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boy troubles!
i have a boyfriend and i love spending time with him and all, but lately it seems that we dont really have things to talk about. and there is this other guy who i have liked for awhile and i have been talking to him a lot lately and i always have a blast with him. i like them both a lot and have no idea what to do about it! i dont really know if there is anything i can really do about this but i need some input from ohter people!
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Ok. Umm so if your boyfriend and you are growing apart, then maybe you should try something new for a change. Or maybe you should have a serious talk with your him and see his point of veiw on the situation. But dont just blow him off for the other guy, just talk to him about just being friends for awhile.
Good Luck=)
-Steff*
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Okay ii totally know whats going on you def shouldnt cheat(not that ur thinking of doing that) if it comes down to it. It will just make things soo much stressful. Dont end your relationship with your man now because this other guy like mite just think this whole thing is a friendship and mite not want anything more. Find things that you both enjoy like a movie or go to the park nd play a sport soo their wont be much time for talking and it wont be akward. Dont tell your guy about this other guy or it will cause a huge fight and you probably dont want that.
Glad ii could help
MissSiixty♥
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Whoa there! Does your boyfriend know about this other friend of yours? You should definately tell him. Why? Well I'm sure you would want him to tell you if he had a friend that was a girl that he had a blast talking to. So go ahead and tell him everything you just wrote, about not having that much to talk about, and about having more fun talking to him.
He might not even notice that you two aren't talking as much and think everything is going fine.
So let him know what you want that to change. If things don't shape up, then talk to him about it. I mean if you have feelings for him and some other guy, you should definately tell him too. It's worse for him to go on thinking you only like him than for you to actually tell him its not that way. Sort your feelings out, and if you feel like you don't like the relationship you are in, then leave. But nobody is saying you are guaranteed a relationship with your other friend either. So sort your feelings out, talk to your boyfriend about the two of you and about your friend, and give it a bit more time for things to settle down or change. Hope that helped and good luck.
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It seems like you and your boyfriend and growing apart.. since you like the other guy you should break you with your boyfriend.Just get to know the other guy a little better and go out with him because it seems like you two have fun together.♥
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If you really like this other guy possibly more than your boyfriend then I say break up with your boyfriend. Even if you only like this guy a little bit more because you don't want to lead your boyfriend on and he may start to love you and if you after all that find out you don't you are really going to hurt him so you should really find out which one you would rather be with and then go from there.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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You are young and just starting to explore the different levels of love. It sounds to me like you are enfactuated w/this other guy. This will happend throughout your life, even after you are married. Someone really interesting will come into your life who is really interesting and fun. This is not love. I'm not saying that something can't develope from that. It certainly can and most times that is the way we meet someone and it then develops from that into love/or not. It's a crap shoot. You never know. Now your discription of what is going on in your relationship w/your boyfriend is the comfortable stage of the raltionship. Things aren't exciting anymore because you've moved past that. You know each other and know what the other likes and doesn't like. It's really a great place to be with someone. What you have to do is get some excitement back into your relationship with your boyfriend. Do something that you two haven't done before. Now if it just doesn't feel like it is there for you anymore, then I'd suggest moving on and testing out this new guy. When you are young that is what it's about. You are testing the waters, so to speak, looking for the characteristics of the person that you would like to spend the rest of your life with. You could end up thinking that you want someone who is a mixture of your present boyfriend and this other guy. You'll never know until you've tested the waters and explored. People do get hurt and you will even get hurt. It's an unfortunant consequence of this exploration. Try to be kind about your let downs and soften the blow as best you can, but don't let someone hold you in an emotional hostage situation. Move on when you feel it is time. It really is best for everyone concerned if you do. Good luck and have fun, that's what life is about.
Namaste!
LULABELLE
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Hi, I suggest that you think about what could happen if you left your boyfriend for this guy. You could hurt his feelings, and are you shore that this guy really feels the same way as you do? Why do you even consider another guy to your boyfriend? You love your boyfriend and hes alright and you both happy are'nt you? Just see how things work out with your boyfriend. If things in the end don't work out, then you could decide on option B. Think about it, don't make quick decisions. Daniel.
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If you like like the other guy then you obviously don't have many feelings for your boyfriend anymore. After awhile,some relationships get like that. If you do have feelings for the other guy then you shouldn't be with your boyfriend anymore. Just try to talk to your boyfriend about it and then maybe decide to be friends. You can then hang out with the other guy and get to know him and see if you have any feelings for the other guy. Hope I helped.
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