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Alright, so. Here I am agian,15 Adrianna Rose Brugnoni lost agian. Ok so heres the deal, I am like once agian inlove with this my best friend Kurt. We previously dated for seven months. But after a while he made me really annoyed and started acting so stupid. And in between him and our maybe next relationship I dated John. Who I really enjoyed dating but, he ended up being a little bit too clingy and after only two months he told me he was inlove with me. After we broke ( Its been 3 months) he still says hes inlove with me and everytime he sees me with someone else he gets very jelous and very hurt. So back to kurt, I really really want to date him agian, but the problem is not only will John be completely depressed, but my mom really doesnt like him. And to me Kurt is amazingly good looking, but too my mom she thinks he looks weird, and im afriad that so would my family too. So please help me out. What should I do???
Thank you sooo much. Adi <3
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John shouldn't have anything to do with yours and Kurt's relationship. He's not your boyfriend anymore, and everyone has to get over someone in one way or another; even if it means hurting for another person.
Does Kurt like you back? Did you have a good relationship while he wasn't annoying and really stupid? If so, then I don't see the problem. If yours and Kurt's relationship is real good like it should be, talk to him about your mom. Let him know that she's not very fond of him. Have him adjust to the kind of person she likes, while he's around her. Don't try and change him completely, you probably wouldn't like who he is. Show your mom that he really isn't as bad as she's been thinking, and he's really not weird-looking. Your family should support you in all of your decisions, anyway, and if not, it's not right and I wouldn't worry about because it isn't between you and them. It's between you and Kurt.
Good luck.
♥ Summer
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No one can tell you who to love. I understand that John may still love you.. but how can he be in love if you not with him? If he really does care for you hell understand. Now with your mom.. try talking to her about why she doesnt like him and who cares what he looks like!??!? you guys cant be that shallow! Good luck and just make ur mom realize that if he makes you happy.. what can he be doing wrong?
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Follow your heart. It's not your moms (or anyone else's) relationship, just yours. If you have strong feelings for this guy then go for it. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks, especially if it's love you're feeling. Listen to your heart. It'll tell you what to do.
Best Wishes,
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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If you want to go out with Kurt then go out with him. Unfortunatley mom isn't going to like every boy you date. It would be great if so but she probably won't. So,just do it.
Now about John. If you are no longer dating him he really has no say so either right? Don't let other's make the decisions for you. He will get over it. It might actually help him get over it because he must be holding out hope that you two will get back together.
If you want to date both, well that's perfectly acceptable too. No since tying yourself down if you don't have to. :)
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