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Question for the ladies
Say you're working. Some guy walks in, and he's a nice, respectable young man who, after moderate conversation, turns out to be kind of interesting.
Okay, I'll just cut to the chase. I'm basically asking how you would respond to a guy asking for your number while you were at work (one who doesn't work with you). What 'parameters' would lead to a positive outcome, if any?
-I overthink things consistently.
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I wouldn't reccommend it. I know that that happens to me constantly at work, even with guys who do work with me. I generally feel flattered, but when i'm at work, i like to stay focussed on my job.
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I had the same problem! I did take the chance once in a while but not all the time i always find out if they would be any fun first. so i would suggest that you always make deep conversation to see if you could be compatible. hope i helped!
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maybe you could take the risk and give him your number
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Since this person doesn't work w/you then it shouldn't be a problem to give him your number. The only time it would be inappropriate is if it is someone you do work with. I would keep personal conversations limited since you are at work and suggest to him that he call you if he wants to chat about non-work related issues. Have fun exploring this burgeoning friendship and enjoy.
Namaste!
LULABELLE
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I think that would be a really, really bad idea. When somebody's working, they have to be WORKING. If she even talks to you in a way that's not related to say, helping you find a book at the library, she could get in serious trouble--fired even! If a guy asked me for my number while I was working, I'd say "Sorry, but no." So, you'll probably have to find a better place to meet women. Sorry.
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