but most guys won`t do it.
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When you have sex for the first time on a scale of 1-10 how much did it hurt for you and was it really that pain ful ? (link)
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the first time i had sex it didn`t hurt at all because he didnt pop my cherry .i had broken it by putting a tampon in wrong when i was younger. I think that may have something to do with it because i was confused about why everyone was always saying how much sex hurt and i didn`t feel a thing. I think it`s different for everyone. and based on the pain i experienced when i broke my hymen im guessing it would be around a 6 or a 7. MAYBE a 7.5
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i'm thinkin aboout being a foreign exchange student but i don't know anything about it! i need all of anything you know about it! please help i'm desperate. i also was wondering if you knew if the programs you go through will check out the family you are going to see and see if they are ok if you know wat i mean? (link)
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im honestly the wrong person to ask =[ sorry. try looking it up online and see what comes up.
sorry i couldn`t help
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Alright, before I ask my question I want you guys to know that even though it's kind of funny, I'm being completely 100% serious.
Last night I was over at a friends house and we found his step mom's...dildo. Well someone thought it'd be funny if we put Icy Hot on it so that whenever she uses it...well you know. I thought it'd be funny as well so I went with it. When I got home I realized that it was a pretty immature thing to do and I was questioning whether or not I should call her and tell her about it or to tell my friend to wash it off or something before she gets to it. What do y'all think I should do? Or should I just not say anything? (link)
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ok.. honestly that was pretty immature. thats her personal belonging and you basically vandalized it. im sure you already realize what you did was wrong.. because you feel sorry for what you did and i can tell its really bugging you [the guilt]..telling her wouldnt be such a good idea. because you dont really know how she would take it. She might be appreciative that you told her.. and think your a good person for being honest. or she may get angry and embarrassed and act differently around you. the best thing to do would be to call your friend and tell him/her to wash it off.
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i know a lot bout sex but what actually is dry sex? (link)
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masturbation sex where one or both of the partners are still clothed between the belly & the crotch, dry humping takes place, and one or both have an orgasm but there is no exchange of body fluids because of the layer of clothing. Called "dry" because there is no natural lubrication.
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Okay like 2 days ago i shaved down there for the 1st time.. but like now i havve these little red bumps all down there and they hurt a little bit but there better than what they were yesterday there like getting less hurtful but what are they!!?!?! and like will this happen every time a shave... and can i have some tips on how to shve without getting this?!?! (link)
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Thats called razor burn. its caused by hair that is pushed back into the folicle. (everyone who shaves "down there" gets it so don`t feel like its just you. it happens to all of us, unfortunatly)so heres how to avoid it.
scrub it : before you shave scrub your bikini line area with an anti bacterial soap. this will reduce the amount of bacteria on your skin.
scrub again: once you've finished shaving, rinse off the shaving foam or gel, scrub again with anti bacterial soap. This will remove any more bacteria left after you shave. pat yourself dry with a towel.
IF YOU STILL DEVELOP A RASH TRY THIS.
If, despite using the correct technique, you develop a bumpy rash, use the antibacterial soap to thoroughly wash the area twice a day.
After you wash, dab an over-the-counter astringent such as Phisoderm.
Pick up an over-the-counter hydrocortisone preparation such as Cortaid and smooth it over the affected area according to package directions (this soothes the irritation and helps it heal)
hope i helped (:
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What exactly does booty call mean? (link)
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hahaha...
if there was a definition for booty call in the dictionary this is how it would read;
A phonecall page or convorsation aimed at getting in your pants. not an invite to a movie or dinner , not a casual get together.. just a plain old-fashioned "lets fuck"
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My sister just had a baby and he husband's last name is Wood. Well, my sister has always wanted to name her daughter "Holly". So we just need a few HONEST opinions here.
Do you find it tacky to have a girl named "Holly Wood?" (link)
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no thats adorable =D
in my oppinion..
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Well, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a long time. Some people think its too long. but anyway we get along great, but whne hes with other girls, he like flirts with them. then when i talk to him about it he plays dumb. so what i do is i do the same thing when we hang out with a bunch of people. so idk what to you. can you help please. (link)
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Well maybe hes not playing dumb. Maybe you just get jealous when you see him talking to other girls and you right away consider it as flirting without first thinking about the situation. I mean he probably thinks you flirt with guys too. You just need to tell him to pay more attention to you, and not other girls. sometimes boys flirt with other girls on purpose so they can see your reaction. They like to know you care about them believe it or not.
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In the movies do you talk fake a yawn and put your hand over the girl's shoulder hold her hand? Kiss her? i dont no what to do or when to do it.. (link)
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oh my goodness! do nott do the yawn-hand over sholder- thing. its so cheesy. ive never had a guy try that with me.. but trust me girls consider it cheesy.. so just please dont try it.. it makes us think your too insecure to just go ahead and put your arm around us. about the talking thing.. you can lean over and talk a little..but dont be too much of a chatterbox. she DOES want to watch the movie. if you do want to kiss her make eye contact first. thats the only way to let her know your considering it. because when a boy makes eye contact with us for more than 6 seconds we can only assume hes going to kiss us.. so thats when the time will be right. you might wanna consider asking her what she would be ok with before you go to the movies so you dont do something she doesnt want to do.
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This guy has been calling me a lot, and I barely know him. We've hung out a few times (with other friends with us), and only once has he mentioned wanting to see me in a different way if you know what I mean. But he calls me and we talk about random stuff. The thing is, he's not the boyfriend type and usually has a bunch of girls, never a girlfriend (or so I've HEARD). My question is.. IF I wanted to have something with this guy, how can I make him "settle down" and be in a real exclusive relationship? Any tips, tricks, advice? thanks! (link)
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advice? dont even bother with him. you cant change a person. he is most likely a player.. he always will be a player. And if you did get him to settle down with you.. just knowing about his past would have you worried about what hes doing 24/7. If hes already talking about doing things with you and you barely know him.. you should be able to understand what he wants. ive been there done that. i did get the "bad boy" to settle down.. and it just wasn't right.
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I was with my boyfriend for a few months and every day I found myself more and more in love with him.
Well, out of the blue, the other day he dumps me. He tells me that his feelings have changed. He tells me he has been feeling this way for a while. And yet I just don't understand why he's doing this. He goes on about how I'm an amazing girlfriend and an amazing person and that "It's not you it's me". He always said that he wanted a nice girl, one that would be there for him and care about him. Well, here I am right infront of him and he lets me go.
I gave him the world on a silver platter.. and this is what I get in return.
I need to know, from a guys point of view why he's doing this. Hell, girls you can answer it too.
Also, what can I do to make myself happier? I haven't been happy in a long long time... =/ (link)
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Its great that you can admit that your an amazing person and an amazing girlfriend. you've got self-esteem. guys dont understand how good they have it half the time. they want something.. and once they get it they dont even thing to cherish it or enjoy it.. they just let it go. dont let this bring you down.. he obviously isnt worth it if he would just let you go like that.. without even having a reason.
boys suck hunnie
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OK let me just say I am the type of person who can settle arguements easily and I can cooperate and really liten to my partner so dont think I am selfish. But lately we have been fighting about everything. And he likes to just ignore it and talk lets say the next morning or w/e. The problem is that I cannot sleep until I fix the problem. Today he said something that really hurt my feelings and i am sick of solving problems and him not giving a shyt. I love him to death but think i should dump him. (link)
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Guys do tend to ignore problems.. and they dont realize how much worse it makes things.. I have the same problem as you though, if me and my boyfriend would fight i would cry myself to sleep if we didnt make up that night. If you think you should dump him, then by all means dump him. Do what you want to do.
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Ok, so I've liked this girl for a long time, and during the beggining of the school year she also liked me (I didn't know it back then). Now, she's going out with one of my friends, but we still talk a lot. She also keeps on asking me who I like (A lot!) Every time she says that though, I just ward it off by saying something else. So my question is...should I tell her that I like her, or keep that secret safe with me? (link)
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You should tell her how you feel. cus you'll regret not telling her in the future.. but if she does like you back she'll end up leaving your friend for you and that might not be too good.. its your choice.
i say go for it (:
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