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He's the player type
This guy has been calling me a lot, and I barely know him. We've hung out a few times (with other friends with us), and only once has he mentioned wanting to see me in a different way if you know what I mean. But he calls me and we talk about random stuff. The thing is, he's not the boyfriend type and usually has a bunch of girls, never a girlfriend (or so I've HEARD). My question is.. IF I wanted to have something with this guy, how can I make him "settle down" and be in a real exclusive relationship? Any tips, tricks, advice? thanks!
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Take things slow. if you try and rush into relationships they always turn out bad. Take the time to get to really know him and talk to him about what he wants in life like relationships and future and what not. If he doesnt want the same things as you, its not worth it. good luck
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advice? dont even bother with him. you cant change a person. he is most likely a player.. he always will be a player. And if you did get him to settle down with you.. just knowing about his past would have you worried about what hes doing 24/7. If hes already talking about doing things with you and you barely know him.. you should be able to understand what he wants. ive been there done that. i did get the "bad boy" to settle down.. and it just wasn't right.
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ah forget about him
i think he just wants to get in your pants
lol sry ok bye
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Tell him that you don't want to have a relationship with him if he has realtions with a lot of other girls, just mmake sure he knows your intetions in the relationship and make sure he knows what you want his to be. Hope it all works out ok!
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If he is a player you can`t change that no matter how hard you try you just can't..but you can tell him you have heard and see if its true because not everything you hear is true.Just hang out alot and see how he is when it`s you & other girls..maybe he isn`t a player after all.♥
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I recommend staying away from him. You'll save yourself a broken heart and a hard relationship.
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Well my only tip to you would be to not try to change him he will change on his own let him know what you want and if he likes you enough he will change for you. But if you try to change him all hell may break loose. If you think it is the right thing to do then go ahead. Let me put it this way if you were in a relationship or were going to be wouldn't you feel bad if someone tryed to change you I know he will eventually turn around when he is ready though don't try to do it for him let him make that decision on his own don't make it for him.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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