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my parents divorsed when i was 3, my dad got remaried about 2 years ago with out asking me or even telling me about it, or her. i hate her and my dad knows but doesnt care how do i get rid of her!?!

There's no way to get rid of her... I hate my moms boyfriend and I've told her- but she doesn't care.

All I can tell you is... Be the person you wanted your parents to be.

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I am trying to get a fashion style. I like like long flowing skirts and jean jackets but I also like sweatbands and spikes and stuff like that. I wanted to know where I could get some cool rocker clothes and some good but cute femine clothes for important events such as school trips, concerts, and such. I know I am going multi-personality right now...but im just 15 and am trying to find out who I am so cut me some slack. Do you know any cool stores that would be a lot of help to me?...Their websites would be best if you know them..ThAnK-YoU BuNcHeS
I RaTe HiGh!!
*~*mAdDiE*~*

Sweatbands and spikes- Hot Topic

Cute and feminine- Charlotte Russe

If you go to Google and type them in, their websites should come up. =]

♥ Summer

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Me and my best friend Ashlee are REALLY close but lately shes been really into guys. I mean, I am just not the way she is ..I mean were 13 but I guess Im kind of prude. Well, one night Ashlee got invited to a party with my other 2 friends Lindsay and Courtney. A few other people in my circle of friends (And I) didnt get invited. But, I didnt think much of it and I didnt care at all. Then, the other day, I was on the phone with my friend Alex (Shes one person who didnt get invited either) and Alex told me that Courtney, who was at the party, told her that the party wasnt really a party. It was just a few guys and Ashlee, Lindsay, and Courtney. Courtney said they played spin the Bottle and Ashlee (Who had never kissed anyone before) made out with 4 guys at the party! The worst part was that she didnt even tell me. I dont know what to do! I told Alex (Swore on my life, basically) NOT to say anything about what Ashlee did (especially to Ashlee) because she would know Courtney told Alex and Alex told me! Im so depressed! what do i do?

Did you ask her how the party went? And what they did at the party? When your best friend is boy crazy, I know, it's the worst thing in the world. My best friend has a boyfriend now, and we're not that close anymore, and it's the most horrible thing that's ever happened in my life.


Don't let her slip away though, because that would be horrible. Friends don't always tell eachother things because they're afraid of their reaction. When and if she tells you, don't freak out, because that could cause problems. You'll understand if you get boy crazy, although you may not, I haven't yet.


Good luck!
♥ Summer

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there's this guy that i used to be really good friends with. we were really close, i could tell him anything. we ended up going out for about 2 or 3 months and then we broke up, we said we'd still be friends, but that didn't happen. we didn't talk for a year and a half, and just started talking again in december. the reason we started talking is because his friend who i was also friends with told me that he missed me and still had feelings for me, well we started talking again, and his friend kept telling me that he liked me. i guess the guy thought i liked him too, i didn't tell him that but i guess one of his friends did. i do like him, but i don't know what to believe. well one of my friends told him that i didn't like him like that just as friends, and i didn't mind because i didn't want him to know. i was scared to lose him again. well now he's interested in this other girl, and i feel as though i lost my chance. when he thought i liked him, he would make an effort to talk to me more at school, and was kind of flirty. he still gives me a look though whenever he see's me. but once he thought i didn't like him everything changed. i understand why, but now i am really kicking myself, because i do like him, i just don't want to tell him if his feelings aren't the same, and even if they are, he's not the type of person who will necessairly tell you the truth. what should i do?

sorry this is so long = [

Write him a letter asking him if he likes you, and if so, to prove it in some way. If he does it, let him know that you like him and you want to have a chance (I'm sure you still have one). It'll probably be hard, but I think in the end it'll all be worth it.


I didn't tell the guy I liked that I liked him until a few months after I felt it... But a few months after that, my dream came true, and he's still my boyfriend to this day. :)


I'm sure everything will work out, my wishes and hopes go out to you!


♥ Summer Michele

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Okay, so I had been going out with this guy for like, nine months.. a long time. and he broke up with me one night, like, out of nowhere. and the next day, like not even 24 hours later, he asked me back out, saying he had made a terrible mistake. I took him back, because i loved him alot, and things were okay i guess. But I was scared he would do it again, because i mean, there were no warning signs. Three weeks later, he dumps me again because "there's no connection" ever since i took him back. Four days later, he goes out on a date with this other girl. many people keep on telling me he'll come crawling back because he did before, but i'm not so sure. he hurt me pretty bad, but i still love the idiot alot... what would you do?

If you've been together nine months and everything was going well, up until then... I wouldn't give up. People sometimes forget what it's like to be with someone else, and they forget what it's like to be without someone. I'm sure he'll come back, but when and if he does, don't give in too easily. Give it awhile, and see if everything is alright and he's acting normal. After you give him about a month or two months of time, you can give in.


I really hope it works out for you.


♥ Summer Michele

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ok...so there is this guy...anyways i REALLY REALLY ThInK i like him and i ThInK he likes me 2 but i dont know! Every time i'm with him he's always like holding hands with me and trying to kiss me but we're not even going out! BUT, when some1 comes around it is like he doesn't want to be seen WITH ME WITH ME! like...as a couple...! i don't know what to do or how to tell him how i feel...do u have any ideas?
ThAnKs A BuNcH!*

Stay away..


Far, far away.


He's not a guy, he's a boy, and way immature.


♥ Summer

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14/f
summer is coming up and i am going to be swimming ALOT. i got my period at the very end of last summer so i didnt have to worry about swimming. but now that this summer is getting closer i am considering tampons so i can swim whenever i want. my questions are what brand of tampons are best and should i start now so i will be more confortable or will it matter?

thank you.

Tampax Pearl Plastic.


Start using now, so you're used to them and you get the feel of them. It probably doesn't matter, but if I were you, I'd start now.
♥ Summer

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My periods are very irregular, even though i've had them for almost 4 years now, my hair is falling out, im always tired, i get contipated and my nails are really weak. Does anyone what these symptoms could mean? my mum has a thyroid robleem and thinks i could have it also, i want to go to the docters but im terrified of needles, and they'll want a blood sample.
Please help

Stress. I do believe my dearest, that when you're under stress, your hair falls out; you lose sleep; and you don't get the right amount of vitamins.


Get a hobby. It's hard to reduce stress, but you can do it. Go swimming, jump rope, rollerblade... Anything that makes you happy, and lets you focus on the outside world.


I highly doubt it's a thyroid problem. Since your mom has one, I'd watch out for later in life...


♥ Summer

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Ok..i went sorta on this date last night with this guy i have been chatting on line with. My friend has met him so hes no harm. Well that whole night he would try to talk to me and i just didnt talk much. After the date..i got online and he didnt talk to me at all. My friend called me up a few min later and said i was really boring and didnt show my personality. Do you think this guy should give up? Or do you think he should let me have a second chance?

Maybe you weren't ready for the first chance, so you need a second chance... Tell him you were nervous, happens all the time. :o)

♥ Summer

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my cat constantly follows me and everytime i sit down she comes to sit on top of me.. i will get up andmove somewhere else but she still sits on me.. i push her away but 2 minutes later she comes up again.. i know its cute and everything but it just really annoys me sometimes.. does anyone elses cats do this.. how do you get them to stop

My cats are outside, but they used to be inside... They just want love- just pet them for three minutes, and then send them on their way. If you need to, put them in a room where they can't get out, where they can crawl on something else instead of you.

♥ Summer

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is there anyway you can dely your period but in a healthy way? cuz im goin on a trip next weekend and my period is planned to come around then! how can i cope with this?

Use tampons...


Or get on birth control (depo-shot). You won't get your period for three months, and you're safe from getting pregnant. It causes you to gain weight though...
♥ Summer

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We've all seen a million questions on "HOW CAN I TONE MY BODY?"

Well, I'm wondering how to just well, make your abs more.. defined and a little bit flatter. I already know about Tone Teen and Seventeen Workouts so please don't suggest that, thanks.

Visit www.ivillage.com. They have tons of things about abdominals...


Or use google, you never know; it works wonders.


BUT, all I know is you must include cardio in your workout...


♥ Summer

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I have this problem you could say, but whenever I find a neat, original band and I put their song in my info or something, somebody always steals it. Not only that, they think they know all about the band because they know part of one song. I know this is very selfish of me to think one band is labeled "mine", but I can't help it. One of my friends stole 10 bands that I once liked. Every song that I listened to, she went off and downloaded. I know most of you are going to say "well take it as a compliment, she likes your music", but the thing is I don't take it as a compliment at all, it's quiet annoying. Does anyone have any advice on this? Do you think that what I'm doing is as stupid as I think it is?

I don't think anything you're doing is stupid... I have that problem as well. I have an Xanga account, and this girl ALWAYS visits it. I've read her info and her buddyprofile a few times, and she takes things I say and quotes I put in there and acts like it's hers. I haven't said anything to her, but I've said things to her friends.


Change your screen name and put it in that info and talk to friends that don't take your lyrics. -Or, put lyrics and put the wrong band name at the bottom. See what they do then. :o)


♥ Summer

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Hey gals,
to any of you who arent very close to your moms, how did you tell her when you started your period and how did she react?

I didn't tell my mom... She asked me. I didn't think I needed to tell her, because that was my body and my business.


Once she found out, she cried; then asked why I didn't tell her.

!!


♥ Summer

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Im just wonderin, do like a lot of people get messages straight into their inbox??? I hav eonly gotten 1 REAAL question from someone...thats all. Some one else that obviously know me wrote somethin in there but it wasnt a real advice question. Is there somehting i need to know? I mean i do answer many questions...

I've gotten a lot of questions straight into my inbox. Do you give good advice? Is the link to your advice column out there for people to see and recognize? Let people know that it's there, post it wherever you can.


If putting it out there doesn't work and you're still not recieving many questions, you could always revert to the classic way of answering questions- the Give Advice column on the left.


Good luck.
♥ Summer

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Alright, so. Here I am agian,15 Adrianna Rose Brugnoni lost agian. Ok so heres the deal, I am like once agian inlove with this my best friend Kurt. We previously dated for seven months. But after a while he made me really annoyed and started acting so stupid. And in between him and our maybe next relationship I dated John. Who I really enjoyed dating but, he ended up being a little bit too clingy and after only two months he told me he was inlove with me. After we broke ( Its been 3 months) he still says hes inlove with me and everytime he sees me with someone else he gets very jelous and very hurt. So back to kurt, I really really want to date him agian, but the problem is not only will John be completely depressed, but my mom really doesnt like him. And to me Kurt is amazingly good looking, but too my mom she thinks he looks weird, and im afriad that so would my family too. So please help me out. What should I do???


Thank you sooo much. Adi

John shouldn't have anything to do with yours and Kurt's relationship. He's not your boyfriend anymore, and everyone has to get over someone in one way or another; even if it means hurting for another person.


Does Kurt like you back? Did you have a good relationship while he wasn't annoying and really stupid? If so, then I don't see the problem. If yours and Kurt's relationship is real good like it should be, talk to him about your mom. Let him know that she's not very fond of him. Have him adjust to the kind of person she likes, while he's around her. Don't try and change him completely, you probably wouldn't like who he is. Show your mom that he really isn't as bad as she's been thinking, and he's really not weird-looking. Your family should support you in all of your decisions, anyway, and if not, it's not right and I wouldn't worry about because it isn't between you and them. It's between you and Kurt.


Good luck.
♥ Summer

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ok, my mum stopped smoking for a good few years now and i was so proud of her but now she's started again because shes under so much pressure (she does an art course at college) it also puts pressure on me and she says she understands that but its something she wants to do and i support that. She said that she will stop smoking at the summer and i was fine with that but ive not to tell anyone thats shes smoking again, but now shes smoking all the time and i feel sick around her but i CANT tell her that. SOMEONE HELP ME PLEASE!!!! SORRY ITS LONG BUT I RATE VERY HIGH

The only thing I can think of is... don't be around her when she's doing this. It's not just bad for her health, it's bad for yours. Rather than dealing with smoke, go to a friends house, or go find something that will constantly keep you occupied (i.e. painting, running, listening to music, doing extra credit homework).


I hoped I helped, even a little bit.
♥ Summer

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13/f

There is this guy and he supposedly likes me!!! and I like him a whole lot! My friends have asked him if he lieks me nad they said that he said he does.. and then some ahve asked him if he is gonn ask me out.. but he said that like Wednesday.. and he still hasn't... I am still wondering if he is going to.. and should I tell him I like him myself? and What should I do about if he likes me??


mroe info.....

We flirt a bunch and stuff and he is in some of my classes... and he alwasy stares at me in them .. but he hasn't asked me out yet.. am I over reacting? PLEASE give me some pointers on how to Help him like me

If your friends are trustworthy and have never lied about things, then they should be correct about him liking you. That is, IF they asked him. If you want to be for sure, why don't you ask him yourself? Write him a letter, or e-mail, or if you both have instant messanger, those all make things easier.


If he hasn't asked you out, have you ever thought that he may be scared? He might be unsure about you liking him, he may be scared of rejection... Who knows? Sometimes, guys have the same feelings as we do.

♥ Summer
Hope I helped.

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Ok..i went out with this guy the other night..i think it was last friday. It was our first time meeting eachother because before that we had talked on the internet and really hit it off. Well when i met him i got very shy and didnt talk much. Soo a few days went by and he didnt really talk to me after that date. So then i told him oneday..that the other night i wasnt myself.and maybe we can hang out again..like another chance. He said ok thas cool..but just as friends. Did i get rejected or what?

I don't think you got rejected if he said it was alright to hang out again. Maybe he didn't talk to you, because he didn't know the right words to say. He was probably wondering the same thing you were- about not talking.


It could be rejection; if you got the message that he didn't want to hang out again. But then you'd have to ask yourself questions- what went wrong? Was it your shyness? If so, don't be shy the next time you go out with a guy.


You can always try again with another person. :o)
♥ Summer

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ok well my best friend is/was having a HUGE bday party for herself (shes got a huuuuge house, an amazing pool and her parents said that max was like 60) so yeah everyone looks forward to her partys.. and ya know how it is in high school.. you cant go to a party like this without having someone to "hook up" with.. thats just how it is.. so me and this guy planned to hook up and blah blah blah.. you know how that goes.. well the party kinda got canceled and so now me and this guy are just "talking" about doin stuff like goint to the movies or w.e and "hookinh up" there but the thing is we have been talking a lot now and i think i like him.. (wich i knew this was gonna happen :/ ).. and hes telling ppl he likes me (a little) so thats a high point.. BUT (and theres always a BUT) :/ theres another girl.. that hes like IN LOVE with.. but this girl has a bf and has for a looong time now, but this bf goes to a different school then her so her and this guy i like act like they are together at school, but outa school she just totally ignores him when shes around her bf (gay huh?) and i dont go to the same school as the guy i like or this girl, and ive never met her either but everyone tells me shes really not all that pretty.. so yeah im just wondering.. should i take him out.. just me and him and show him who i really am and try to steal him away from this "other girl" and make him change his mind to want me?.. or what?

Take him out, but don't try to steal him... Don't put yourself out and make yourself seem vulnerable. You could possibly change his mind by just being who you are. If you like him and he likes you, then you should be all set. The other girl shouldn't matter at all, if she has a boyfriend I don't think they should act like they're together.


Are you pretty? I don't think looks have anything to do with being in love and not being in love. The girl could be way ugly, and if he loves her, she's probably a good person. Just a heads up.


Good luck.
♥ Summer

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