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how often do girls mastrubate, because a girl i know said she has only ever done it about three times, so is that true or do you think that girl was lying and has more often
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some girls do it a lot and some girls dont even do it.
i dont do it really, cause i dont really see a reason to.
but other girls do it a lot.
it just depends on your personality


15. me and my boyfriend are considering having sex, and i was wondering if i shouldn't be on my period. i'm guessing it'd be better that i wasn't but i'm not totally sure. also, i started my period when i was 11, and it hasn't been regular for 5 months staight since. my mom said its okay, becuase thats how she is. but if i have sex, how will that affect my period since it is alreayd irregular? sorry this is so long, thanks in advance. (link)
Sex is fine, as long as it is protected.
sex wont mess with your period cycle, unles you get pregnant.
i wouldnt do it with your period, cause then it just gets kind of messy
so i would do it, sometime when your not on it and when you have protection, cause it's dumb to do it with out it.

Have fun :)


i like this guy and he likes me back. his birthday is coming up in a week and i am not sure what to get him or if i should get him anything at all.. can you please help me? (link)
you should get him a movie or two so you two can watch something together.

like invite him over to your house the day before his birthday and just hang out and give him the two movies and just be playful. maybe give hima birthday kiss?


uhh what do you get you're boyfriend for valentine's day? (link)
you can get him anything you want to.
girls usually dont get their boyfriends something big and expensive, though the boy gets the girl something nice.
you can get him clothes, cologne, a necklace, a gag gift, or an inside joke of ya'lls.

if you're still stuck as his bestfriend what to get him .. they'll help.


i'm a little bit disproportioned. my upper body is small, like my shoulders are narrow, and my arms, and stomach and boobs are small. but my lower body is big, my thighs and butt are really big. i want to kinda even it out by thinning out my thighs and butt, suggestions? (link)
work out .. get the other parts of your body down.


i'm not the skinniest person ever
and i want to be smaller
i'm starting that special k diet
kind of hoping that will help
but i've been kinda fat since i was really little
and no matter what i've done
(excersize wise)
nothing really helps that i've done
it's just made me bulkierish
but can you suggest anything that will help me lose weight?
and thin out my thighs majorly
without making them bulkier
because if my thighs were thinner
i would me so much more content with my appearance

thanks (link)
you are probably just muscular, so that's why you never get skinnier.
just eat right and excersize and you'll be fine. if you dont slim down then you're muscular. and there's nothing you can do about it .. iwouldnt worried about it too much.

just focus on clothing that will make you look better, like short shorts probaly arent the best thing for you, but maybe skirts that go below the knee are. or skinny leg jeans wouldnt bee to flattering, but flaired would be. of you wear things that look good on you, you'll look fine.


how do you know if you're really depressed, like in a way where you have the chemical imbalance shit and you need medication for it ? (link)
you would have to go to the doctors of that .. if you feel that you are or if you're worried i would. talk to your parents and ask them to take you to the doctors


ok,well this year im a 32A,first i want to ask,im 4"10, do you think 32A would be regular if im this short? (im 13) alsoo,about bathing suits....are there any bathing suits that enhance less-busty girls so i dont look compleatly akward in a bikini? acutally,what kind of bikini would be best for 32A girls? also where can i buy these? hah thanks...one more,(sorry) is it possible to go up a size within 5 months? thank you!! (link)
i'm rather small aswell, so i get some bathingsuits at victoria's secret (you've got to get them offline). they have a pushup built in .. but it looks very real. they're having a big sale on their suits from last year, and they are very cheap. so i'd check it out.

a way to go up in a cup size would be to eat a lot .. because boobs are made up of a % of fat. so work out, but then eat a lot.


Okay uhm...
Lately, I've been looking at porn a lot.
Specifically lesbian stuff.
Videos, pics, anything.
I just wanna know...
Is this normal?
Cause I'm a 15 yr old girl.
You wouldn't think I 15 yr old girl would be interested in that kinda stuff.
Idk why I do it.
=/
Is it normal?
Is it perverted?
Is it wrong?
Is it weird?
HELPP!! (link)
nahh, it's all good.
we all do it, if we admit it or not.
and the whole lesbain part is fine too.. we all go through stages.
do you have a boyfriend? if so maybe the two of you can do things together.
you're probably watching it so much because you're horney and so you turn to that. so you and your boyfriend could do things together to make you a little less horny .. or you can do things to your self.

but it's all good, i promise.


i guess i can say im jelouse, of when my boyfreind is with this girl in his classes and inbetween classes alot, and occsaionaly sits with her at lunch, i mean i trust him by all means, but i hate bein jelouse cuz it hurts me and effects my mood. but i hate seein them laffing together and im pretty sure what i see is a form of flirting... what should i do i mean do i have a reason to be jelouse if there kinda flirting...? he reassures me its nothing like that but when he first met her he was al like shes mad cool, we have so much in common , and shes in a lotta classes with me, and we walk together to our classes. it hurts, sometimes i just feel like shes on his mind when i want to b the one on his mind, and knowign that hes with her in gym and what not = / idkk i need advice (link)
i was having this probably with my boyfriend a while ago. and it sucks, i know. and you just feel frusterated .. and when you talk to him about it you feel like you're going to be a jealous girlfriend. and that's no fun.

i just talked to him about it and i was like i dont mind when you talk to girls, because i know you're friends with them .. and i dont want to take your friends away. but there's just this one girl that drives me crazy. when you talk to her i just get jealous and that's not good. maybe you do not realize it, but you do flirt with her and it makes me mad .. so all i'm asking for you is to be aware that you do sometimes flirt with her and maybe you could stop. i want you and her to still be friends, but maybe stop flirting so much.

so try that with him. but you've got to keep this in mind. he's with you, not with her .. and he likes you, not her. so be more positive, and dont let her get to you.


i'd have to say... i think im very unique and i kinda like that about me..so i've decided i want to make shirts of my own,or send in deisgns and people can make then for me. few problemsss...

1) i cant draw at all
2) i dont have ANY idea how to make shirts...
3) theres a design on the shirt i had in mind...but i have no idea how to put that on the shirt (NOT something you sew on,i mean like really on the shirt)

so do you know,if theres ANY sites that will help me make a shirt design and help me learn how to make a shirt? also if you've made a shirt...is it hard? thank you (link)
when i want to make a shirt for myself or people i go here http://neighborhoodies.com/ndev/index.php?osCsid=1c1d42e28fcb0cef81231aa833e15702

they are really helpful!


i like this guy, and he kind of likes me back. i like him more than he likes me and we aren't going out. i want to get him a gift for christmas, but i'm not sure what since we're not going out. any ideas? thanks (link)
well i dont know this kid, or i dont know that i know this kid .. so this'll be difficult.

you could get him clothing from a place he likes, or a giftcard.
you could give him a sport giftcard, to dicks or something, if he likes sports
or if you want to give him something you and him can do together, get him like two movie tickets or maybe a movie that he wants to see? so you two can watch it together.

if you want, ask me again but tell me what he likes and where he shops, that would be easier.

best of luck, and have fun with it!


i feel like there is not enough time in the day to do everything. i want to uphold my social life by going out and talking online and myspace and stuff but there is just soo much homework to keep up wiht and my parents are so anal about my grades. plus like when i do my homework i always get off task or put it off until later than i dont want to do it, so i dont. what should i do its turning into a big problem and my grades are starting to slip.
thanks justine
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first off, spend your time more wisely in school. when you have free time at the end of a class, do homework. or if you have a study hall, work hard in there. or if you've got a lot of homework do some during lunch.

what you're saying is you want to talk and get online but then you want to do well in school. it's hard to balance those out. i'd say when you get home get online for 45 min or so then do all of your homework, then what ever time you've got left you can go out or get online.


14/f

hey, justine. i was wondering if you think love exists in 9th grade. you know..a lot of people say you can't find it until you're older..but i've been going out with a guy for a year and a half now and i think i love him. is this just lust or is it really love? is it possible, in your opinion? (link)
of course you canlove some one in 9th grade, you could love some one in 2nd grade if you wanted to. it might night be the same love that your parents feel for eachother, the love when you stay together for the rest of your life, but yes. i do believe you can love some one no matter what age you are.


Hey, i don't mean to be rude but some of your advice is incorrect. I'm just asking you to maybe research your questions before you answer them. For instance you stated that anal is safer than vaginal sex but you would find that they both are just as dangerous in a sense of STD's, sure you can't get pregnant but STD's are a huge matter. (link)
thanks, but this is just an advice site i'mnot going to be 100% correct 100% of the time. i just give my imput, people dont have to believe me.


14/f

is it normal to feel like ur gonna pee when ur masturbating? (link)
yeah, it's a normal feeling just as long as you dont really pee your self.. you're all good.


is it okay that i masturbate to some of ur questions on here?

like the girl masturbation ones? (link)
sure, i dont care.


hey justine. i go to bishop shannahan. do you have any tips on how to do hair? i usually leave mine down. and straighten it. but i wanted to try curling it but i can never get it right. and it looks bad straighened? do have any tips like how to part it and get it curly and such. thanks! (link)
you should try french braiding your hair and night, while it is wet, and let it dry over night.
put a little gel in it before you, or some one else, french braids it, then put some hair spray in it after wards. and in the morning it should be dry, if not blow dry it a little.
that usualy works.

if not, try curling it with an iron, loes curls. those are always cute.

just have fun with it.


15/f
if you take a shower with a guy, and he cums, but not in you, can you get pregnant? (link)
nope, i do not believe you can


well i need to know a certain way to masterbate i have heard of running a warm stream of water ove the head of my penis but that hasnt worked for me, any suggestions? i hav also heard about sticking a tampon up my ass to hit my prostate but i just cant find it, plz help. (link)
hm, i'm not really sure. i'm a lady, so i dont know much about jerking off, but ask a guy?




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