Hey. um. well when my friends and I play truth or dare. I usually just watch ya know..well they;ve been getting on my nerves about me being a chicken.. the truth 'how far have you even been'..always comes up..and well when I was 8 years old I was, well raped.. and I dont want to say that I was raped..but other then that, I've never been anywhere (still severely afraid of guys and what they're capable of)..and if i say that, well i'll be considered prude..which i guess is the case..any way to avoid this??
Sorry-its so long.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? sh0w3rg3lbaby answered Saturday April 2 2005, 12:03 pm: My advice is to just say you haven't done anything. Your rape situation never has to come up. I know what you're going throuhg. I was raped when I was ten and though I recovered quickly it was still very tramatic. All you have to say is you've never done anything because you're not ready and if they keep pestering just tell them that you don't appreciate it and you'd like them to respect your privacy and stay out of your personal life. If this doesn't work I'd advise you to get new friends because these obviously don't care about or respect yor feelings.
LiSaxOBaBii answered Friday April 1 2005, 4:34 pm: no! definetly not. If any thing it shows respect for yourself that you haven't done anything yet. Most of these girls are all talk anyways and just saying they're experienced so don't worry. And you don't need to bring up the rape situation because you had no control over that.
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karenR answered Thursday March 31 2005, 11:20 pm: Since the question is how far have you been, and since an 8 year old was hardly a willing participant I think you could say you haven't been anywhere without it being to much of a lie.
Let them think you are a prude. Who cares.They most likely are lying about what they've done anyway. Is there nothing else you can play? Don't let them get to you okay? [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
oX_GrAcE_Xo answered Thursday March 31 2005, 10:53 pm: oh my god! i am so sorry :*( really but do thay know that you were raped? if thay did thay are tottle jerks! if thay dont say dare then thay can not ask!! [ oX_GrAcE_Xo's advice column | Ask oX_GrAcE_Xo A Question ]
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