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My husband died about a 2 years ago in a tragic car accident. I still can't seem to move on. I know people grieve at different paces and in different ways, but I'm afraid I'll always compare men to my old husband and I'll be alone for the remainder of my life. (I'm only 29!) Right now everything seems bleak an hopeless. Will I ever be able to love another man? So far I haven't been activly dating, but there's a few gentlemen I've almost had relationships. Nobody seems to compare! (link)
First of all I am so sorry about your husband, and secondly give it some more time and don't think you have to be with someone, take it at your own pace, on your own time, and the right person may come around.
Hope I helped,
Raidergrl1024


tell me about tylenol pm how good does it work and everything! (link)
Its great espesially if you're stressed with a headache and can't sleep! Its really really hard to get addicted too but it still makes you groggy and if you just lay down you'll fall asleep!
Hope I helped!
Raidergrl1024


i kinda want sex now but i want to wait till marige. and i want to not be a freakin virgin
should i have sex or wait till marrage? (link)
Wow..haha.. i think you should take into account what you want and shut out what everyone else says. If you do decide you don't want to wait until marriage just remember let it happen on its own..don't rush it.
Hope I helped,
Raidergrl1024


well I do know the whole "always use a condom" thing, but every now and then its just not there right? SO I was wondering if you keep up with your birth control taking it the right time every day and you dont use a condom what are the chances of gettin pregnant? (link)
With just condom use you have a 3% chance of getting pregnant, with a pill alone you have a .001% chance of getting pregnant. Once in a while is ok but just becausae there is a really small chance that you will get pregnant doesn't mean it can't happen to you. I hope i helped.


Ok well there is this guy I like.Im pretty sure I love him. Were pretty close I think. He is perfect. Well we have gotten alot closer then were supposed to he actually was the person I lost my virginity to.Since then we have done it 9 times but nothing has changed he is still my friend and stepbrother.My question is,is it insest for us to have a sexual relationship? (link)
Ok its so not incest! I am doin the same thing except its with an in-law. Rent the movie clueless...its your story excatly! Don't worry about it...I hope i helped! And i'm glad i'm not the only one out there doin this!


can you be in love with someone you're not even going out with? this may sound retarted and corny, but you know that song have you ever by brandy?
the part when it goes"have you ever loved somebody so much it makes you cry. have you ever needed someone so bad you can't sleep at night. have you ever tried to find the words but they dont come out right.have you everr" lol because theres this guy i really reallyyy really like( and its not like we've barely talked before. we were really friendly this year and i think he might like me too) and when i thought about those lyrics i realized all that was true about him to me. am i being stupid or could it possibly be "love-ish"?
and dont give some smart ass advice. im serious.
thanks (link)
Ok you don't have to rate me or anything but i am going through the same thing and when i asked my question people gave me advice but stuff that i would never do! lol i think u might be in love cause thats how i feel too.


Ok I can answer almost anything and know I am stuck on a single family problume! Ahh but thanks for your help ahead of time!!! Ok my parents are always fighting I mean always! They fight over my dad always yelling at me cussing me out and stuff like that! Then this past school some girl who I had never talked to only maybe once or twice. Told the office that I was being abussed because i had bruises on me. Yeah my da had hit me and so on and so on, but they didn't even let me talk very much or anything to say my side or anything. They called childrens services and they came to my house. My dad lied to them in front of every onen else in my family and he said that it was just from be that I was falling of my horse running barrels and he grabed me because he didn't want me to hurt my self! He yells at me all the time and he is hardly ever home but when he is I am always in the worst mood because I don't want to be around him! He once told me to get the hell out of his life! I tryed to run away this was about a year ago! And i have also tryed to run away in the past as well! But I don't do that any more because my mom swares that if she lost me she would get killed! But know onto my brother... he is just like my dad except the beating of him is worse! I will do one thing wrong like leave up the foot rest on our couch and he will sit there and screem at the top of his lugs at me for it. I cant look people in the eyes I never have it makes me feel weired but then he punches me and kicks me and things like that! he does it all the time! he has cut me with knifes and spoons and thrown me down stairs! Too What i am saying is also he is getting married and she wants kids! I have tryed to tell her but she is too in love with my brother to understand me! I am worrried for my brothers fiancee(sp?) and his future kids and also what can I do about my parents and my brother? I am so stressed out I don't know how to handle it!!! Please Help I need it bad! Also Sorry this is soo long!!! (link)
Ok, my dad has never abused me like your dad but he yells at me and i got him the hell out of my life. Talk to your mom, maternal insticnts are really really strong. Tell her you two need to get out of there. And seriously call the cops! But if you don't call the cops you still need to get out of there. To tell you the truth before i got on this site i thought what my dad did to me is bad but what your dad does to you can hurt your relationships in the long run. Also, you should talk to a couselor at your cmmunity center if they have them. Tell them its completely confidential and ask them to tell you your options. They'll help you through it, believe me! If you ever need to talk you can ask me anytime! I really hope everything works out!


Is there any sims 2 cheats that are cool? I just got Sims 2 Nightlife and I want to have more fun than I am already having. Thanks!! (link)
I LOVE THE SIMS 2! lol go to gamewinners.com and go under s. A cool one i would try would be boolprop testingcheatsenabled true but be careful cause if you mess around with it too much it can mess up your sim family! Another one is kaching (1000 simoleans) or motherlode (50000)simoleans). um.... let me think.... well its always fun trying it without cheats! lol. o and if you register your game at thesims2.com you can ask other sims fans about this kinda stuff! i hope i helped!


I want to make jello filled balloons like in the movie Now and Then.

I've googled this and only get things that say "fill the balloon with jello and such and such" but nothing specifically telling me how to go about this..

so if anybody knows how to do this or knows a website please help!

thanks much!! :) (link)
Well you would want to freeze the balloon, then make the jello cool it just a tiny bit so that its not hot anymore, then pour it in the baloon stick it in the fridge for 4 hours and there you go! Hope i helped!


18/f
About 2 weeks ago I had unprotected sex, that was my first time having sex in a year. I have lost my appetite a few days ago, I have been vomiting, I'm a smoker and now cigarrettes taste completely different to me and almost make me gag. A couple days ago I spotted. Does this sound like preg. symptoms? (link)
yea those are all pregancy symtoms but that spotting could be a risk for your baby if your pregnant so don't wait anymore go to the doctor right away! hope i helped and i hope everything goes ok. if you ever need to talk you can email me at mdcr27@comcast.net.


used cars sites
know any?
I NEED ALOT OF SITES PLEASE
I need a car... lol (link)
keepitlocal.com
carsoup.com


Alright, I'm in a sticky situation because my BEST FRIEND likes me. (guy) and I really like him...but he was my friend first and I'm thinking that if I date him then it'll ruin our friendship. I've talked to him about it and he says that it won't (which on one hand I do believe him bc he's not one of those guys that tells you what you want to hear unless it's true) I love spending time with him, in fact I've been over at his house more this summer than my own i think lol. I also like the fact that he has seen ALL of my quirkey moments and still likes me for them. Like I said, I just don't want to lose my best friend. That would devastate me. What do you think that I should do??

love
mo
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I have the same probelm but i was the one who like buy best guy friend... it was really hard for me to tell him that i liked him but i'm still with him after a really long time and its the best relationship i've ever had. I would suggest you talk to him before hand just be like "i don't want this to affect our friendship if it doesn't work out." I hope i helped!


My family is all going to go to Wisconsin next Thursday-Sunday. I do not want to go and neither does my mom. We would both go if my dad let us stay in a hotel, but he said that it is too much money. My grandfather (My grandfather is who we are going there to see.) keep his house at 95 degrees and I'm not joking. There aren't even enough beds in his house! He can't hear a word that I say and I'm have strep right now so, I'm not going to talk any louder than I normally do. I really do not want to go up to Wisconsin (Mom said that she's staying here) so, how do I convince my dad to not make me go?

I rate 5's for anyone who tries (link)
lol u could come to my house in minnesota! jk! Ok my advice would be try and talk your dad into looking on a hotel search enine that gives lower rates like hotels.com expidia.com or another one that i can't think of. most importantly tell your dad how much you want to see your grandpa and how you wan to enjoy it as much as possible. and if that doesn't work tell your dad (and i'm not joking about this) older people can't tell if its hot as much as younger peopel and haveing his house that hot is extreamly dangerous! ask your dad to turn on the a/c! hope i helped


Ok, here's the dealio...woah, this is really weird but I have a boyfriend and his best friend is going out with my best friend. So once I wasn't in my right mind and made out with his best friend. He found out. He got mad inside but didnt tell me how mad he was until today. Then he and my best friend made out kinda like to get back at me. This is a long distance relationship by the way, but only by like 40 minutes. We all sat down and talked and know how truely sorry everyone is. My best friend and her boyfriend and I are all being very forgiving because we believe that everyone deserves a second chance. My boyfriend, however, is not being so forgiving. He wants to "take a break" and "see how things go". I really want to tell him I'm sorry, which I've already done, but I want to make something special. We have always been suckers for love songs so is there a song that pretty much says I'm sorry and I want you back? (link)
whats left of me by nick lachey go to mtv.com click on overdrive, click search music videos, and type nick lachey it will play it for free if you don't own the song! hope i helped!


I have to go on a cruise with my family and I get sea sick really easily. Is there anything to stop me from getting sick like that? (link)
been on 4 cruises and i love them but i have tha same problem...take a medicne called dramimine everyday...they offer it on the ship but its really spendy so get it at a drug store before you leave! have so much fun...and by the way i'm really jelous of you! lol hope i helped!


Say you're working. Some guy walks in, and he's a nice, respectable young man who, after moderate conversation, turns out to be kind of interesting.

Okay, I'll just cut to the chase. I'm basically asking how you would respond to a guy asking for your number while you were at work (one who doesn't work with you). What 'parameters' would lead to a positive outcome, if any?

-I overthink things consistently. (link)
I had the same problem! I did take the chance once in a while but not all the time i always find out if they would be any fun first. so i would suggest that you always make deep conversation to see if you could be compatible. hope i helped!


Hey! I'm about to go to sleepaway camp, and it's going to be one of my best friend's birthdays while we're there. (I'm a 14-year-old girl, he's turning 15.) What can I do to make it special? I can't get any food in, but I really want to do something cool for him. Thanks so much! (link)
bring some decorating stuff and decorate his bunk or his cabin! And if you like him maybe a birthday kiss?!?! lol i hope all goes well!


So the whole day today, I kept getting bit by mosquitoes!!..they itch like CRAZY. But the crazy thing is...each bump is like QUARTER SIZE. I'm not even kidding/exagerrating. It's SO big..I have like a total of maybe 6 all over my upper body. Is this normal?! ..I've never had bites this big ever!..Please help. :) (link)
yea no worries! i live in minnesota and i get mosquitoes all the time! LAnd of ten thousand lakes and mosquitos breed on lakes! lol i get ones that big a lot but you can get this anti itch stuff at any drug store or even at like target! hope i helped! and i really hope you feel better!


I keep losing my appetite :( I think it's because of stress but half of the time I can't eat my mothers dinner. I just dont like the food.. steaks and chicken, etc.. Is it just my taste in food or is there something wrong with me? Every time I try to eat, i get nauseous.. (link)
It happens to me every few months too, i actually have it right now. If it lasts for more that a week there might be something wrong. but i don't think theres much to worry about


Im 14, 5foot 7inces and I weigh 130pounds. I have alot of belly fat. I keep lossing weight but not the belly fat. So what should I do to loss the belly fat and some pounds. Thanks. I rate 5s for good advice.

--->Mandy (link)
Well, your weight right now is 5 punds less that the healthy weight for you so i would suggest not loosing anymore weight, but girls whi have gotten their period always have little belly fat. look at the skinniest girls in hollywood in a bikini and you can see the little belly fat that they have. we can't help it! lol hope i helped!




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