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Hi im Mandy!

Im here to answer/help you with any questions you may have.

Im no genious and i dont know everything but i will try to answer your questions to the best of my ability, and what i dont know there are many other people here to help you.

Im a very nice person but i will be honest and im not afraid to say whats on my mind. So feel free to come and ask me for advice.

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do Remington's revolutionary new Wet2Straight straightners ruin your hair? UK (link)
i have this and i think it works great.

and i read all the other replys from other people. i use it on my hair wet and my hair is fine. i also use it with my hair dry and it works really well.


I was just wondering how some of ya'll get those lil' stars next to ur name. Like when ya'll respond you do somthing like "BLAH BLAH BLAH Hope i helped!!! (insert heart here) Candy." I just wanna know how ya do that. (link)
im not sure about a star.. but if you want to put a heart you use ♥


Anyone here have an easy recipe for fudge without nuts??????????/ (link)
when my mom makes fudge she gets a bag of chocolate chips and a small can of condensed milk then she cooks them in a pot untill all the chips are melted and then in a dish and in the fridge for a while till it hardens again. its yummy and easy to make.


when you post a comment how can u post a picture it never comes out oh and how do you get a background picture ... well i know how too it just never shows up ! thankz (link)
you can get a photobucket and use the url from there for you backgrounds if you use one of the profile editors like pimpwebpage.com or whatever you just insert the link that photobucket gives you. same with posting pictures in comments and stuff. so i hope that helps if you dont already have one.


I have naturally straight hair, but I like to wear it curly. I just bought my first curling iron, and I think the heat is drying my hair out. Did I buy the wrong product? Or am I just using it incorrectly?
Lour (link)
that happens to my hair too from my straight iron and blow dryer.. see i have curly hair and i want it straight all the time.. lol.. but maybe if you have different heat sttings on your curling iron try using it on a lower one and also make sure to use a good conditioner on your hair everyday... i use thermasilk and ithink the one i have is moisture infusing.. and i got it cuz it says heat activated on the bottle lol.. but it seems to work really well with my hair.. im sure there are better ones but thats the one i use. hope i helped


i know its stupid .. but i need help!! i have never been french kissed before and i htink im ready, but i dont know how to do it! do both yo uadn your boyfriend put your tounges in each others mouth or does one just put theirs in the others mouth? and how do you know whos tounge goes on top or bottom? I REALLY NEED HELP!! (link)
to be truthfully honest i havent been kissed either... so im not sure im much help for you.. but as everyone else says it comes naturally..sorry i couldnt be of more help.. hope everything works out..


i'm only 13 and i already weigh 145 pounds.. that's more than my 16 year old brother! anyway, i was just wondering if there was any way to lose as much weight as possible in the least amount of time without exercising excessively or starving myself? oh, and on my face, i was bushyish eyebrows, and although i think i'm... alright looking, the eyebrows kind of kill it. any way to fix that without plucking or waxing? thankz, !Jacy! (link)
well besides plucking and waxing i dont know what much else there is to do for your eyebrows.. sorry..

but your are 13... well if you wnat to lose weight try to eat a little less each day and maybe eat some more fruits or vegtables.. drink lots of water.. also.. if you dont like running around outsied or something get and excercise video they arent to long and are great cardio workouts.and they are even fun..but also back to you being 13.. you are still young and still growing and im not sure how tall you are or how tall your family is but chances are you will get taller and then you will even out better.. thats not a good way to put that but hopefully you get the point lol.. but also try to eat more healthy or do more physical activity cuz you dont want to add more weight on as you grow.. hope this gives you some ideas


I'm getting a hair straightening iron for 20 bucks. It's a ceramic ConAir with gold colored plates. Will it work as good as an expensive one, like a CHI? (link)
i dont know about the really expensive ones but ive heard that revolons work really good and arent too expensive .. but ones with ceramic plates will work best..


okay!

When people ask you for advice, then you answer, and they rate you low because they dont like your answer, and because you didnt say what they wanted you to! thats just bull! i mean, they are asking for your oppinion!

Anyone else agree or have this problem?

I wish they would realize, that its just what we think!!!

everyone thinks different!!!

I think the low #'s are just there if someone doesnt answer the question, or cusses you out!

Anyways-
Kels

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serously.. they ask for your opinion but just because its not what they want to hear they rate you bad.. they dont rate on whether the aswser is good or bad. just more of what they want hear they can rate you and say it was a good answer jsut not along the lines they are looking for so we can get the drift. but whatever floats their boat ya know.


A little while ago I made myself throw up cause I didnt like the way I looked.I promised my friends I would stop so I am,but my so called best friend wrote on her xanga that im bellimic and that everyone says I was just doing it for attention and for those who dont know wat an xanga is its like a website u can write things on and EVERY1 reads it cause alotta my friends have them and I didnt want any1 to know.Now I know that was wrong of her to post that on her xanga but I got really mad at her and I wont talk to her and we were just fighting last nite and we were cursing eachother off and I called her a backstabber.Do you think it was right for me to get mad at her? Do you think I should just let it go and apologize? I kno this gurl wont apologize to me cause thats how she is,but i dont know wat to do cuz I dont really wanna lose her as a friend but shes just really gotten on my nerves lately and she hasnt been a good friend to me.Thanks for reading this! (link)
i would be mad too.. shes supposed to be your best friend right.. and she didnt have to put it on her xanga where everyone at school can read about it. It would of been better if she told an adult like yours or her parents, that way you can get help instead of being embarrassed or anything, although you might still be embarrassed at least its a smaller amount of people and the ones that care about you Thats waht i think. And if you want to apologise to her just tell her your sorry but it really hurt you that she did that. or something along those lines. hope everything works out


okay- so heres what I see.

I see all of thse girls, and some guys, asking about Sex. will I get pregnate this way, what about this.

and i always answer saying, you should wait, what if you get pregnate, and a whole bunch of stuff to think about like money parents will he leave you- just to name a few.

then the rest of the questions i see are either:
i think i am pregnat, we used a condom and it broke, i dont want to tell my parents, what should i do.

or

i got pregnat and my boyriend left me.

its so horrible!!

I dont believe in Sex before marrage or abortion!!


anyone follow me and agree with me on this??

anything else- leave on in my inbox!!

-Kels- (link)
i also agree.. if they are asking all these questions about what will happen and so on, they are obviously not ready. And should wait. or there may be consequesnces.


I have my period about every 2 1/5 to 3 weeks.. then, when I do have it.. I have it for 2 days then I stop that night then I have it for one day then I stop that next day then have it for 2 more days.. is somthing wrong with me.. :-x
--I rate 5's!-- (link)
there is nothing wrong.. periods are usually abnormal the first year or 2 or so.. and eventually they will begin to even out..


okay..i sweat alot in my armpits! i use secret platinum gel and it hasnt been working. i dont smell (atleast i dont think) but i get really really soaked in my pits rite when i get to school! its awful! please help! what is the strongest womens deodarant/antipersperant you know of? help me out please! (link)
personally i dont like the gel deoderants and i dont think they work as well.. maybe that is why you sweat so much.. but if not try a stick deoderant if you havent already or certain dri or a mens deoderant cuz they are stronger.. and some of them actually smell pretty good. good luck hope you find something that works


I need help in my neighborhood there is a lot of families with little kids and I herd they need babysitters but they don't know that I babysit so how do I let them know (link)
maybe make little flyers and put in there mailboxes if they have them or tape them to their front door. or go around and ask the people if they need one, or no someone that does, and tell them that you are interested.. hope this helps some


i think i have insomia..i cant get to sleep sometimes till 12:30 or later and i have to b up @ 5...and the other night i couldnt get to sleep till....im 15 is there any ways i can get tested to find out if i have it or not? (link)
grrr. i answered your question but it said i didnt type it in english.. but anywyas.. i have had a similar problem.. and im not sure of all the details, but if you wake up early alot im not sure why you cant sleep at night, but if you wake up late in the mournings then you may want to wake up earlier to get your body off that time schedule. Also engage in more physical activity during the day to maybe wear off some energy, also if you drink caffinated drinks try to lay off those or get decaffinated stuff and dont drink the caffinated stuff after 7 or so. and drink more water. people also told me to read before i went to bed although i never did so i dont know if it help.. but you could probably get much better results from a doctor because i dont know all the facts about it except basically what it is. And if you do have it they may be able to prescribe you something. hope i helped sorry i dont know more.


so ive liked this guy forever-since the begining of the year..but he had a girlfriend until recently. hes liked me too but he had a really serious girlfriend (for a year!!) and then when he was single i had a boyfriend. now we are both single and weve been hanging out ALOT. weve kissed and held hands and he is soo sweet. hes always like callin me babe and stuff. and he told me to listen to some songs that remind him of me. hes just so sweet. well he told me he really likes me..but he doesnt want a girlfriend right now so we can be "close friends". what does this mean? hes not using me because hes just not like that..hes soo sweet. and i really like him. and we go to the same school. also, his ex recently started talking to me...and shes soo nice and still likes him...shes like making me feel bad for hangin out with him. but i dont know...what do i do? (link)
aww.. well he could mean just that he doesnt want a gf right now. especially after just getting out of a long relationship not to long ago..im sure it doesnt mean anything bad.. he just needs a little time... and as for the girl... just forget about her little guilt trips shes just jelous..


There is a show on TV, called America's Most Talented Kids~ and you are allowed to enter..and I want to enter...I'm a dancer, and I'm old enough. But it's in California, and if I ended up winning the audition, I (or my parents) wouldn't have enough money for me to go...And I really really want this..What should I do?!
signed,
Help! (link)
wow.. thats awsome.. maybe ask a grandparent or another family member.. im sure they would love to help you.. or try to earn a little extra money like helping neighbors, babysitting. carwashes. little things like that.. good luck with that..


Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE! (link)
hey, your fine. just like everyone else said it is usually irregular for the first couple years.. and there are also other things like stress that can make it late to.. so just hang in there a wait for a while.. and if you dont get it in a few weeks or so tell you mom.. and see what she says and maybe see a doctor if it will make you feel better..


i joined lacrosse and my legs hurt really bad from running.. how can i make it feel better?? and do you have any lacrosse tips? (link)
you probably dont work your legs out like that all the time so thats why they hurt.. but after a few days they will get used to it and they wont hurt anymore... take a advil to maybe take the pain away for a while...


My boyfriend and i broke up a few days ago at school. Right after school that same day i saw him kissing another girl. I know we broke up and everything but how did he get over it that fast? My question is how can i get over someone quickly? Any tips on how to forget about someone? (link)
well obviously if he is kissing someone else the same day he wasnt a very good boyfriend anywyas.. and he probably got over it so fast because he didnt care as much for you as you probably did for him... the only thing though is time.. and just think about other things and hang out with friends just a have a good time... cuz you can get someone much better than him.. good luck...




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