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my friend has been dating this guy for almost a month now.. and I'm some what friends with him too.. but today online he told me he didn't want to go out with my friend anymore.. and told me to dump her for him.. and then he signed off.. What am I sapose to do?? I don't want to hurt my friends feelings.. but if she found out I knew she would get really pissed.. please help!!!
x0x0 too confused girly
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yu need to tell her the truth!! it`ll be pretty hard but if yu don`t, she`ll be really hurt... tell her exactly what he said.. she`ll prolly be kinda mad at first, but then once HE tells her, she`ll know that yu were telling the truth and she`ll thank yu.. good luck!!
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If he wanted you to tell her I think you should. Dont keep it from your friend just let her know. Sorry he put you in the situation. Best of luck! -holly-
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You should tell this guy that he should break up with her it his responibility and she also should no y hes breaking up with her and it should come from him
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Okay. He is the one who is going out with your friend so he should be the one to dump her. Tell him that if he doesn't want to go out with her anymore than he should tell her. It's between him and your friend.He shouldn't be dragging you into this also.
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he needs 2 do it himself.
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Tell him to tell her himself and you are not his messenger
hope this helps
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angelkatie
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Thats a tough situation. I would tell your friend about it, but don't break up with her for him. Tell her to dump him. So he'll feel really dumb and never try and do that again because that's not cool. Hope I helped! <3
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u should talk to ur frends bf again and tell him that he got into this relationship- if he want to dump her- then he's the one who's gotta do it. tell him that u won't do it, that he has to. Hope i helped!
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Don't tell your friend. Let him do it. It's not your place. He needs to get balls. I hate guys like that. They act all macho but in the end they are just balless jerks. I hope your friend gets the boy and love she deserves - not this guy. hope I helped. good luck and God bless!
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PS: If your friend is comes to you after asking if you knew about this before - be honest with her - she should realize how much you care for her and that's why you didn't tell her. Maybe hint to her before the break up that he isn't the best guy. If this guy comes to you all mad because you didn't tell her - tell him to get balls and to do it himself unless he is a worthless, balless wuss.
(hehe sry if i sound really mean...i don't mean to sound like that :-D @:-D)
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You need to talk to this guy again.. and tell him you arn't goint to be the one to dump her, you need to tell him that it would be better for him to do it then you.. and you need to be there for your friend 100% after this all happens.. believe me.. it will hurt** sooo much...=(
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i wouldnt do that if i were you thats his business to do that stuff not yours and everything i would show ne signs of knowing that you know about this situation... If i were you i wouldnt say nething
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don't do it. it's his responsibility, not yours ... make sure your there for your friend though
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I think that you should tell your friend. You aren't the one that will be hurting your friends feelings, you are just doing the right thing. It is ALWAYS sisters be4 misters...chicks b4 dicks!
Tell your friend!
Alina
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its his responsibility to break up with your friend, so tell him that, you shouldnt be in that, so let him break up with her.
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Call or email the jerk back and tell him to be a man and break-up with her himself, and how dare he put you in that position. You are her friend and you have no reason to be the bearer of bad news.
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Edit - I totally misread your question the first time...
If this guy is such a chicken shit that he thinks you should do his dirty work for him... if he's so lazy and cowardly that he can't do it himself, then why is he attempting to have relationships like this in the first place.
It is not your burden to bear. But now that you know this, make sure you're there for your friend when the coward finally gets the nerve to end the relationship himself.
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