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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

advice

Hey.

Okay for someone who is 5'8 1/2" is 160-165 a good weight..like flat stomach? Because I only need to loose about 5-10 pounds.

But I was wondering is it possible when you first start a diet if you eat right and exercise well you can loose ABOUT 5 pounds once a week the first 2 weeks of your diet? (so about 10 pounds total) and then it slows down to about 2 pounds a week?

Thanks!

I think that`s an average weight for someone with that height. No matter what people say, the only way to loose weight is too cut down on junkfood and eat healthy. Since its getting warmer outside, you can run/jog/walk outside, sweat and getting plenty of excerisize i think that may help you loose weight. but loosing all that in a short period may not be possible. just try to stay on the actual diet. hope this helps ♥

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(female,15) ok so i have this bf and we've been going out forever. but id like him anymore, but i still wanna stay friends w/ him. But he likes me SOOOOOO much. I wanted to wait till summer cuz if we break up now it kinda ruins our other group of friends and we won't b able to hang out w/ them and i won't b able to hang out over the summer. so should i just wait till summer to break up w/ him nicely or just get it over w/?

Tell him you want to take a "break" from the relationship & then if things don`t change then break up with him as soon as you feel you need too. You shouldn`t lie to him and you should be completely honest with him. I`m sure he will still want to be friends after you break up. So I wouldn`t worry about loosing friends over it. hope things work out for you. ♥

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is it natural for your vigina to smell werid?

they all have their own smell. but if it's really strong you should go to a doctors cause you may have an infection.

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well this doesnt really have to do with sex, but im not sure where to put it. this is kinda gross haha, but every day i get soo much discharge, (17/f) its so gross. i know everybody says its natural, it is healthy, blah blah but its so much that i have to like keep toilet paper in my underwear or else it just...haha ew well anyway, is there anyway i can prevent it from being so much, like eating healthier or anything at all? please im soo annoyed with it haha, thanks :)

It is normal. You could try pantiliners and if they don't work use thin pads. Hope this helps. ♥

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hi ummmm i wanted to ask you a question about sex and i need advice as soon as possiable. okay so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time march the 5th of this year. and we did it twice that night. okay well a day later we did it three times. well its still hurting me. and bad too. is that normal? what could be wrong?

it's normal but if it still does that after awhile then maybe hes being to rough. see how it is, then maybe try to take a break from sex for a couple of days. ♥

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does anyone know any good books. i like teen love stories. Like not being mean, but one of the kids get sicks and die, like those love stories.. does anyone know any good books like that?.. oh sorry this is in the wrong category, i wasnt sure what to put it under!.. thanks!!!* =]

Laurlene McDaniel writes amazing books like that. I've read several of her books and they're short but good. =] ♥

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i get alot of discharge. its really gross. is that normal?

Yes it use. You can used pantiliners or pads if it`s alot. ♥

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ok so there is this guy that i have dated for a long time and we ended up breaking up but the thing is i still love him
he has a new girlfriend and everything
and i dont know what to do
i have a boyfriend too but idk if im happy with him
i just hate being alone!
PLEASE HELP

If you really don`t have feeling for your current boyfriend .. then don`t be with him. You may not be ready for a relationship just yet and until your heart knows your ready then you are. Trying to get over an ex and then having to deal with the fact he has a new girlfriend it`s hard, I`ve been there. But you have to realize if you`re still truely had feelings he wouldn`t be with. Everything happens for a reason and something aren`t meant to be. ♥

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how can you get cold sores becides oral sex

please explain can they spread through kissing?
thanx

You can get cold sores from all sorts of things. For example; touching something someone that had a cold sore touched, kissing, using someone else's lip gloss/chapstick, drinking after someone, the common one from an actual cold, and believe it or not - STRESS. You can try to use Blistex (works great), or go to a doctor and have them prescribe medicines to fight off the cold sore. Hope this helps. ♥

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for some reason, i woke up yesterday really really sore. Like my abs hurt, it hurt to laugh or cough. And my shoulders/arms are sore too.. i dont know why. I havent worked out for a while now... does anyone know why this happened? i'm woke up still sore today and when i tried stretching my abs really hurt. and i have practice later so i think it might hinder my performance. any advice?

It may be phenuemonia, broncitus, or the flu. Those symtoms sound like what I had when I had phenuemonia. So go the doctors as soon as you can. It`s better to get it checked out then letting it linger on and taking chances. Try sitting out during practice and being easy on yourself so you`re not in pain. Hope this helps feel better. ♥

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ok so i liked one of my guy friends who was alway there for me when i needed him, but after things fizzled out between us we went through a period where we didnt talk to eachother at all and if we talked we wouldnt have anything to say to eachother. i was mad at him for moving on and i think he was to scared to to confront me on it or something. Well its been like 4 months and we are finally starting to talk again and now i am confused. We are friends and that is all we will be but i feel like if i go back to spending the time with him i might start having feeling for him again and i dont want that. But they have already started but the problem is i dont know if i still like him or if i just miss him being there to always help me and protect me like he was before?! help!

Thanks

I know exactly how you feel and i`m going through the same thing you are right now. I`m not really sure if I can help you but I think you should talk to him. Let him know how you feel and see how he feels. That way he understands. Even though it may be hard, give it time. If you realize it`s too hard let him know and try to stop talking to him. As much as you think it will make you happier to be with him, your getting your heart broken even more. Maybe over time you can try the bf/gf relationship again. Since i`m not sure what happend between you guys, there might still be a possibility he still has feelings for you. Hope this helps. ♥

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ok so my cousin gave me his ipod to put songs on it. but i cant geet it to turn on. he has the origional black ipod nano. i have the new one. but its liek not turning on. help

It could be dead and needs to be charged. And if not see if he has the hold button on. ♥

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im 13.i went to 3rd.is this slutty?

Everyone will have their own opinion about this. I think that you are way to young to be doing that but if you did it with someone you care about and they do back then it`s ok. Most girls don`t see they are being used and you have to be able to trust the guy. ♥

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I'm confused, whats the difference between kissing and making out?

Everyone has their own definition for kisses but I believe a kiss is a peck on the lips. And making out is with tounge and more passionate. ♥

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What does it mean to be in heat? Sometimes as I joke i hear people say "oh she's gonan do it i can see she's in heat". whatever that means, can't you have sex without being "in heat"?

A girl having her period. ♥

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(fifteen; female) i masturbated when i was younger, and i still do sometimes. is there any way i won't be able to get pregnant (when i'm older) because of masturbating for many years?

You can only get pregnant from having sex with a male from unprotected sex. If you mean masterbating to much to cause to want more pleasure and having sex with a male then you wouldn`t be able to have a risk of getting pregnant if you use a condom everytime. Hope this helps. ♥

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ok sooo heres the deal. my boyfriend is amazing and i like him a lot. but hes just really shy. im so jealous of my friends and their boyfriends because their boyfriends always will come up out of no where and kiss them or just simply put their arm around them for no reason, but my boyfriend is always really shy and kinda stays away from me when his friends are around. i want him to know that i wont act all weird if he randomly comes up and hugs me or grabs my hand or whatever and that i'll like it. but i mean how do i do this? should i simply just come out and tell him or drop hints? or is there a better way? im just not even sure if he really likes me anymore and if he doesnt act like it then i just might wanna break up with him because then its just not gonna work ever. so help, pleaseee! thanksss

Maybe he`s not comfortable with you yet. Try hanging out with him alone more at home and get to know eachother. If he doesn`t do it after awhile try to do stuff like that to him. And if he still doesn`t, sit him down and ask him about your relationship. I`m sure it will help your relationship. ♥

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So when my parents split up i lived with my mom up until last year. I havent talked to my mom barely since that but my dad is an asshole ALL the time. I dont know... i really want to move back with my mom.. if i knew that she would still let me see my boyfriend and i would still be able to go out. But i dont wanna to move in with her and find out that shes gonna be a bitch and not let me see my boyfriend and not let me go out with my friends at all. What should i do because my dad is an asshole ALL the time.

Next time you see or talk to your mom. Mention your situation you know if she ask something simple like "how are you?". Tell her about your boyfriend too that way she knows you have one. Maybe even have her meet him. You could try living with her for a little while and if things don`t work out move back home with your dad. I`m sure if you mention it to your mom, she`ll let you move in & try it out. If things don`t work out with her, try talking to your dad. He`s probally dealing with alot too i`m guessing. Hope this helps. ♥

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i have an amazing boyfriend. okay, but i don't like saying "i love you" to someone RIGHT AWAY (we've only been going out for 4 days). this is because my LAST boyfriend was a complete asshole who used me & would ALWAYS tell me he loved me(he was lying) only to get "some" from me. i really, really like my new boyfriend, but the thing is..i guess i'm SCARED to say "i love you". he hasn't said that to me, like when we talk or anything, but once online, he 'im-ed me saying "love you" right before i signed off & i didn't reply.
please help =/ what do i say to him if i'm not ready to say "i love you"?

When he says it next time just tell him something like your sorry but you`re not ready to say that & you really do have strong feelings for him. It`s better you don`t say it if you truely don`t feel that way - & tell him that. It`s good to know he treats you better and cares about you than you`re ex boyfriend did and i`m sure over time you`ll be ready to tell him. :) Hope this helps & good luck. ♥

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i'm fifteen; my boyfriend was over the other day and we were downstairs in the basement. the furnace is down there and it makes a lot of noise, so we make sure that we don't "do things" while it's running because we can't hear if someone is coming down the stairs. well, my boyfriend was kissing my neck when my mom came down (and we couldn't hear her because of the furnace). she saw him and now dislikes him a lot. i don't know what to do to get her to like him again and allow him to come over and go in the basement with me. and i can't just go to his house because he hates it and refuses to invite me there. help!!

You really should try talking to your mom. Tell her that`s all you were doing & she happend to come down at the wrong time. Try to see if your mom will let him come over for dinner/visit one night and try to get to know him better. And make an agreement that you will stay in the family/living room for a while to build back up her trust. If she still doesn`t budge then try to hang out with him somewhere else, like the mall for awhile. I`m sure your mom will come around. Hope this helps. ♥

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