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Well theres a guy named "steve" thats not his real name lOl well i'ved liked him since about..the end of last school year and he told my friend he used to liek me..he doesn't really talk to me in school i guess we're in different crowds and i don't have classes w.him but i talked to him once on the phone and he said his cell was cutting out so he'd call me back when he got home..but he didn't. but the other night @ a football game i started crying bc of smthn that happened w.another guy that made me upset ((but the truth is..nothing happened...i just wanted attention..lOl well i kno thats wrong so i won't do it again!!)) well steves twin brother and one of his friends came over and gave me a hug and they were trying to find out what was wrong and then steve came over and was like whats wrong and he started massaging my neck but then my friend was like..thats what we're trying to find out and he was like ooh ok i'll leave my bad and stuff like that...so a little later i was standing w.my friends and he came over and was like whats this guys name ((of course i paniked bc nothing was wrong..but i amde up a name lOl!))and he put his arm on my shoulder..i kinda got the vibe he wanted to beat him up or smthn lOl and then he was like alright wheres nick ((his friend...lOl not his real name either)) and he walked away...then @ the end of the night he came up to me and gave me a hug. like all the 'popular' guys were paying attention to me all right long and it was great..but i kno its wrong to make things up like that and i'm not doing it again..BUT steve and the other guys wouldn't have paid attention to me if i wasn't crying...oh i forgot to mention steve still knos i like him..and none of the other guys were as touchy feely ((well besides steves brother who hugged me)) but on to my question...that night he was onine and didn't IM me and the next night he was on and didn't IM me...my friend says i should IM him but i have 2 times in a row and i really think if he likes me he'll IM me..but what i wanna kno is since i don't think he woulda said a thing to me if i wasn't crying...do u think he is interested in me? and he didn't IM me or call me or anything soo...what does this mean.. i kno this question is a lil unclear but if u were in my shoes would u talk to him in school ((girls FLOCK around him so it'd b hard to get a chance)) would u IM him or what would u do?? sry this is so long but i really need help!!

lol okay.. um.. yeh that was really long but here`s an answer... first of all, that was good that he paid attention to yu but not that yu lied like that! lol and yu should like IM him and be like "alright.. i like you and i`m getting really confused.. one minute you`ll be talking and touchy feely and the next minute yu won`t even realize that i exist!! i mean if you don`t like me that`s fine but i just want to know wut`s going on.." and if he doesn`t answer then when he`s alone in school, just ask him about it!! it`ll be hard but yu`ll hopefully get an answer!! good luck