Hey guys what's crack-a-lackin? I'm Marissa or Missi (whichever you like best) I'm a 15 year old girl who loves to have fun and is always lookin' for trouble=)I'm 5'7", 125lbs., long brunette hair, hazel eyes, freckles. I'm outgoing and optimistic. I am a loud, obnoxiously, spoiled brat. I love to talk, and I like listening to people even more. So if you ever wanna chat.. I'm your girl! I don't care what other people think of me. Either you like me, or you don't. It's your loss not mine. I'm very open minded to new people and new situations. I'll try anything, other than gross food. I have tons of friends but am always looking for more. My favorite things to do are sing, dance, play soccer, talk on the phone and computer, skate, and hang out with my best friend Hailei. I currently don't have a boyfriend but when I do I spend tons of time with him whenever I get a chance. That's all you need to know for now. Hit me up for more.
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Location: Milton, Florida
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Age: 15
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Member Since: November 22, 2004
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hey girl i just wanted to know if you like this boy but u dont know if he likes you but lets say we've made out and he says he loves you so what do you do please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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This boy just wants you for the bootie. Leave him alone before you get your heart broken. No guy says I love you! that quick without wanting "something" in return.
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ok, i have a really good friend of another race that i had no doubt at all was gay. he was always checking out other guys and stuff so of course..duh, i thot he way gay. so we were really good friends and then all of a sudden he told me the DAY BEFORE april fools that he had had a really bad crush on me since the beguinning of last year. k, it TOTALLY threw me by suprise b/c i thot he was GAY!! so ne ways i though he was joking cos the next day was april fools but he wasn't kidding at all!!! so he kept stalking me and wouldn't leave me alone. he would always be like "have you though about it yet, you're taking FOREVER!!" but my mom just got home from the hospital from a really stressful and long-recovery surgery and she JUST now started walking. so i've been distracted obviously with my mom. so ne ways i was doing this filming project for school and he was stalking me the entire time. we were filming and he'd just be standing there looking around doing nothing, watching what we were doing when we all asked him to leave like 30 minutes ago, but he wouldn't leave. so finally we finished the project and i needed to change out of this crazy costume i was in so i told him "hey, i need to change into my regular clothes." an he just tood there starring at me, then he goes "well then?" like i was ACCTUALLY going to do it in front of him! so i told him he needed to go outside and he was all pissy about it. so then while i was changing i saw him STARRING AT ME THROUGH THE WINDOW WHILE I WAS CHANGING MY TOP!! oh my gosh it was so horrible! i felt so violated! and he's still been stalking me and saying "hey, how's your day?" to me in the hallway like we're going out even though it should be pretty clear to him that we're NOT!! so how do i tell this guy to get lost and leave me alone? i don't want to hurt his feelings, but then again he was starring at me while i was changing so i kind of do. ne suggestions? what should i say? i rate high (link)
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Tell him to LEAVE YOU ALONE. If you feel uncomforetable around then you mite need to be rude and mean about it. And another thing. This boy is sexually harassing you. This is a federal offense and he can get into A LOT of trouble for it. You should rite down date and time of everything he does that makes you uncomforetable and put it in a notebook that paper can't be added to. When you feel ready tell a trusted adult and show them the notebook. You'll feel much better and safer too!
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I hate myself and want to die. There is no way out. There is no definite answer to anything so how can you ever be right? Why do my friends always want to know what i am thinking when they dont care, they dont listen so why ask. Counsellors get PAID to listen to you. no one will remember me a year from my death. Anti depressants leave you numb and emotionless. Doctors dont issue sleeping pills coz I am a depressant but I cant SLEEP all i do is stare into senseless nothing seeing nothing but black shadows. The only releif is a razor blade and salt. Nothing will ever get better i will have this hopeless feeling of nothingness and desperation for somekind of peace of mind which i wont get. Things will always be the same and then ill die anyway. Im a selfish ugly fat bitch and the only way out is death. nothing can help me. im searching for a solution to get past my pathetic problems asides from counsellors, therapy, rehab, cutting, not cutting, anti depressants the only thing i can think of to a solution is death. no will will ever be able to stop this drowning feeling (link)
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Ok. Well, it seems your 'depression' isn't just an *every-now-and-again* thing. YOu have a sickness and medicine WILL help you. You need to get to a doctor and quick. Suicide is selfish in itself. People will miss you terribly, whether you believe it or not. Trust me. I've been where you are. You don't want to die. It's not worth it if there is help out there for you.
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is it safe to try inserting a tampon if you dont hae your period? (just for practice) (link)
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I wouldn't recommend it. It's quite painful, especially when it has to come out. Just wait for your period. Much safer and comfier.
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I like this guy and recently I told him I liked him, but now i kind of regret it because I know he is going to act different around me and its not going to be the same. What should I do? (link)
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YOU act the same and eventually he'll learn that its still okay to be himself around. Besides, guys change anyways when you start dating them. Just give'm some time.
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well, some stuff just happened and my crush asked me out. so we're gonna try the whole dating thing.
before, we went out for a day but he broke up with me. he told that it was cause he wasnt sure what i wanted out of the relationship and was worried about how to handle things.
anywho, now he told me he wants something "more" and not like..an occasional see him at school and hug in halllways. so now i'm pondering. the next time i see him and spend time with him should i make the first move or wait for him to?
i'm afraid if i wait he might break up with me again, but if i don't and kiss him or something, he might take it as i'm too eager and such.
so, should i be the one to make the first move? (link)
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Heck yea! Don't let him control the relationship. Take it to the level you want it at and if he is uncomforatable with it, he'll tell you. That's when you ask him to let you know when he's ready.
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I've been wanting to ask, what's emo? I've heard it a lot, but don't have a clue as to what it is, and nobody would tell me because they are such teases. (link)
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Emo is an "emotional" person or someone who's into the punk stuff and suicide and what not.
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My best friend and I got in fight like a month ago and it awas the stupidest fight ever I cant even remember what it was... well we kinda lost communication cause she just started ignoring me(and what sucks is we hang out with the same ppl so I will be standing next to her but we wont talk) and then like last week i was aim and we started apoligizing and got everything worked out... but at school its like we still arent friends cause i will be standing right next to her and we wont say one word... it feels really awkard... but i miss her so much and I dont know what to do I mean Ive told her how much I miss talking to her... I feel like Ive been replaced... I just want my best friend back and I dont know how to do it? I have cried so much just because of the fact that i cant talk to her and tell her everything anymore... it hurts me so much at school to be standing next to her and not talk... i cant really tell anyone how im feeling cause I just want to cry... I am trying to make my self realize that were just not bestfriends anymore but its way too hard... i need advice do I need to make myself realize were just not the same or do i gotta do something and get My BF back and if so HOW???
PLEASE HELP!!!
SIGNED:I WANT MY BF BACK! (link)
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WoW! We have the same story. I was in this situation a while back (everything's great now). My advice for you is when you see her in the hall way just talk to her like nothing ever happened. Don't act sad and 'weird' just be normal. As if everything was perfect between ya'll. After about a week if nothing changes move on. It'll be best for you.
Best Wishes!
sh0w3rg3lbaby
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Weird question, but okay.. do you find it normal to like someone alot that you've never met? I think that its normal to an extent- like a celeb.. but what do you think? (link)
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It depends on the person I suppose. If it's someone your age at your school that a friend has told you a lot about and he's cute then yea it's normal. But if it's a celeb I'd have to say it's a little weird. Finding a celeb attractive is cool and all but 'liking' them is strange.
Hope this helped!
sh0w3rg3lbaby
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okay im 14/f.
i started babysitting at the beginning of the school year. the lady who hired me said that she needed someone she would be able to rely on. she pays really good money but recently her hours got changed and i'm working 3:30 to 6:00 when usually i only did 3:30 to 5:00. i don't even get to eat with my family. and when i get home all i wanna do is just go to bed.
the kids are fucked up. they get disciplined but their mother just laughs when she yells at them. they're really spoiled and get their way all the time.
the other day i was watching them and i was swinging on this swing. well their dog attacked me for no reason. when i told the mother she said "oh sometimes you just need to hit him" he even ripped my pants! there's a small hole in the pants and there's a HUGE bruise on my leg from where he bit me.
when i got my paycheck their was no money for the pants that the dog ripped. i'm really sick of them and i wanna quit but i don't know how to say it. if the dog bites me again i'll have no problem but what should i do in the mean time? i was thinking of giving her my two weeks notice but chickened out. what do i say?
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Don't even give your 2 weeks notice. Call her up and quit. If her dog BIT you and she doesn't even care, then she definately isn't someone you should be working for. If the situation bothers you then get out.
Good Luck!
sh0w3rg3lbaby
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Tell me if I'm over-reacting, but...
My best friend Sara came over yestery, and we started watching a movie, Raise Your Voice. And, well, these guys call her. Background info about the guys, one of the guys and sara were supposed to go out but sara's best friend (now ex) stold him away from her, and the other, well they kicked it and he started standing her up, so things stopped. But yeah, they called her saying they were going to some park/lake nearby and they wanted her to go with. She knew I couldn't go, and then she called another friend and begged HER to go with. Then when she got off the phone she looked at me and was like, are you mad?e I said yeah maybe. Then she's like oh I'm such a bad friend... and calls the guys back saying come pick me up! Agg! Who does that? Thats the reason her last friendship, fell apart, her other friends ditched Sara and so she should know how it feels. This isn't the first time we foughta. We fight a lot. And today in the morning I didn't call her up for school like usual and she calls half hour later saying why didn't i call her to wake her up?and i said that i thought she'd be up already, and sjhe clicked. so then at the bus stop i didnt go anywhere nearher and then she came to me to give me my books back and take hers and said something ... then called me abithc. I dont know what to do, everyone likes her. SHe talks about everyone behind their back. Agggh it drives me insane because no one believes me! I will give you a 5 if you give me a good response. Thanks in advance! :=) (link)
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Here's my brilliant answer. It's time to get a new friend. Don't worry about if everyone believes you or not just worry about the fact that YOU know what kind of 'friend' she is, or shall I say isn't. You can do way better than this chick. If she's ditching you for guys and talking trash then she's just wasting your time and doesn't care about you.
BestOfLuck,
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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I went to the mvoies and the person i like was there his friend was with him and i think he told the person i like that i like him. The person I like started talking to my friends but not me he would avoid looking at me. He also used to like me, what does this mean? (link)
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He could like you and just be really shy. He may be trying to get some info from your friends. Just take it as it is and don't let him know anything is bothering you with the situation. You'll soon find out if he likes you or if he's a loser.
Best Wishes,
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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Alright, so. Here I am agian,15 Adrianna Rose Brugnoni lost agian. Ok so heres the deal, I am like once agian inlove with this my best friend Kurt. We previously dated for seven months. But after a while he made me really annoyed and started acting so stupid. And in between him and our maybe next relationship I dated John. Who I really enjoyed dating but, he ended up being a little bit too clingy and after only two months he told me he was inlove with me. After we broke ( Its been 3 months) he still says hes inlove with me and everytime he sees me with someone else he gets very jelous and very hurt. So back to kurt, I really really want to date him agian, but the problem is not only will John be completely depressed, but my mom really doesnt like him. And to me Kurt is amazingly good looking, but too my mom she thinks he looks weird, and im afriad that so would my family too. So please help me out. What should I do???
Thank you sooo much. Adi (link)
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Follow your heart. It's not your moms (or anyone else's) relationship, just yours. If you have strong feelings for this guy then go for it. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks, especially if it's love you're feeling. Listen to your heart. It'll tell you what to do.
Best Wishes,
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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ok..is it possible for someone to only have their period every other month??...i rate (link)
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Yes, that is very possible. Some girls only get their period every 6-8 weeks. It just depends on your body. But if you're really concerned you should go see your doctor. IT shouldn't be anything serious though.
Best Wishes,
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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i need serious help! my friend gets mad extremely easyly! And she doesnt want to be friends w/ my other beset friends! Just b'cuz she calls her fattie like 3 times! SHE CALLS EVERYONE FATTIE, its just a habit! So, i tried to fix things and said "I'll talk to her." and i did!!! then she calls her it ones and is sry, she just forgot. And now *sally* (not real name, using fake name) is mader than ever! And shes sry. but *sally* is still totally pissed! And she wont listen to me when i say that she didnt mean anything by it!
what do i do! they cant stop being friends, it'll totally brake the group!!!
sorry, if its long! (link)
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You can't make someone be friends. If you want to still talk to both of them that's your choice but don't force them to talk. It obviously isn't a relationship that is meant to work so just leave it alone. If they are meant to be friends it'll happen if not atleast YOU can still talk to both of them.
Best Wishes,
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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Hey. um. well when my friends and I play truth or dare. I usually just watch ya know..well they;ve been getting on my nerves about me being a chicken.. the truth 'how far have you even been'..always comes up..and well when I was 8 years old I was, well raped.. and I dont want to say that I was raped..but other then that, I've never been anywhere (still severely afraid of guys and what they're capable of)..and if i say that, well i'll be considered prude..which i guess is the case..any way to avoid this??
Sorry-its so long. (link)
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My advice is to just say you haven't done anything. Your rape situation never has to come up. I know what you're going throuhg. I was raped when I was ten and though I recovered quickly it was still very tramatic. All you have to say is you've never done anything because you're not ready and if they keep pestering just tell them that you don't appreciate it and you'd like them to respect your privacy and stay out of your personal life. If this doesn't work I'd advise you to get new friends because these obviously don't care about or respect yor feelings.
Best Wishes!
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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I have a friend who was going out with this one girl. he's 18 and really loved her. they even talked about getting married! Then one night at a party he did a lot of things with another girl at a party, and after that she had sex with someone els. He was so mad that he cheated on his girlfriend with a "slut" and when his girlfriend found out she was puking and screaming. Now my friend wants to kill himself and im scared. Besides going to an adult, how can i help him? (link)
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Talk to him. Let him know that everyone makes mistakes and it's ok. Remind him how many love him and will miss him if he takes the easy way out. He needs to face his problems and if he really loves this girl then she'll be worth all the problems he's going to have to deal with. Just let him know he's loved.
Best Wishes!
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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There is this kid whos 15 and I really like him..but he doesnt like me only because Im younger than him. He flirts w/ me and stuff when Im alone. Only when Im the only girl around. Then when hes around other girls, he totally acts like Im not there...what is up with this? I need help on this because I dont know whats up w/ him....(hes my cousins friend) (link)
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Leave him alone. Take advice from a 16 yr old girl (me) who's been here. He doesn't want you. He's only going to mess (flirt) with you when it's convenient for him but when girls his own age is around you won't even exist to him. Find someone your own age or just a different 15 year old. This one is just a waste of your time.
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Hello there.
Okay, well firstly I'm very annoyed that I didn't use a comma after my "Hello", but I don't think it looks right, so I'm not putting one in... Secondly, this is what my problem is. I have a hella lot of inner conflicts with myself, and I often speak to myself.
I don't consider speaking to yourself an actual problem, because it's rather normal, just most people deny it as it makes them look "weird", I personally don't care. But I am annoyed at the fact that I argue with myself a hella lot, I get annoyed at the slightest things and I try to purposely contradict myself when I'm bored to make my life seem more amusing and cause problems.
I'm turning my life into a soap opera for the fun of it, and when a real problem does arise, I flip it over, turn it inside out and make it all the more worse.
I *could* figure this one out myself, but I'd probably give myself the wrong solution just so I have another problem that I can make a larger problem out of, then I'll contradict the whole thing by denying ever having *any* problems AT ALL...
Okay, I made this longer and more complicated/confusing than I could've imagined, but again, help would be rather nice. And don't give me a lame ass answer like "seek help from your GP" because I'm not gonna and I want a REAL answer.
Apologies and I appreciate you wasting your time. Merci beaucoup. (link)
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Well, my solution would be to ask your friends for help when you have a problem. Of course you don't have to use their solution just compare it to yours and really consider which one would work best. It's quite simple. This whole problem would be cleared up if you'd depend on more people rather that just yourself.
Best of Luck!
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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Hey,
I have horrible frizzy, thick hair and i like it best when its straight. I.ve tried a range of products (straightening serums, shampoos, conditioners, sprays..) but nothing seems to work at all. i have one of those 'wet to straight' straighteners (£80) and if you use it when its wet it frazzles your hair and i think it ruins it (its says it locks in moisture but im not too sure it does). I've tried Sunsilk straight and sleek, Frizz ease, shockwaves extreme straightener..etc..and im going to try that Hot Straight from the advert that stars Beyonce. My bathroom is filling up with half used hair products and i want to find one that works.
Also i dont even know how to apply all of these products so they could be exactly what im looking for but i just do it wrong.
I want smooth, sleek and straight hair where it seems every hair strand is individual and soft . I want it to be dead straightand shiny so if i had it in bunched and took it out it would bounce back into straightness
If you know anything that will make this happen or ave any advice please help me..:-)
LuV
Rachel (link)
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I know EXACTLY where you're coming from. I have naturally straight hair but in August I got a perm in it and now my hair is a mess. You need a straightner that you can use on dry hair (if yours does that then you're in luck) Wash your hair, blow dry, (trust me) then straighten it. This works like a charm. Your hair will be gorgeous, sleek, and oh so soft. No one wil be able to resist.
Good Luck!
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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