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Tell me if I'm over-reacting, but...
My best friend Sara came over yestery, and we started watching a movie, Raise Your Voice. And, well, these guys call her. Background info about the guys, one of the guys and sara were supposed to go out but sara's best friend (now ex) stold him away from her, and the other, well they kicked it and he started standing her up, so things stopped. But yeah, they called her saying they were going to some park/lake nearby and they wanted her to go with. She knew I couldn't go, and then she called another friend and begged HER to go with. Then when she got off the phone she looked at me and was like, are you mad?e I said yeah maybe. Then she's like oh I'm such a bad friend... and calls the guys back saying come pick me up! Agg! Who does that? Thats the reason her last friendship, fell apart, her other friends ditched Sara and so she should know how it feels. This isn't the first time we foughta. We fight a lot. And today in the morning I didn't call her up for school like usual and she calls half hour later saying why didn't i call her to wake her up?and i said that i thought she'd be up already, and sjhe clicked. so then at the bus stop i didnt go anywhere nearher and then she came to me to give me my books back and take hers and said something ... then called me abithc. I dont know what to do, everyone likes her. SHe talks about everyone behind their back. Agggh it drives me insane because no one believes me! I will give you a 5 if you give me a good response. Thanks in advance! :=)
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Here's my brilliant answer. It's time to get a new friend. Don't worry about if everyone believes you or not just worry about the fact that YOU know what kind of 'friend' she is, or shall I say isn't. You can do way better than this chick. If she's ditching you for guys and talking trash then she's just wasting your time and doesn't care about you.
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hey im not just responding because you said you would give me a 5 if it was good im just saying dont let it get to you i think you should talk to her and be like for real u call me a bitch but just think if i did that to you what would you do she would probally be upset right i think that if she is going to sit there and ditch you i dont think she is worth being friends with and if she is going to talk bout people she apparently isnt a good friend and another thing dont spend all your time trying to get people to believe you about her talking about everyone in the mean time just be your self and if she decides she isn't going to ditch you talk it out with her good luck hope my advice helps you!!
* Britany *
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You are NOT over reacting! No way! ok, this obviously doesn't realize what good friends she has in front of her! I would be pretty mad as well! Her ditching you???? No that is NOT something a good friend would do to hang out with some dick heads! If she is going to do something like that to you, she doesn't deserve you! You're way better and would never do that to anyone (or i would hope, knowing how it has happened to you and you would know it would hurt someone else) I think you should confront her about it and tell her, "Hey it was a pretty snobby thing of you to do that for some guys! You have no right to be mad at me for something I didn't do! How would you feel if I ditched you with another friend of mine for some guys while i was over YOUR house?!?! I'm not trying to be in a fight with you, but that really hurt my feelings!"
*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*
-*Marissa*-
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no. your not over-reacting. that so wasn't right of her. she was at your house hanging with you and bloew you off for some guys.. chicks before dicks.. so you have a right to be mad at her for that. maybe she didn't realize that she blew you off. maybe you should call her up and be like heyy is now a good time to talk? and just be like. the other day when you were over and you left.. it was like you were blowing me off. i know you know how that feels, and it doesn't feel good. i was just wondering, did you relize you hurt me? and then just take it from there. i think if you just talk to her, you 2 will connect, and start to understand eachother.. and hopefull that will never happen again
hope i helped
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