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so theres this guy...
so ive liked this guy forever-since the begining of the year..but he had a girlfriend until recently. hes liked me too but he had a really serious girlfriend (for a year!!) and then when he was single i had a boyfriend. now we are both single and weve been hanging out ALOT. weve kissed and held hands and he is soo sweet. hes always like callin me babe and stuff. and he told me to listen to some songs that remind him of me. hes just so sweet. well he told me he really likes me..but he doesnt want a girlfriend right now so we can be "close friends". what does this mean? hes not using me because hes just not like that..hes soo sweet. and i really like him. and we go to the same school. also, his ex recently started talking to me...and shes soo nice and still likes him...shes like making me feel bad for hangin out with him. but i dont know...what do i do?
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If he's not one to use, then he probably likes you. Since he recently got out of a one year relationship, he probably doesn't want a girlfriend at the moment. If you hang on, and give him time, I'm sure you guys will end up being together. About his ex-girlfriend talking to you: don't tell her things that you guys do together, and don't answer her questions, because from my experience, she'll get jealous. Don't feel bad for hanging out with him, there's a reason they aren't together.
♥ Summer
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He probably means what he says.Close friends doesen't have to mean sex.
The ex, well she's using you to get to him. She may be very nice but that is what's going on. Just tell her that he's your friend and you don't want to get in the middle of it.(might make him mad).Tell her you won't give him messages and you don't want to discuss their relationship etc. If she still want's to be friends with you after that then it's up to you. My guess is she will disappear.
Maybe once he is over her he will ask you out. Give him time, and don't get involved with his ex.
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aww.. well he could mean just that he doesnt want a gf right now. especially after just getting out of a long relationship not to long ago..im sure it doesnt mean anything bad.. he just needs a little time... and as for the girl... just forget about her little guilt trips shes just jelous..
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He does sound so sweet!
Don't worry, hon. After coming from a serious relationship of about a year, I think he wants to be able to breathe before jumping into another relationship.
If he's had a serious relationship, then I doubt it that he's trying to use you at all.
About his ex-you shouldn't worry about her either. Unless you'll feel guilty for going out with him, knowing she still likes him(which happens sometimes).
If he's hanging out with you, then you're the one he wants to be with. So be close friends with this guy, and throw your worries to the wind!:P
Hope this helps you out!!
*Diamyn*
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i think you hang out with him until he is ready to have a gf..then he already really likes you so he will definatley ask you..just wait..he isnt using you..some guys like to wait awhile b4 another gf....forget the ex gf...you never talked to her b4!hope i helped!Good Luck!
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