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can you be in love with someone you're not even going out with? this may sound retarted and corny, but you know that song have you ever by brandy?
the part when it goes"have you ever loved somebody so much it makes you cry. have you ever needed someone so bad you can't sleep at night. have you ever tried to find the words but they dont come out right.have you everr" lol because theres this guy i really reallyyy really like( and its not like we've barely talked before. we were really friendly this year and i think he might like me too) and when i thought about those lyrics i realized all that was true about him to me. am i being stupid or could it possibly be "love-ish"?
and dont give some smart ass advice. im serious.
thanks <3
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Ok you don't have to rate me or anything but i am going through the same thing and when i asked my question people gave me advice but stuff that i would never do! lol i think u might be in love cause thats how i feel too.
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i'd say you can definiently be in love with someone your not going out. i was in love with my boyfriend before we went out and he loved me too and it worked out perfectly. i actually thought of that song when i loved my bf before we went out and thats exactly how i felt. maybe you should have a friend or someone tell him how you feel. your not being stupid at all.
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it's possible to be "love-ish" lol
but if you really want to find out, i'd suggest talking to him about how you really feel, and then from there, you will find out if it was love, or just a crush.
good luck & hope i helped!
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I think it's all in a matter of opinion. To me, you have a huge crush on this friend, you probably aren't in love. Love is a really strong word, and I believe that love happens between two people that are actually in a relationship or previously was in a relationship.
I think that you shouldn't really dwell on what it is that you have on this friend. Crush, love, whatever. It's obvious that you have strong feelings for him. When you start convincing yourself that you are in love with this guy, you are really risking your feelings out there. If he were to tell you that he didn't feel the same way, you'd go through a long time constantly convincing yourself that you're in love. You have to think of this as a huge crush because honestly it is. You may care for this guy very much considering the fact that he's your friend, but you have to not cast your feelings out so far that if he were to break your heart, it wouldn't be as devastating.
Songs are songs. Basically your feelings are feelings. Songs and feelings are usually different. So don't convince yourself of that either.
-TheTeenGirl
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